Coincidence? Karma? Fate? Dumb luck?

[MissTaken]

How many times have you heard dear ole' Miss T complain, whine, bitch and moan about how futile it is to make friends in the lifestyle in rural New York?

Are you tired of my pissy ass moaning?

Well, it is over, dear friends.

Yesterday, as I was having a garage sale to earn some money for groceries and looking for apartments (as I can no longer afford the luxury of four bedrooms and two baths) a woman stopped at the sale.

She was very interested in my clothing and before two long we were discussing many things, including potentially living together to offset expenses.

Great idea, you say! NOT! How to explain to someone you are with 24/7 that you are a pervert and addicted to the internet?

Lo and behold, she very nicely mentioned her Alternative Lifestyle chat room.

Before you know it, we were babbling like school girls as we are both bi subs and had actually shared some e mails many moons ago!


So,

Coincidence? Karms? Fate or dumb luck?

 

[CarolineOh]

Kismet

 

[cymbidia]

My overriding principle, the only even partly pseudo-religious tenant to which i claim any allegiance is this:

The Universe will provide.



We get what we need and what we deserve, be it life lessons or a roommate, because the Universal Mind seeks balance in everything. This quest for balance that extends even into individual lives.

I'm so happy for you, B.

 

[Briantc]

lucky?

maybe youre just a nice person that deserved something good! I have read alot of post by you and you sound like a great person.Thanks for beeing you

 

[WriterDom]

If they ever put a book together called "Chicken Soup for the BDSMers Soul" you'll have a story!

 

[MissTaken]

Now, after having spent an afternoon together, she has clearly stated her hopes that we can play.

I can't say that the idea completely turns me off, but am rather confused.

We will be seeing on another tomorrow to run some general errands and talk.

Hmmm

if is it the universe that is providing, it has an odd way of doing so!

 

[cymbidia]

MissT?
Remember: you never have to play if you aren't comfortable doing so.

Remain clear on who you are and what you want (and remember, what you don't want is just as important as what you do want). Face what comes your way with the serenity that knowing those things about yourself can bring.

Maybe this will work out.
Maybe it will not.

Remain true to yourself, though, and all will be well.

 

[MissTaken]

Thanks, cym!

I explained to her what I had previously envisioned my bi experiences would, were and should be.

I explained that what we were discussing was beyond what I had considered.

I also told her that I needed time to think. She very graciously responded well, offering time and no pressure.

Not a bad interchange, but again, once again, my wheels are spinning and I have to consider another facet of my sexual self.

Ahhh a never ending journey!

 

[CarolineOh]

I wonder if, like you, she has felt isolated, and is getting a little carried away with enthusiasm at meeting someone with whom she can share her interests.
Not that I don't see why she wouldn't be all over you.

 

[Desert Amazon]

 

[MissTaken]

I do think that for both of us, the enthusiasm has a lot to do with the hormones and attraction.

*smirks*


In truth, her genuine interest in me when I was not showered, working my butt off in 85 degree weather has reaffirmed my self concept in terms of being attractive.


I only recently felt and accepted that soem find me attractive, but the looks and desire of a stranger go a long way to strengthen your self image.

 

[cymbidia]

DA!





Where you been, darlin'?

 

[cellis]

Oh Miss T, there are no accidents in this lifetime. Everything happens for a reason.

I can't help but think how wonderful for you that a bi sub just falls into your lap, when Himself and I have been looking for one for at least 6 months.

A roommate with a potential as a playmate... oh to hone those repressed Domme skills... LOL...

Seriously though, I am so happy for you and hope things work out for you.