Confusing relationships.....

[plasticman33]

I sometimes feel like I'm stuck in field full of daisy's, pulling off one petal at a time......."She loves me.... She loves me not......"!

Did you ever get to the point of saying, this just isn't worth it!

 

[alexandraaah]

I sometimes feel like I'm stuck in field full of daisy's, pulling off one petal at a time......."She loves me.... She loves me not......"!

Did you ever get to the point of saying, this just isn't worth it!

Yes. being led on isn't fair and rarely if never materializes into something of value.

 

[Elizabeth]

Did you ever get to the point of saying, this just isn't worth it!

Yes...and it isn't worth it.

 

[Xander]

IN the past, yes a couple of times. There is a time when you'll just have to let go.

Dont happen often at all though.

 

[estevie]

I sometimes feel like I'm stuck in field full of daisy's, pulling off one petal at a time......."She loves me.... She loves me not......"!

Did you ever get to the point of saying, this just isn't worth it!

It happens to the best of us, plastic...hang in there, my friend!

 

[juicylips]

I sometimes feel like I'm stuck in field full of daisy's, pulling off one petal at a time......."She loves me.... She loves me not......"!

Did you ever get to the point of saying, this just isn't worth it!

If you keep getting pieces of your heart plucked out like that there will nothing left pretty soon.

Parts of you will be everywhere and who will put you back together??

No. Babe. It isn't worth it. You have to put yourself first.

Cassidy

 

[Hamletmaschine]

I sometimes feel like I'm stuck in field full of daisy's, pulling off one petal at a time......."She loves me.... She loves me not......"!

Did you ever get to the point of saying, this just isn't worth it!

I tend to trust what she tells me. If she says she loves me, then I'll believe it until she tells me otherwise. I don't say 'I love you' lightly--and I tend to assume others don't either. I've been burned, but I keep believing what people tell me.

If she hasn't said she loves me, then I don't spend a lot of time wondering about it or do the daisy-picking thing. I assume she doesn't love me.

~H~

 

[plasticman33]

Re: Re: Confusing relationships.....

I tend to trust what she tells me. If she says she loves me, then I'll believe it until she tells me otherwise. I don't say 'I love you' lightly--and I tend to assume others don't either. I've been burned, but I keep believing what people tell me.

If she hasn't said she loves me, then I don't spend a lot of time wondering about it or do the daisy-picking thing. I assume she doesn't love me.

~H~

Mixed signals is the main part of the problem. If a woman tells you she loves you, you'd obviously believe it, and the feelings have been reciprocated. Then you're placed in limbo, due to other issues she's trying to deal with. Oh well, I'm old enough to know better.

 

[MidnightAngel]

Re: Re: Confusing relationships.....

Yes...and it isn't worth it.

AMEN!!!

 

[VanB]

Plasticman, my sympathy - it's like having your heart cut out with a blunt spoon.

Try to be a fatalist - what is meant to be will be.

 

[bored1]

After years of this type of stuff from my x,with the most recent episode being 3months ago.I finally looked in the mirror and said NO MORE! Its difficult to be sure,But it sure beats that feeling you get in your stomach! Plus I finally realized that Im not the one with the problem. Hang in there.

 

[Calamity Jane]

Plasticman... it isn't worth it.

I don't care how many times someone tells you that they love you, if they're playing with your heart and leading you along, then they DON'T LOVE YOU.

Doesn't make them a bad person, or you a stupid one. Learn from it and move on. Make the break final, no questions asked, just over and done with (and yes, i know that's easier said than done).

 

[DarkkSeduction]

I thought I was all alone in this... hands you another daisy*

 

[MissTaken]

OH boy, Plastic!

I like how you put this.

Been there, done that!

Oops

I mean

I am there and am doing that!

Got any extra daisies?



Miss T: trying to figure out when enough is really enough!

But getting closer ..........

 

[Laci]

I know its hard when you really love someone you feel like a part of you has died when its over regardless of who left who. Trust me when I say that I was in a dead end relationship that lasted two years and it was as if we were walking around each other trying not to disturbed one another tossing in an occassional I love when we realized things were about to end. Get out before its to late.

 

[Guest]

~humming the tune of "Another one bites the dust"~


I see you finally woke up to Cath!s game. It's about time.

Move on,

you aren't her first

you won't be her last.

~this was posted as unregistered to save myself some embarassment~ Flame me if you must. I was hurt by her also. I'm just not man enough to admit it in the open .

 

[Jacqline]

Plasticman........my heart goes out to you. I guess my best advice is to not go by what's said but the actions that are taken. Sometimes people we love don't tell us they love us but show us by the things they do for us and how caring they treat us. Other people tell us they love us and don't show it at all in their actions. I would say that, between intuition and observing their behavior, you will have your answer. Listen to your gut......it never lies..............

In the meantime, the advice given to you to take time to heal is very good advice. It is your time to take care of you.......You have lots of friends here to support you through it.......(including me).
Good luck.

 

[TWB]

confusing relationships

aren't they all?

Part of the fun/challenge of them, I think.