Confessions: What are yours? Part V

ICT I forgot to log off Lit yesterday before I left for work.

IACT I noticed when I got home from work (just before 1AM) that my husband had moved my laptop from where I left it.

IFCT if my husband found out about Lit he hasn't said anything (yet) but I almost sort of wish he would.
 
ICT I forgot to log off Lit yesterday before I left for work.

IACT I noticed when I got home from work (just before 1AM) that my husband had moved my laptop from where I left it.

IFCT if my husband found out about Lit he hasn't said anything (yet) but I almost sort of wish he would.
I always assumed he just knew 🤔
 
ICT I can't bring myself to rant about my current situation
IACT I did my current situation to myself
IFCT I learned the first name of a LIT crush (NOTE: not going to pursue or reveal)
 
ICT my girlfriend/FWB ended the sexual part of our relationship a few weeks back. It's hit me harder than I expected, and it didn't help that she was upset when I said I needed some time away from the friendship. She thought that was kind of selfish since she had not only been okay that she was always second to my husband, but she had even done two threesomes with us because I wanted them. I'm trying to see that from her perspective, but it's difficult. ☹️

IACT it was kinda rough early last week when Hubby very gently suggested he needed at least a couple days rest from sexual intimacy with me. I will admit that I was using him to help fill the void, so I get it. But that led to a couple of days of heavy masturbation and even flirting with the idea of seducing my work crush. But those thoughts told me my mental state was an issue, so I worked on that, extending my Hubby's reprieve until Saturday night. And oh, it was a wonderful night. 😈 And last night was pretty great too. 😍

IFCT I'm still working on my well being, but it's getting better.
 
ICT at least one person got the wrong idea about my confession regarding hubby, namely "Hubby very gently suggested he needed at least a couple days rest from sexual intimacy with me. I will admit that I was using him to help fill the void, so I get it."

I received a PM that called my husband an asshole for hurting me when he knew I was already hurt. Let me make this clear. He did not hurt me. Trust me, he needed the break, and he was all kinds of loving and supportive about my emotions regarding the end of a sexual relationship with another person. Please, let that sink in before telling me he was an asshole.

Also, not being able to have sex with him as a way to fill the void made me really asses everything and start to see all the great stuff in my life and not just focus on my dark thoughts. I would not have reached that point as quickly if I was using sex to drive the dark thoughts out of my mind instead of confronting them.
 
ICT my girlfriend/FWB ended the sexual part of our relationship a few weeks back. It's hit me harder than I expected, and it didn't help that she was upset when I said I needed some time away from the friendship. She thought that was kind of selfish since she had not only been okay that she was always second to my husband, but she had even done two threesomes with us because I wanted them. I'm trying to see that from her perspective, but it's difficult. ☹️

IACT it was kinda rough early last week when Hubby very gently suggested he needed at least a couple days rest from sexual intimacy with me. I will admit that I was using him to help fill the void, so I get it. But that led to a couple of days of heavy masturbation and even flirting with the idea of seducing my work crush. But those thoughts told me my mental state was an issue, so I worked on that, extending my Hubby's reprieve until Saturday night. And oh, it was a wonderful night. 😈 And last night was pretty great too. 😍

IFCT I'm still working on my well being, but it's getting better.
Totally get the Hubs needing a breather! 🤣. We think we can go 24/7 but those days get further in the rear view mirror as we age!

Sorry about your FWB. I haven’t had a break up in a long time but I know it hurts on many levels. Wishing you the best.
 
ICT I've eaten too much chocolate and cookies over the last couple of days.

IACT Hubby gave me some dark chocolate from Mexico that is to die for.

IFCT I'm wondering if this is his way of telling me I'm too thin. He'd never say it out loud, but I think he liked it when I was about ten pounds heavier. 🤔
 
I saw an employee at a dollar store today who had a major ear wax situation. It was so gross. They were young (maybe 18 or 19?), but surely by then you should know how to groom properly.
 
ICT something I heard from a paralegal with whom my Hubby works has me intrigued and a little jealous... but in a stimulating way. 😉😈

A quick background. The legal services place Hubby works at now is very different from the big firm he used to work at. For example, the firm had a lavish, catered Christmas party every year the weekend before Christmas. His new job has a winter holiday potluck dinner after Christmas (last night, as a matter of fact). It was fun and informative.

IACT I was hoping at first that the paralegal meant something about herself when she said she had something to tell me, as she is very cute. But she wanted to warn me about a client. They do a lot of work with public housing tenants facing eviction or potentially losing their assistance, and she told me one of those was hitting on my Hubby. I guess the first time this client saw him, she came in wearing sweats and a Tshirt and had a few kids in tow. But everytime she's been back since for an appointment, she's been wearing low cut tops and short skirts, and does not bring her kids with her.

IFCT I know Hubby will not act on it. The (cute) paralegal told me he has been having her sit in on the appointments with this client because he doesn't want to be alone with her. Still, it made me both jealous and, more importabntly, horny thinking about him maybe letting her thank him for helping her. 😈
 
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