Compassion for HKBJ w/o flames

[nasty]

Please understand, I don't HATE any of you for being rude to him. I'm just annoyed that people can say "UNited we Stand. Diided we Fall," and STILL be rude to him. "He doesn't know any better." Could be wrong. I just think it's wrong to flame him without trying to get to know him. He even mentioned that he wasn't too smart. KR1, on the other hand? Flame him as often as you want. He DOES know better. Or, I should say, he SHOULD know better.

 

[lavender]

 

[nasty]

Lavy,

I apprieciate that. *hugs* You're not the person(s) I'm speaking too. I didn't want to name names. AHEM, PC.

 

[april-wine]

HKBJ...........can hang with me anytime..........though i have to admit i am not too bright about wrestling lol..........

 

[nasty]

Originally posted by april-wine admit i am not too bright about wrestling lol.......... [/B]

It's fake, I know that.LOL Andy Kaufman wrestled Jerry Lawler as a joke. I know that, too.

 

[Phoenyx]

Aww go ahead.....
As they said in "Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back "
Thats What The Internet Is For....Slandering People Anonymously!!!

HKBJ is a cool guy... I like the fact he has fun talking about wrestling and knows it aint real, but can enjoy the stories....

 

[Phoenyx]

HKBJ...........can hang with me anytime..........though i have to admit i am not too bright about wrestling lol..........

All you need is a teacher..

 

[Problem Child]

Re: Lavy,

I apprieciate that. *hugs* You're not the person(s) I'm speaking too. I didn't want to name names. AHEM, PC.

Please....I have held my tongue many, many times concerning Mr. BJ. I know he's a nice guy, but his whining about how his life sucks, and he can't get a nice girl gets old. He isn't going to get what he wants in life by sitting infront of his computer and complaining and letting everyone here be his enabler.

It's very noble of you to stick up for him, but I have never been "mean" to him, not compared to a lot of things I've said to people here with a far greater ability to handle it. I've tried to be honest with him, instead of tiptoeing around and not offending him, like a lot of other people here do.

 

[april-wine]

All you need is a teacher..

HMMMMMMMMM wanna wrestle lol

 

[Laurel]

This is not aimed at anyone in particular.

What we all need to avoid doing - as I've said many times before - is blaming the entire BB for actions of a single person. Lavender & HKBJ didn't get along - that's between them - but to brand the whole board as "meanies" is plain unfair. I've neither said nor done anything mean to HKBJ, and resent being told I along with the entire board am "rude".

I've seen this happen many many times in the past - and several times this week. It's really depressing that all it takes is two catfights to make people ignore the dozens of positive, fun threads on this BB. People need to take responsibility for their own actions. If they choose to fight with others - and it is ALWAYS a two-way street, as a person cannot argue with himself or herself - and they end up leaving the site because THEIR actions have made them uncomfortable, then that is THEIR choice.

No one is "driven" from Lit. It is 100% their choice to stay or go. The vast majority of members are never involved in nastiness here, public or private.

With all the good feelings and happy things and positivity happening on this BB, for people to harp away on the same 3 catfights for days and days is dismaying. When people complain about negativity, but can only post about negativity, it makes me think they must enjoy the negativity. Else, why would they obsess on it?

That's all. Off to a fun thread.

 

[nasty]

Re: Re: Lavy,

I know he's a nice guy, but his whining about how his life sucks, and he can't get a nice girl gets old. He isn't going to get what he wants in life by sitting infront of his computer and complaining and letting everyone here be his enabler.

I was kinda thinking that you were only trying to be helpful. I just needed to hear it from you to be positive. Still friends?*hugs* OOPS!!!!!!!! You're a straight male. Sorry.

 

[nasty]

Laurel,

I wasn't grand on the idea of posting this,(because I want this BB to be fun, too.) I just HAD to hear it from PC. DAMN, morbid curiousity. That's all.*Joining everyone in a fun threda*

 

[Problem Child]

Nasty...I think you know that if i wanted to rip HKBJ a new ass just for the sake of ripping him a new ass, then I'd just do it and not worry about what you or anyone else thinks.

I told him what I thought of him the other night in no uncertain terms, and it wasn't just to be a prick, it was in the hopes that he will think about how he can help himself instead of just coming here for sympathy. He's had plenty of sympathy and advice from people here. He needs to figure out how to help himself.

 

[nasty]

Agreed. The only thing I'm saying, is, some people can't help the way they are. That's probably BULLSHIT, but...I should have known that if you wanted to rip him a new asshole, you would. My bad. OOPS!!!!!!! Isn't it you that hates that?

 

[Problem Child]

Agreed. The only thing I'm saying, is, some people can't help the way they are. That's probably BULLSHIT, but...I should have known that if you wanted to rip him a new asshole, you would. My bad. OOPS!!!!!!! Isn't it you that hates that?

I hate everything. I thought people knew that.

 

[nasty]

I DID!!!!!!! What do I win? Where's the Peter Sellers av? I LOVE that movie.

 

[Phoenyx]

HMMMMMMMMM wanna wrestle lol

Class begins next week.
Please have some body oil and whipped cream with you.
In order to fully apreciate the intricacies and thenuances of the hand and body holds all classes will be in the nude..

 

[april-wine]

Class begins next week.
Please have some body oil and whipped cream with you.
In order to fully apreciate the intricacies and thenuances of the hand and body holds all classes will be in the nude..

body oil purchased......whipped cream whipped.........can't wait for the classes woooooohoooooooooo

 

[HARDKOREBJ]

THANKS

sorry if i haven`t been on here that much.i am very weak at the moment and don`t know how much longer i can take this.
im not mad at anyone.im just sick at the moment and trying to work while being like this.it is nice to know that someone cares for me.

 

[april-wine]

Re: THANKS

sorry if i haven`t been on here that much.i am very weak at the moment and don`t know how much longer i can take this.
im not mad at anyone.im just sick at the moment and trying to work while being like this.it is nice to know that someone cares for me.

hugs HKBJ......get well soon

 

[thumbs2_ca]

We all care for you HKBJ.
Hang in there and get well.

 

[HARDKOREBJ]

hi

i hope i can get better.it just doesn`t look that good for me.thanks again for all of you who care for me.you are like family to me.the only family that i will ever know.

 

[GuyJD]

Class begins next week.
Please have some body oil and whipped cream with you.
In order to fully apreciate the intricacies and thenuances of the hand and body holds all classes will be in the nude..

"LET'S GET READY TO RUMBLE"
Excuse me, ladies, as I heat up the oil and pop the video into my camcorder.

 

[GuyJD]

Re: hi

i hope i can get better.it just doesn`t look that good for me.thanks again for all of you who care for me.you are like family to me.the only family that i will ever know.

Is it a good time to inform you that you're the adopted one in the family, HKBJ? LOL

 

[Phoenyx]

body oil purchased......whipped cream whipped.........can't wait for the classes woooooohoooooooooo

when classes begin you will throw your self at me and try to get me down then keep me down using any methid possible...

then we will move onto advanced holds and techniques.