Confusing

[Mike_05]

Confusing

 

[dolf]

If i had a low libido, it wouldn't do anything for me. Encouraging it would probably be a compromise, to try to make him feel included and desirable, without having to engage in unwanted contact.
...Because lack of libido doesn't mean that she doesn't love and care, and she probably wouldn't want him to feel bad about her lack of lust.

 

[Pairaclities]

If you have a low libido, would you like to watch your husband jerk off for you? Would you encourage him to do so?

If it was my wife with low libido I would suggest she engage me orally in an attempt to boost desire.
I would not like her suggestion for me to jerk-off.

 

[neci]

that is best asked of the individual wife. what she likes and the wives of lit like may vary greatly. maybe she is tired of you touching yourself and wants to just be held? frontage? i’m sorry i came on you thigh, wifey. it just came out. just make sure you are cleaning up after yourself. no wife needs another mess. maybe she wants no touch or visual. maybe she wants it in the mouth. you never know unless you ask.

 

[talynn]

If you have a low libido, would you like to watch your husband jerk off for you? Would you encourage him to do so?

Yes. Sometimes I am not in the mood but I can tell husband is horny. I sometimes ask if he wants to jerk off for me. or sometimes even let him jerk off ON me. its fun.

 

[NikiVien]

If I'm not in the mood, but my husband is, I'll happily give him oral or a hand-job.
If I'm feeling mean I'll make him wank for me - he doesn't much like wanking himself - but that's part of the game

I'm pretty sure I would do the same if I had long-term libido loss.

 

[Chernosoth]

Low libido people are unlikely to find this site.

 

[dolf]

If I'm not in the mood, but my husband is, I'll happily give him oral or a hand-job.
If I'm feeling mean I'll make him wank for me - he doesn't much like wanking himself - but that's part of the game

I'm pretty sure I would do the same if I had long-term libido loss.

Long term libido loss is nothing like "I'm not in the mood."
There really is no comparison.

 

[Lifestyle66]

Help advice about high libido husband with low libido wife.

My wife goes to a health spa (yeah, it's a real thing with an actual doctor) for hormone replacement therapy pellets, which are implanted under the skin every three months. It's a very small quarter-inch incision (in her butt) which heals in three to five days. But she swears by the increased energy level and her ability to sleep better at night. And I'll swear by her wearing me out almost every F-ing night! And when I can't meet her needs, she's now into her toys after I go to bed.

It took her into her second or third set of pellets (six to nine months) for this to peak at this high level. But she's now into her second year of this, and I'm not complaining (other than being worn out)!

 

[Noor]

Help advice about high libido husband with low libido wife.

Have her see a doctor.

 

[DoctorSmith8]

Yes. Sometimes I am not in the mood but I can tell husband is horny. I sometimes ask if he wants to jerk off for me. or sometimes even let him jerk off ON me. its fun.

If only my wife would be so understanding