RudyGardet
Dread Pirate
- Joined
- Nov 14, 2017
- Posts
- 386
I am pretty new to Lit and am really surprised by the thrill I've gotten from connecting with other real people. Forum threads and PMs are nice and definitely a useful tool for getting to know each other, but I've has some intense erotic experiences in LitChat (if you aren't using it you should!!). Something about connecting with another real person in real time and sharing fantasies or roleplaying something that is frequently on your mind but not likely to happen IRL is amazing. Hell, just talking/chatting with other people who have enough of a brain to be on Lit rather than some random porn site is a treat!
However the problem I'm having is the time and random chance involved in finding a good chat partner. I get it, just like the bar scene you've got to get out there and spend some time scanning the room, throw out some feelers, chatting up folks who in the end you don't really connect with, etc. In a perfect word I wouldn't mind spending that time, and I definitely don't mind spending time building up with someone I'm connecting with, but none of us have an endless supply of time.
Bottom line, I'm looking for a 'Chate' - someone who would like to either meet in LitChat, or maybe some other platform (Skype, Kik, I don't know, I'm new to this!) at a scheduled time. We could get to know each other through PMs (I welcome them) and then maximize our time together when we can connect for real.
44 mwm, 240 lbs, dark hair going gray, especially in my neatly trimmed full beard. I'm definitely willing to share pics as well as real life stories, fantasies, and ideas for roleplaying.
However the problem I'm having is the time and random chance involved in finding a good chat partner. I get it, just like the bar scene you've got to get out there and spend some time scanning the room, throw out some feelers, chatting up folks who in the end you don't really connect with, etc. In a perfect word I wouldn't mind spending that time, and I definitely don't mind spending time building up with someone I'm connecting with, but none of us have an endless supply of time.
Bottom line, I'm looking for a 'Chate' - someone who would like to either meet in LitChat, or maybe some other platform (Skype, Kik, I don't know, I'm new to this!) at a scheduled time. We could get to know each other through PMs (I welcome them) and then maximize our time together when we can connect for real.
44 mwm, 240 lbs, dark hair going gray, especially in my neatly trimmed full beard. I'm definitely willing to share pics as well as real life stories, fantasies, and ideas for roleplaying.
