CuriousCat89
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- Feb 16, 2024
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It's funny - I've been around lit long enough (25 years, on and off!) to know that it ebbs and flows.
But this is my first time coming here to find a companion (lower case for now) and my first post looking said companion yielded nice people, briefly.
Is the end of skype part of the problem so now, no one is on the same chat platform?
Maybe the problem is, like Taylor said, me!
It seems like everyone is looking for a little girl these days and I'm not sure how Daddy culture became so prevalent but that's not my thing.
Anyway, I'm still looking for my caustic, assertive, boundary following, communicative, chat partner to maybe turn into more.
My original text is below:
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It's been a while, as I look on and off. I've had success before with long term relationships so I thought I might try again.
I'm a 40-something female mostly happy at home but alone often so I'm not looking for anything messy or to talk about how much we hate married life or our exes.
What I like: cooking (mostly plant based), travel, exercise, politics, girly things like the spa, good TV shows. I like my job, and I have no problem admitting that I don't really love going out anymore unless it's to concerts - with proper ear protection now! I'm more submissive/masochistic. I'm trying to read more as an answer to limiting social media and not doing well so far.
What I like in a partner: quiet dominance - doesn't need everyone to know his business, someone who likes similar things but not the exact things, someone who isn't ashamed of their home life, someone who has a good job that challenges them and wants to talk about it. Who understands that I have a life off-lit, and understands boundaries. Someone who wants to build a trusting communications-based relationship that could turn into more with the right level of trust and chemistry. An agreement that awkwardness is reality. Ideally someone in their 40s because, lets face it, cultural references in common do matter!
What I don't like: MAGA, MAHA, negging, daddies, people who I know have been sending the same message to everyone on lit for 3 years with no positive outcome. Smoking and drinking. Dick pics and immaturity.
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So, send me a note and I'll do my best to respond if I think we're a good fit. I use Signal off lit, if we get that far.
But this is my first time coming here to find a companion (lower case for now) and my first post looking said companion yielded nice people, briefly.
Is the end of skype part of the problem so now, no one is on the same chat platform?
Maybe the problem is, like Taylor said, me!
It seems like everyone is looking for a little girl these days and I'm not sure how Daddy culture became so prevalent but that's not my thing.
Anyway, I'm still looking for my caustic, assertive, boundary following, communicative, chat partner to maybe turn into more.
My original text is below:
****
It's been a while, as I look on and off. I've had success before with long term relationships so I thought I might try again.
I'm a 40-something female mostly happy at home but alone often so I'm not looking for anything messy or to talk about how much we hate married life or our exes.
What I like: cooking (mostly plant based), travel, exercise, politics, girly things like the spa, good TV shows. I like my job, and I have no problem admitting that I don't really love going out anymore unless it's to concerts - with proper ear protection now! I'm more submissive/masochistic. I'm trying to read more as an answer to limiting social media and not doing well so far.
What I like in a partner: quiet dominance - doesn't need everyone to know his business, someone who likes similar things but not the exact things, someone who isn't ashamed of their home life, someone who has a good job that challenges them and wants to talk about it. Who understands that I have a life off-lit, and understands boundaries. Someone who wants to build a trusting communications-based relationship that could turn into more with the right level of trust and chemistry. An agreement that awkwardness is reality. Ideally someone in their 40s because, lets face it, cultural references in common do matter!
What I don't like: MAGA, MAHA, negging, daddies, people who I know have been sending the same message to everyone on lit for 3 years with no positive outcome. Smoking and drinking. Dick pics and immaturity.
****
So, send me a note and I'll do my best to respond if I think we're a good fit. I use Signal off lit, if we get that far.
