Cockteasing without BSDM?

[Escritor]

I'm new here and still learning the ropes, and so please forgive me if I happen to be asking for something that it would be easy for a long-timer to find here.

I love cockteasing stories, but I get turned off by the typical BDSM themes (bondage, meanness, humiliation, slavery, pain, feminization, etc.) that tend to go along with most of the stories of that type that I have been able to find.

Based on the prevalence of BSDM stuff in cockteasing stories and the difficulty I have encountered in locating the kinds of stories that I enjoy, I can only conclude that my personal mix of erotic tastes must be unusual.

Nonetheless, hope springs eternal, and that is what brought me here. I'm hoping that once I describe what I'm looking for, that some of you here might be able to steer me to some erotica that fits my desires.

The following summary provides an outline of one of the types of stories that excite me. Note that this is just one of many possibilities, and I'm not looking for this exact story, necessarily, I'm just using this as an example to illustrate what I mean when I say "cockteasing without BDSM":

Sample story outline:

A single man in his 40's moves to a new city and becomes friends with a married couple of around the same age. They have a 20-year-old daughter that the single man finds quite attractive. However, due to the age difference and his close friendship with the woman's parents, he considers it to be totally inappropriate to make any moves on her, and all he does is fantasize about her when he is alone.

The young woman is a flirt and a tease and quite sassy, however, and she has always been attracted to the man. And once she catches on to his interest in her (despite his constant efforts to hide his desires), she starts using her feminine wiles and sexual expertise to make him want her.

He tries to avoid being alone with her, but eventually he can't escape some sort of situation where it's just the two of them together for an extended period of time. At that point, she really turns up the heat. He wants her more and more, but his sense of appropriateness and fear about ruining the friendship he has with her parents make him increasingly desperate to resist her. This is the main conflict of the story.

The young woman's sexual behavior is a lot like that of the girl Amy in the first part of this story: Amy the Nurse's Aide, with one huge exception: this woman is not mean or controlling, nor is she trying to enslave the man or anything like that. She just wants to make him WANT her so badly that he can no longer resist her, at which time he finally gives in to her.

In other words, the purpose of her cockteasing is to make him say "yes" and finally let her make him cum (all against his better judgement), and with no meanness, feminization, humiliation, slavery, or anything like that.

... but she's still hot and slutty and sassy and direct and manipulative and totally confident sexually, and she still talks dirty and teases him mercilessly until he finally gives in. And because he had been holding out for so long and fighting himself, once she finally does get him to cum, it's overwhelmingly powerful for him.

Anyway, again I want to emphasize that I'm not necessarily looking for this exact story. I'm just using this as an example and contrasting it to that "Amy" story in order to illustrate what I mean about cockteasing without BDSM.

Does this make sense?

Anyway, any pointers to stories like this will be greatly appreciated.

Also, some time soon I'll write my own story like this and submit it here. It's just that stories written by other people sometimes turn me on more than the ones I write myself, and I'm hoping that I can find some that match my desires.

Thanks in advance.

 

[rydia57]

I have one where the woman wants to tie the guy up, but they're playing a game of control intstead. She blindfolds him so he can't see what happens to him. The only sense he's left with is his hearing. She tells him no to touch or respond to her until she's finished stimulating him and ohhh the scenery and the dialogue is wow. He's curious about waht's about to happen, but when she's finished with him, it's awesome. Something like that?

 

[Wordgoddess]

Teasers R Us

Great idea! I'd love a story like that, too! I think I have some writing to do. Check back in my profile in a couple of weeks.

I totally agree; I think meanness and humiliation are turnoffs, although I'm all about a little light BDSM. The whole point of it is that it's supposed to be consensual, though, so I don't get the mean stories (Diff'rent strokes?). Here's how it's usually supposed to work (at least, from what I hear from kinky friends): There's a Dom and a Sub. The whole point is to set the Sub free spiritually, by teaching them humility (NOT humiliation and there is a difference), respect, kindness, and devotion. A Dom is one who teaches the Sub these qualities through a series of sessions which are often sexual in nature, although they can be merely sensual. How that would translate into meanness is beyond me, but I guess for some people who find it a turn-on it does. Everybody's different, I suppose.

I just like lots of teasing culminating in intense endings, so if I have to write a little BDSM for that, so be it, but I usually don't. Keep on reading!

 

[Escritor]

I have one where the woman wants to tie the guy up, but they're playing a game of control intstead. She blindfolds him so he can't see what happens to him. The only sense he's left with is his hearing. She tells him no to touch or respond to her until she's finished stimulating him and ohhh the scenery and the dialogue is wow. He's curious about waht's about to happen, but when she's finished with him, it's awesome. Something like that?

Thank you very much.

However, to be honest, that's kind of the opposite of what I was getting at. The tying up and blindfolding fall into the "B" part of "BDSM" ("Bondage").

The general idea of what I'm looking for is this: even though the woman is attractive and is turning the man on, he does not want to have sex with her. Perhaps it's because of her being the daughter of close friends, or because he wants to be faithful to his girlfriend, or because he'll lose a lot of money in a bet, or because of some other compelling reason. But the woman is persistent and expert at seduction, and despite the man's better judgment, she makes him want her so badly that he finally is overwhelmed by desire and gives in.

And even after he is seduced into some sort of sexual encounter, he still is desperate not to cum. Perhaps that's what would cause him to lose the expensive bet, or maybe it would lead to some other consequence that he wants to avoid. But the woman persists, and even though he is trying with all his might to not cum, her erotic abilities are too much for him, and he finally is overcome by a powerful orgasm.

Teasing is clearly part of a scenario like this, but it's the woman who wants the sex and the orgasm to take place, and it's the man who is holding out against her cockteasing efforts.

Anyway, I have started to write a story like this, which I will post here once it's ready (probably in a week or so, given the small amount of spare time that I have these days).

But in the mean time, now that I have explained this better, can anyone think of any stories like this that I could find?

Thanks again to all.

 

[Escritor]

Re: Teasers R Us

Great idea! I'd love a story like that, too! I think I have some writing to do. Check back in my profile in a couple of weeks.

Thank you! I'm eager to see the results!

Yes, I understand about there also being kind ways to engage in BDSM activities. Furthermore, I know that it's always meant to be consensual -- even the "mean" stuff -- since both parties are wanting to do it and honoring each other's rules and limits. Many people say that the whole thing is about trust (no matter whether it's "kind" or "mean"), and that it can only work well if there is deep respect, understanding, and even love between the parties.

Nonetheless, even though I certainly respect other people's choices, BSDM just isn't my cup of tea, whether it's "mean" or "kind". De gustibus non disputandum est.

I just like lots of teasing culminating in intense endings, so if I have to write a little BDSM for that, so be it, but I usually don't. Keep on reading!

I also like teasing which leads to intense endings, and I'm glad to know that I'm not alone in understanding that this experience can be created without necessarily resorting to BDSM.

Thank you.

 

[Wordgoddess]

No problem

 

[Nieli T.]

Escritor, I like reading stories like that aswell. They're really hard to come by though, unless it includes some form of BDSM. If you do write a story with a similar theme that you described I'd love to read it! As for me, I'll eventually write something along those lines too (with another plot I had in mind).

If you happen to know any stories already on literotica (or anywhere else) like this could you post some links?

 

[Wordgoddess]

Working on it now

My story is about a personal trainer in financial trouble who can't afford to mix business with pleasure, but his client has other things in mind. It's actually turning out to be kind of romantic, so I'm thinking Nicholas Sparks-esque with a cockteasing twist. I might even use it for my Valentine's Day contest submission, and if that's the case, I can't submit it for a couple more weeks or it won't count. We'll see how far I get or if I want to use something else for my V-Day piece. Just thought I'd update.

 

[Wordgoddess]

Here's my story!

http://english.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=181745

There it is! And don't forget to vote!

 

[Wordgoddess]

found one for you

http://english.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=20681

It's called Cocktease, by Parris. It's decent. Her stories are pretty good. I LOVE Rent, but that's another thread.

 

[Escritor]

Remember me?

Hi folks, it's me again ... the person who started this thread some three months ago.

It wasn't my intention to leave all this hanging and to just trail off into nothingness ... and so please accept my apology.

But now, I'm able to be back, and this time, I plan to stay.

To Wordgoddess: thank you for both of these story references. I have to say that of the two, the one I like best is yours. I very much like the idea that the trainer, despite being attracted to his client, has reasons to avoid her come-ons and tries very hard to do so. His resistance and the fact that he finally gives in to the growing desires that she causes him to feel are quite erotically exciting for me.

The story that I am writing (or rather, resuming after my 3-month hiatus) also revolves around this theme.

To Nieli T.: since I'm quite new to Literotica, I don't know of any stories here that are of the form that we are both looking for ... aside from the excellent one that Wordgoddess has submitted. Nor have I been able to find any elsewhere, which is why I came here in the first place.

But I always come back to the realization that if you want something to be done right, you've got to do it yourself.

Given my time constraints, it may take a couple weeks before I feel that my own story is ready for the world, but once it's finished, I'm looking forward to submitting it here. I hope it will be as satisfactory for you as I'm trying to make it for myself.

 

[Wordgoddess]

WB, Escritor!

I'm looking forward to reading your story, Escritor, and THANK YOU so much for all of your positive feedback on mine! I was thinking exactly about what you said you wanted in a story when I wrote it, so I am very pleased that you enjoyed it so much. I'm working on a sequel, by the way, about their date, but it will probably be more of an "erotic couplings"-type of story. Sensual and from Cindy's POV are two good ways to describe how it's going so far. It's more about teasing the reader than the characters, because the characters already want each other, as we learned in the first story.

Oddly, most of the best public comments were from WOMEN saying how hot the first story got them! I guess women like a good tease, too! I will probably include more of Cindy's teasing in the sequel, but Brian won't be quite so reluctant this time. After the first story, I think he'd be out of character if he were! Okay, so maybe he'll be a little nervous that he's so out of practice...but I won't give any more away.

Take care all, and it's good to see you back, Escritor!

 

[silverwhisper]

escritor: that story sounds fantastic! i hope you'll post a link when it's accepted.

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