Cock Talk

[velona]

If you agreed to pose nude (to save the Earth or whatever) in October (it’s now February), would that motivate you to get into better shape or just cause you massive anxiety.

Um, neither?

Are the people you work with in generally good shape, or are there always cake and pizza parties?

Both

We know people start to look like their dogs, but do they resemble their partner—have you and your partner generally been in the same physical shape? Do/did you motivate each other, or demotivate each other?

Generally yes

How do you gauge your general physical body?

I love seeing all the self love in the posts above but I’m very critical of myself. I find the saying “comparison is the thief of joy” to be true, and yet I can’t stop myself sometimes.

Looking at porn will not help, but do you have reasonable fitness goals? Do you stick to them, or put them off forever?

I don’t have “fitness” goals per se, but I do have activities I enjoy and I’ve got to be reasonably in shape to do them.

What exercise do you find keeps your libido going the most?

I was going to say that I didn’t see a correlation between exercise and libido but I think @EvaLane mentioned dancing and dancing is sexy

What part of your body would you like to tone up?

triceps, those things are a bitch to get tight

What part of your body are you happiest with?

Maybe legs?

What motivates you to exercise?

I hate exercise for the sake of exercise but I love being active so the motivation is the view after the hike, the sights along the shoreline for a kayak trip, the fun of a dance party…

Are you willing to sign up for the Great Lit Nude Out in October, to show off the body toning you’ve accomplished in 8(ish) months?

Haha, nope!

If not, why not? If so, why so?

I don’t post pics here, but I do love seeing others who are comfortable sharing!

 

[hotwords229_A]

I love seeing all the self love in the posts above but I’m very critical of myself. I find the saying “comparison is the thief of joy” to be true, and yet I can’t stop myself sometimes.

I’m sure that every one of us is super critical of how we look too, we’re just faking the self love part.

 

[MindYaBitness]

“Hey, do you want half of this cookie?”
“Oh, no thanks, I’m going to a wedding in September.”


Have you, or someone you love, had this conversation? Of course, you have.

Nothing is more motivating than motivation, just ask any woman who has ever gone to a wedding. No matter if she is the Bride, Bridesmaid, or Third Step Cousin Twice Removed, she has a dress, a date, knowledge that there will be a professional photographer present and she will not compromise.

What about a nude calendar?

Lol, I am not a calendar girl. I'll stick to posting pics on this obscure corner of the internet.

If you agreed to pose nude (to save the Earth or whatever) in October (it’s now February), would that motivate you to get into better shape or just cause you massive anxiety.

Probably not. At my age I'm at peace with my body. If you dont like it, look the other way.

Are the people you work with in generally good shape, or are there always cake and pizza parties?

We all travel around quite a bit for the job, so there's no "cake & pizza parties", but traveling has it's own challenges staying healthy.

We know people start to look like their dogs, but do they resemble their partner—have you and your partner generally been in the same physical shape? Do/did you motivate each other, or demotivate each other?

We've both had periods where one is in better shape than the other. Other than complimenting when efforts to tone up have paid off, neither of us really says anything. To be fair, I'm very much an internal motivator/validator, so nothing anyone could say that would really effective me either way

How do you gauge your general physical body? Looking at porn will not help, but do you have reasonable fitness goals? Do you stick to them, or put them off forever?

I think I'm fine, I could lose a bit, but I'm not particularly worried. My family has a lot of longevity. My fitness goals are to just not be a miserable 95 year old lady.

Have you ever been totally out of sync with a partner pertaining to physical fitness—one of you is super motivated and the other isn’t? How do you make that work, or didn’t you?

My spouse gets a bit obsessive, tends to love extreme diets, etc. It's just his personality. I drew the boundary years ago that I'm not cooking him a separate dinner from me & the kids, and we're not having 50% of my counter space taken up by protein powder & creatine mixes. You do you, but don't make everyone do extra work or be terribly inconvenienced by your obsession.

What exercise do you find keeps your libido going the most?

My libido doesn't seem to care if I'm chuvvy or toned
However, we do Salsa/Bachata, and that can be pretty sensual

What part of your body would you like to tone up? What part of your body are you happiest with?

My thighs could always be more toned, however I'm pretty happy with my butt no matter what state it's in

What motivates you to exercise?

The plans me & my BFF have to be absolute menaces in the old folks home

Are you willing to sign up for the Great Lit Nude Out in October, to show off the body toning you’ve accomplished in 8(ish) months? If not, why not? If so, why so?

Nah, first of all, I never go full nude in a pic, and second I'm probably going to look the same in October as I do now, so...

 

[cheekygirl75]

“Hey, do you want half of this cookie?”
“Oh, no thanks, I’m going to a wedding in September.”


Have you, or someone you love, had this conversation? Of course, you have.

Nothing is more motivating than motivation, just ask any woman who has ever gone to a wedding. No matter if she is the Bride, Bridesmaid, or Third Step Cousin Twice Removed, she has a dress, a date, knowledge that there will be a professional photographer present and she will not compromise.

What about a nude calendar?

If you agreed to pose nude (to save the Earth or whatever) in October (it’s now February), would that motivate you to get into better shape or just cause you massive anxiety.

I would never agree, so it’s a non-issue

Are the people you work with in generally good shape, or are there always cake and pizza parties?

I really have no idea, I haven’t met most of the people I work with in person. It varies, I guess. So also no cake and pizza parties, though we did get cookies delivered to us for an end of the year event.

We know people start to look like their dogs, but do they resemble their partner—have you and your partner generally been in the same physical shape? Do/did you motivate each other, or demotivate each other?

I’ve always been with guys who are pretty average, I think, so we’ve been pretty well matched.

How do you gauge your general physical body? Looking at porn will not help, but do you have reasonable fitness goals? Do you stick to them, or put them off forever?

I gauge it by if I feel good and able to do the things I want to or not. I’m a true apple shape, so looking at idealized images of other women will just depress me because no matter how much I work out, I won’t ever have curves in the right places. So I go by how I feel & right now Id like to feel a little more fit.

Have you ever been totally out of sync with a partner pertaining to physical fitness—one of you is super motivated and the other isn’t? How do you make that work, or didn’t you?

Never had an issue

What exercise do you find keeps your libido going the most?

As several others have mentioned, dancing is definitely good for the libido!

What part of your body would you like to tone up? What part of your body are you happiest with?

I’d like to tone my butt a little. I guess I’m happiest with my legs.

What motivates you to exercise?

Wanting to feel better in my own skin and/or wanting to be able to do things (like do rock climbing or rowing or something like that)

Are you willing to sign up for the Great Lit Nude Out in October, to show off the body toning you’ve accomplished in 8(ish) months? If not, why not? If so, why so?

Hell no!

 

[Apisto42]

Average to acceptable.

I know, luckily sometimes some women are willing to share theirs.

Let’s not get crazy. My own are also fun to play with. Variety is the spice of life, but I wouldn’t give up my boys for anything!

? That’s kind of what I was saying. Boobs and pussy are great to play with, but guys deal with a lot less body pain and problems!

 

[Apisto42]

… I'm pretty happy with my butt no matter what state it's in

It’s crazy how many things we agree on!

 

[Xerxes82]

If you agreed to pose nude (to save the Earth or whatever) in October (it’s now February), would that motivate you to get into better shape or just cause you massive anxiety.

Neither? I'm relatively comfy with my nudity until feelings/desire enter the equation and I can get a wee bit self-conscious. But I'm also a believer in real over manufactured. What you see is what you get.

So if you're getting me, you're getting the real me. All of me? Sure, why not? Take it or leave it.

Are the people you work with in generally good shape, or are there always cake and pizza parties?

All of the above. We have some who are fit, some who are not so much. We have em young and in their prime, we have em old and busted.

We know people start to look like their dogs, but do they resemble their partner—have you and your partner generally been in the same physical shape? Do/did you motivate each other, or demotivate each other?

I've looked pretty similar my entire adult life. A little overweight. Short and stocky. My partners have been a wide variety of body types.

I tend to be a de-motivator, I think. I love food and I love women for who they are. If they want to change, or seek fitness I will support them 100%. But I'm fine if they don't.

How do you gauge your general physical body? Looking at porn will not help, but do you have reasonable fitness goals? Do you stick to them, or put them off forever?

I generally have no fitness goals. I walk a lot. That's about it. I've never had the patience for the gym or organized work outs. My currwnt fitness goal is just to walk more comfortably. But that's medical.

What exercise do you find keeps your libido going the most?

Sex. The more I have the more I want.

What part of your body would you like to tone up? What part of your body are you happiest with?

I am utterly indifferent. Take it or leave it.

Are you willing to sign up for the Great Lit Nude Out in October, to show off the body toning you’ve accomplished in 8(ish) months? If not, why not? If so, why so?

Let's all get naked. I have no shame, and there's a bunch of you I'd not at all complain about seeing.

 

[Catepillar_glacier]

If you agreed to pose nude (to save the Earth or whatever) in October (it’s now February), would that motivate you to get into better shape or just cause you massive anxiety.

Nooooo. That calendar would be out there forever…and ever

Are the people you work with in generally good shape, or are there always cake and pizza parties?

I work for a remote company. Half the people use that flexible time to be physically active, the other half use it to sit still.

We know people start to look like their dogs, but do they resemble their partner—have you and your partner generally been in the same physical shape? Do/did you motivate each other, or demotivate each other?

Not since our 20’s. Over the years he’s gotten comfortable in his dad bod. I rely on intrinsic motivation.

How do you gauge your general physical body? Looking at porn will not help, but do you have reasonable fitness goals? Do you stick to them, or put them off forever?

My only goal is to feel comfortable in my skin. I usually workout six days a week, to varying degrees of intensity depending on the time I have available. Some days that means 3 miles and strength training, other days it means a quick cry during a mile, and stretching.

Have you ever been totally out of sync with a partner pertaining to physical fitness—one of you is super motivated and the other isn’t? How do you make that work, or didn’t you?

No, not really. Even with partners who don’t like the gym, I’ve prioritized being with people who like to stay active in some way.

What exercise do you find keeps your libido going the most?

Any kind, endorphins are magic!

What part of your body would you like to tone up? What part of your body are you happiest with?

Impossible to answer. I typically find all of me simultaneously lacking and exquisite, depending on the day, or time of the month. I do always like my hair though.

What motivates you to exercise?

Exercise has done wonders for my mental health over the years. It also gives me time just for me, which is hard to find in my stage of life. And I like setting a good example in taking care of myself for my kids.

Are you willing to sign up for the Great Lit Nude Out in October, to show off the body toning you’ve accomplished in 8(ish) months? If not, why not? If so, why so?

Gosh no. I’m introverted. If I committed, I’d immediately regret it, then spend the next few months dreading it. I’ll skip the self torture.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I find it interesting how many women say dancing is great for their libido.

When I dance, it’s pretty much guaranteed I’m never getting laid.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

I find it interesting how many women say dancing is great for their libido.

When I dance, it’s pretty much guaranteed I’m never getting laid.

I don’t know about the attribution. A hot dancer in my high school is where I learned the quote.

Not because she talked to me, it was just her senior quote.

 

[MindYaBitness]

I find it interesting how many women say dancing is great for their libido.

When I dance, it’s pretty much guaranteed I’m never getting laid.

Have you ever taken a dance class? The best thing about a Salsa 1 class is that no one has any idea what they're doing. So you don't feel particularly foolish messing up because everyone is. Plus, there are always far more women than men, so the odds are good for single guys

 

[Dimented]

Have you ever taken a dance class? The best thing about a Salsa 1 class is that no one has any idea what they're doing. So you don't feel particularly foolish messing up because everyone is. Plus, there are always far more women than men, so the odds are good for single guys

Makes me wonder if I need to find a salsa class….

 

[Dimented]

Have you ever taken a dance class? The best thing about a Salsa 1 class is that no one has any idea what they're doing. So you don't feel particularly foolish messing up because everyone is. Plus, there are always far more women than men, so the odds are good for single guys

The only salsa I know is from a Mexican restaurant, tbh.

 

[MindYaBitness]

The only salsa I know is from a Mexican restaurant, tbh.

That's very, very sad

 

[Dimented]

That's very, very sad

I can do the Roger Rabbit and the Hammer dance, consolation??

In my defense, I live in Iowa.

 

[Dimented]

I can talk endlessly about corn, farming and Busch Lite beer!!

 

[Wand3rlust]

I find it interesting how many women say dancing is great for their libido.

When I dance, it’s pretty much guaranteed I’m never getting laid.

This is because you worry about how you look. Music and dancing is about how you feel. I love to dance. To lose myself in the music, and move my body to rhythms and beats - I cant help when I hear music, I have to start to move. It's IN me.

And when you feel like that? How can you not feel sexy?...