Cock Sucking How To's

[UCE]

I found the following on a yahoo group I read regularly. Hope it hasn't been posted here a thosand times before! I learned some new things from this article, but I was also delighted to find out that I knew some tricks that the author still didn't know, lol!

One cool thing I didn't know was about the position that is best to assume when you're trying to deep throat somebody. That was news to me--welcome news too, because it's a hot position.

This is overall a very sexy piece of advice to read. After I finished it, I swear, my lips were tingling!

Enjoy,
Unda

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How to Suck Cock Properly
Lesson One:

Let's talk about the "basic penis." I regard oral sex as the
highest form of expression of love that can be exchanged between two
people. Hopefully this information will help you to break down any
barriers which you might have that would prevent you from expressing
your love in this way and from receiving a reciprocation from your
male companion.

First things first. LOOK at the cock. I do not mean a cursory
glance not a hurried, surreptitious examination. Take enough time
that you convince your companion that some kind of treat is in store
for him provided he will allow you to do with him, and particularly
with his cock, exactly what you want.

Place him flat on his back on your bed, in a well lighted room.
Take his cock in your hand and LOOK at it. He probably will not have
the will power to stay soft, but then again you are worshipping his
very essence. Few men can stay soft under these circumstances, when
it is apparent that the person LOOKING at his cock is worshipping.
When you first start to touch him, his cock will become hard and
be in a state where your examination will be meaningful. Wouldn't it
be nice if going to the doctor for an examination was as enriching?
The cock must be hard if you are to be able to note the important
parts-those parts sensitive to stimulation by your lips and tongue.

The first thing you will note is whether or not he is
circumcised. Circumcision is not universally practiced: there are
advantages and disadvantages to penises in both conditions from the
standpoint of providing oral caresses that bring the highest kind of
delight to your man.
Next take a close look at the shaft of the penis itself. There
is a bulbous part of the organ near the outer end, slightly larger in
diameter than the shaft, which is often called the head. Technically
this is the glans penis (comes from the Latin glans which means
acorn. Look at it closely; does kind of look like an acorn doesn't
it?)
The outside perimeter of the glans penis is the corona. This
joins the head to the shaft. This is the most sensitive spot on the
penis. It is toward this ridge that you will direct most of your
attention when you are giving head. Follow this ridge around to the
underside of the penis. You know that I like to call it the
underbelly. I am particularly fond of the underbelly!
You will notice a point of juncture where the two ends of this
irregular circle come together. If your partner is not circumcised,
this will also be the point where the foreskin is attached. This tiny
area is easily the most sensitive spot on his entire body, and it is
possible to bring your partner to climax simply by gently tapping the
tip of your tongue directly on it. Spend time caressing the glans and
those areas immediately surrounding it.
Beneath the glans is the shaft of the penis. The shaft does not
have many nerve endings and does not, therefore, provide a man with
any high degree of stimulation when caressed either manually or with
your tongue to the exclusion of the glans penis itself. It always
amazes me to note the number of confirmed cocksuckers who believe
that sucking up and down on the shaft will get the guy off. That's
not it folks! If it works it is because the back of your throat is
playing tricks on his glans penis. Your throat is giving head to his
head!
Beneath the shaft are the testicles (balls, jewels, call
them what you like, but let's not ignore their significance). The
testicles are extremely sensitive to pain and are not usually
considered subject to erotic stimulation to any particular degree.
Not true! You can add a high degree of pleasure for him by paying the
right kind of attention to the balls!
Now lets go back to the shaft of the matter. The opening in the
tip of the glans penis is the meatus. Here is where the cum spurts.
(I could have said semen is ejaculated but I did not want to sound
too professional).
There are other parts of a man's body which respond with
alacrity to oral stimulation. Many men are particularly sensitive
around the nipples. The first time I kissed my partner's nipples he
shot before I had the chance to even get near his cock. While I have
not been able to duplicate this in the laboratory setting (he hates
to go near the lab with me) my partner still gets extremely turned on
by my lingual nipple caresses.
So LOOK at your partner's penis. Study it. Learn its areas of
special sensitivity completely and be ready to apply your knowledge
to his body with your tongue and with your lips when you bend your
loving head over his cock.
There is nothing that you can do which more clearly shows your love
for him than the worship you can provide his cock!

Lesson Two:


The sad fact is that most people do not have the slightest idea
of how to suck cock. Most seem to think that simply by making a cunt
of their mouth, closing it around a man's penis, and bobbing their
heads lustily up and down until he climaxes automatically makes them
expert cocksuckers. Au contraire!
Consummate skill is required to suck a man's cock and provide
him with the highest degree of pleasure possible. When I first
started my quest I really had no one to turn to for advise and
counsel. It was all hunt and suck. Hunt and suck.
Find that one technique that could and would set him on fire! I
had to learn from my experiences and while I would not want to deny
you the innate pleasure that these experiences will bring I would
hate to see you lose a great companion because of your inexperience
and lack of expertise.
Let's assume that you have taken that opportunity to LOOK at his
penis. To explore each area of the penis to find the most sensitive
parts. That you have gotten beyond "Parts is parts" and recognize
that some parts are more
equal than others.

In order for you to observe your man's reactions and get the most
information possible about his responses try the following. While his
erect penis points toward the ceiling, cup his balls in one hand and
gently, using only your tongue, lick softly, but carefully along the
entire underside of his erect organ. As you suck along the underbelly
you will learn those areas that give him the greatest pleasure when
your tongue is touching them. Unless he is made of stone, your
partner will provide you with vivid clues as to which areas are most
pleasurable.


As you discover these areas of enhanced pleasure concentrate on
them. For most men the most sensitive area will be the point where
the ring (or corona) of the head and the foreskin are attached. Or
were attached prior to his circumcision. By continued licking and
tapping along this area with your tongue you are going to bring forth
a geyser. If you are not skilled and you want to please him in a
hurry I suggest that you get him off in this manner in order to
become familiar at first hand with the nature and delight of his
climax.
As he is getting ready for climax you will note changes in his
penis. These signs will be the same every time he climaxes so that
you can prepare for his cum properly. The head of the cock may swell
somewhat larger then it is during the normal course of his erection.
He may thrust his hips forward as he wants to send his body hurtling
out his cock with his cum. And for most men, immediately prior to the
cum, there will appear at the tiny, lovely lips at the tip of the
cock a clear drop or two of fluid. When you see this or feel the
opening at the meateus through his condom you know that the moment of
truth is at hand. Launch the torpedoes, full cum ahead!
Where should you be when you are sucking his cock? Between his
legs, on top of him, in a sixty nine position? Where? Because of the
structure of his penis, as well as the structure of your mouth, lips,
tongue, and teeth, you can provide the highest degree of sensation to
yourself and your partner by kneeling between his legs and
approaching his cock from the bottom rather than from the side or the
top. Don't believe me? Try the various positions. See what works best
for you and your partner.

Lesson Three:

Place his stiff cock inside your mouth but do not tighten your
lips around the shaft. With your head begin a circle motion. The cock
will slide to different places in your mouth as you continue the
circle motion. Watch your teeth on this one. A kneeling position will
suffice but it is also effective when your partner is on his back and
your head is directly over his cock. The circle should be executed in
both clockwise and counterclockwise motions in a slow purposeful
manner. I found many guys who seem to prefer this technique above all
others. When the technique is performed correctly it means many hours
of unadulterated pleasure.

Lesson Four:

With your man sitting in an elevated position and you on your
knees in front of him lift his hard cock to reveal his balls. With
your tongue find the underside of his balls. Now, while resting his
balls on your wet tongue, lick in an upward motion to the very tip of
his cock. It is permissible to use your hands in this technique. It
is better to do this technique several times in succession-like
licking a lollipop or ice cream cone.


Lesson Five:

Now lets discuss a technique that is probably the most common
cocksucking technique in the world. Take his cock in your mouth but
not deeply. We will get to deep throating later on. It's great, not
overrated, but if you want to be an expert at deep throat start with
the right techniques and work your way down, so to speak. Take his
cock in your mouth by sliding your moistened tongue lovingly over the
head until your lips close around the shaft at the point just behind
the corona. Don't just open your mouth and close it around his cock.
Slide it in. He will enjoy it much more. Encase the shaft of his
penis with your hand. Remember the shaft is relatively insensitive to
any kind of stimulation. By enclosing his penis with your hand you
give him the sensation of having his penis encased.
Now you have several options. Try twisting your head from side
to side making sure your moist lips stay in contact with the coronal
ridge. While doing this gently move your hand up and down the shaft.
When he climaxes he may want to push your head further down the shaft
of his penis. He wants to envelop you with his cock. As you are
learning his climax you will miss the fine points if you deep throat
at this time. Instead gently suck around the corona as he climaxes so
that you can intensify his pleasure and increase the force of his
orgasm.
As you gain more experience you will be able to tell exactly
when his climax is approaching and you will be ready for that initial
spurt out the rubber.

Lesson Six:

There is one further refinement to this basic technique which
will heighten his orgasm. If you place your thumb at the very base of
the penis in such a way as to block the tube through which the cum
spurts, the semen cannot escape even though he is spasming and going
through the reflex action of ejaculating semen.
If at the same time you suck vigorously on the head of his cock
you can delay his cum for several long moments. When you finally
allow the cum to spurt it will last much longer and be just as
intense as a result. Even though you delay the cum for only a few
short moments you will be surprised by the intensity of his cum.
These techniques are the basis of cocksucking. Do not go beyond
them until you have become an expert, not only in the techniques
themselves, but also in the reading and interpreting of your
partner's responses to such a point that you know exactly how he is
getting off on what you are doing. When you have reached this point,
you are ready for the more subtle, more advanced techniques.
Don't be so slavish that you miss out on the fun of self
discovery. Find out what works for you and for your partner and make
your cocksucking as individual as your signature. After all, you want
your man to pick you out in the dark among hundred slobbering
cocksuckers.

Lesson Seven:

One of the first things you encountered when you first started to
suck cock was a gag reflex. Most men seem to want to force their
cocks down your throat as far as they can get it. Particularly at the
moment when they cum!
Consider for a moment that the average length of your oral
cavity is three to three and a half inches while the average
Caucasian cock length is five to five and a half inches. The laws of
nature would seem to dictate that getting all that cock into your
mouth is an impossibility.
It can be done. You probably know someone who can do it. It is
possible to master the necessary technique. I don't want to be
boring, but if you understand your anatomy you will begin to
understand the requirements that allow you to take his hard cock into
your mouth and down your throat. The biggest obstacle to taking all
of his cock down your throat is the fact that there is a bend of
almost ninety degrees behind your tongue leading down into your
throat. So the first thing to do is get the cock past that angle.
Get past the angle of the dangle! In order to practice this, get
in a position where you can turn your head in such a way that your
mouth and throat lie almost in a straight line. The best position to
accomplish this is to lie on a bed so that your head is near the edge
with your body sprawled across the bed so that your head is tipped
sharply back.
This position will put your mouth and throat nearly in a line and
will allow your partner to approach you in such a way that insertion
of his cock can be made so deeply that his pubic hair presses against
your lips.

Lesson Eight:


Next practice mastering physical reaction that must be alleviated
before the art of deep penetration can fully be enjoyed. The natural
tendency of the body to gag when a foreign object such as a deeply
thrusting cock being forced down your throat. You can overcome this
tendency by completely relaxing your throat at moment the insertion
is made. It is equally important that you maintain this relaxation
during the entire deep throating.
Let him put his cock down your throat and hold it still while
you find the most comfortable way to proceed. Because of your
position you will not be able to move or to offer him any greater
stimulation than simply keeping your mouth tightly closed around his
throbbing cock. If you are able try to stimulate his underbelly with
your tongue, do it!
You will only be able to relax and take his cock in this way if
you completely thrust your partner. Your partner is in full control.
He must initiate and maintain all the motion. This is the only
exercise in which you relinquish your control of the situation to
your partner. He will relish this for the simple fact that for the
first time he can insert his cock as deeply down your throat as he
wants to.
Now your partner begins an in and out movement that is just like
fucking. He should start slowly, especially if this is a completely
new experience for the two of you. After all if he hurts you he cuts
himself off from one of the great pleasures in life. His only other
requirement during this exercise is to keep the motion in the same
direction throughout this oral exercise as there is simply no leeway
for him to vary the motion from side to side.
One other word of caution. Don't let your partner get carried
away at the moment he starts to cum. At that spectacular moment he
will be able for the first time to thrust his cock all the way inside
your oral cavity and that is the most important lesson of this
exercise! His only other requirement during the exercise is to keep
the motion in the same against your lips as he cums. Because of your
position in bed you will not be faced with the problem of swallowing
his cum. And this is not just because he has a condom on his dick.
The reason is because he has gotten his cock BEYOND your gag
reflex! Without the rubber his cum would shoot directly into your
stomach! If both you and your partner understand what it is that you
are trying to do as well as the possible problems that may "cum" up
along the way no harm or discomfort will happen to either of you.
It is possible that not everyone will learn the "deep throat"
technique but this inability does not make you any less a cocksucker.
You must allow your throat to relax completely while your partner is
thrusting his cock this deeply down your throat. To do this long
enough for your partner to completely get it off is very difficult
and may require practice beyond this day. It may be that you will be
able to take your partner completely down your throat, but you will
not be able to maintain proper relaxation of your throat to until he
shoots his load.
Hopefully your partner will understand that this is not a
rejection of him or of what he is offering you, and it is my sincere
desire that you not stop here and think that you will never master
the "deep throat" technique. Continue to practice this lesson. I know
couples who have devoted ten months to this lesson alone. Continue to
practice this technique because your practice will allow you to take
his cock deeper into your throat each time and for longer periods of
time. Ultimately you will succeed. If you have the desire you will
get this one down pat!

Lesson Nine:


Now lets turn to another portion of your partner's anatomy which
should not be ignored - the family jewels. Here are two objects which
can enhance your partner's feelings more than any other. Many people
do not think of the balls as primary sexual objects. Many men are
extremely sensitive and just as in lesson eight there must be a
certain amount of trust built up between the two of you before he
will willingly let you have undisputed use of these two pearls of
delight!
For today's lesson begin by gently licking his balls with your
tongue. As your partner becomes more trusting you may begin to play
with his nipples with your fingers gradually increasing or decreasing
the intensity as you gauge how he is responding. You may want to
gently caress his cock with your hand while you are bathing his balls
with your tongue.
Remember that the balls are extremely sensitive to pain and he
will lose his trust in you if you do not respect any limits he places
on them just as you have the right to place limits on the back of
your throat until you are completely ready to receive him.
It is possible once you have built up this trust to take both
his balls in your mouth. He will be more receptive to this if you
thoroughly wet them with your tongue prior to taking them into your
mouth. Unless your partner is into the new fad of complete body
shaving he will have tiny hairs on his testicles. By giving the balls
a complete tongue bath prior to taking them into your mouth, you will
have pressed these hairs down along the surface of the sac and will
not inadvertently cause pain by pulling on them.
This may seem a small lesson but you will discover an entirely
new world of sensations for your partner when you take the time to
get to know his testicles!

Lesson Ten:


I hesitated to include this into your lesson plan but finally I
decided that if you are aware of the most safe way to do this
technique that my responsibility for giving you the tools to be the
best cocksucker you can be will be satisfied. Analingus. Putting your
tongue to his anal opening. Ass sucking.
Before you even consider doing this, make certain that your
partner is clean. Immediately out of the shower. Place a piece of
gladwrap over the butt. At no time should your tongue come into
contact with the anal surface itself.
For this lesson place your partner on his back with his legs in
the air and his knees close to his shoulders. This spreads his
buttocks apart and allows you access to his butthole.
You are probably under the impression that actual penetration of
the asshole itself is necessary for your partner to receive the most
complete enjoyment of this technique. Not so mojo! The nerve endings
around the anus itself have no discrimination and you will get him
off just as well and as thoroughly by licking around the area as if
you stick your tongue up his butt!
As with some of your other lessons this technique will not
usually be enough to get him to cum, but I feel that it is important
to know all aspects of your partner's body in order to give him the
most complete pleasure you can. You may find that after many hours of
oral pleasure you need to have other areas to concentrate on in order
to give him the satisfaction he deserves.
Analingus is a powerful stimulant and when combined with other
activities such as vigorous hand stimulation on his cock will cause a
rapid and powerful cum!

Lesson Eleven:


For most of our lessons the only thing required is yourself,
your partner, and a condom. Maybe some gladwrap. A plastic glove or
two. Well, another toy that will enhance your pleasure is a mini-
vibrator. For this lesson you may want to start with your finger.
Then as you and your partner become more accustomed to each other you
may find him a little intrigued about the vibrator and what it can do
for him.
As you are giving head begin a slow playful search around his
ass. Many men are particularly sensitive in this area and it will
enhance the sensations that your mouth and tongue and throat are
giving his cock to feel a finger playing with his butt. As your
partner relaxes and allows you access, gently insert your gloved
finger into his butt. Go slowly exploring the velvety sensations
along the sides of his opening.
When your finger is inside his asshole completely you will be at
the area of the prostate gland. Massage of this gland by your finger
will produce some of the most delightful sensations your partner has
yet to experience.
A gloved finger is really all that is required for this lesson.
A mini-vibrator works exceptionally well for this type of stimulus.
It is just the same length as the average finger and due to the
vibrations that it produces the sensations against the prostate gland
are even more enhanced!
If your partner likes this stimulation you must then discover
which method he likes best. Some men prefer an in and out movement
with the finger or the vibrator while others do not.
One other point. When your partner cums there will be a natural
tendency for him to push the finger or vibrator out of his asshole.
The asshole muscles are spasming and anything in the way will be
forced out. But to maximize his pleasure you must not let this
happen. Hold your finger or the vibrator firmly in place-- this will
help to stimulate the sperm production to its maximum.

Lesson Twelve:

There are times when you will want to get him off in a hurry!
But because I want you to become an expert at all aspects of oral
lovemaking I deliberately waited until now to introduce this
technique. It differs from lesson four in that you are a more
consummate cocksucker now. He will love it all the more if he
realizes that this is not the only trick you have down your mouth!
It is a very simple technique and if you understand your
partner's basic cock anatomy you will grasp this one easily. Place
your lips around the head of your partner's cock and twirl your lips
wetly and gently around the coronal ridge at the back of the head of
his penis. This does not require any great cocksucking skill and it
works simply because this is the area that is most sensitive on your
partner's cock.
It is not necessary to be a skillful cocksucker. All that is
necessary is for you to find the most sensitive area around the
coronal area. By sucking on this area of his cock continuously you
will produce a quick powerful cum. It is not necessary to bob your
head up and down on his cock to get him off. One other use of this
technique is to get him hard again after he cums and you will soon
find him rip roaring to go again.

Lesson Thirteen:

Don't be surprised if you find yourself going back to this lesson
for seconds. We discussed briefly at the end of lesson 12 a technique
to get him going again if he has recently cum. Today after you have
gotten your man off, lets concentrate on some techniques to get him
back on again. Not just to get him hard but to keep him hard. Hard
enough to want to cum again!
After he has cum you may need other techniques to keep him hard
and to keep him interested. Many men (not all but a good portion of
them) are exhausted by a single cum and while it is possible to get
your partner up again you have a long way to go before you get him to
cum again. Cocksucking alone at this time is usually not enough to
get him off. You will need to combine some of the techniques you have
learned earlier with your basic cocksucking technique to stimulate
the juices for a second and third go around. Don't hesitate in your
exploration of his body at this time. His nipples, his balls, his
asshole. His armpits. His earlobes.
For the second cum you are free to really get into his body and
explore all those erotic areas that you missed when you were
concentrating on his cock exclusively. His navel. His toes.
One of the things I find most exciting about the second cum is
the lack of expectation that you must get him to climax within a
certain time frame. You have all the time in the world to really give
his total body a complete tongue bath. You can explore his body
safely and completely and really get to know the total body as well
as you know his delightful dick! This is merely a sign that you are
becoming a true connoisseur of cockflesh.

Lesson Fourteen:
Soixante-Neuf Sixty Nine

Sixty nine is not always the perfect way to provide your partner
oral satisfaction. Inadvertently one of you will "let up" your end of
the deal in order to experience the subtle pleasures the other
partner is giving you. For this reason I have included it as the
final lesson. Many people think that the deep throat technique is the
ultimate pleasure you can give your partner. Actually I believe that
sixty-nine is the ultimate pleasure.
Done correctly and unselfishly when both of you are completely in
tune with each others innermost desires, the sixty nine is the
ultimate. But because of the problem mentioned earlier in this
lesson, most people practice it too early and it becomes an intensely
satisfying experience for one partner at the expense of the other.
When you are completely on each other's wavelength you will discover
that this is the most effective way of giving as well as receiving
pleasure.

TECHNIQUES

The Butterfly Flutter:
The best position for this very sensuous cocksucking movement is
kneeling over your partner. If he is on his back kneel between his
legs. Or kneel in front of your partner while he stands. I like this
position because the cock feels thicker in your mouth and throat and
you have complete freedom to play with his balls while performing
this maneuver.

With your lips firmly wrapped around the guy's big swollen cock head
and shaft gently flick the tip of the cock with your tongue. With
your lips open around the cock at a depth so that you could touch the
tip of the cock with the tip of your tongue. With your lips around
the cock shaft make an up and down movement with your tongue. Flutter
your tongue up and down the tip of the cock.

I recommend you try it! It will drive your Butterfly Flutter partner
back into your mouth at any hour you want him there. After several
minutes of this continue with the basic vacuum suck.

The Traveling Figure Eight:
After you have become comfortable with the basic vacuum suck and you
have become accustomed to his cock deep in your mouth and throat try
this action. It is guaranteed to take his breath away! With your lips
firmly wrapped around the cock shaft try very slowly to reach the
base of the shaft or as close to it as you are comfortable. Your nose
should be buried in or at least touching the pubic hairs at the base
of the cock.

With your nose trace a figure eight as if the figure eight were lying
on it's side. Your figure eight motion should be three to four inches
long. Slowly travel up the shaft of the cock to the head, doing the
figure eight motion. Keep doing this motion and let your lips firmly
travel up and down the cock shaft. Do this for as long as you are
comfortable with it. Believe me your man is floating in orbit as his
wildest dreams of the ultimate blow job are coming true!

By this time you are becoming more and more confident with your
partner. His cock feels great as it fills your mouth and throat. The
cock is becoming harder and warmer as your warm moist mouth and
throat create friction by going up and down that big beautiful cock.
It is time to cool his tool just a little with this technique.


Go down on the cock shaft as far as you are comfortable. All the
while your lips should be firmly wrapped around the shaft. Open your
mouth as wide as you can and suck in as much air as your lungs will
hold. While sucking in air let your open mouth travel up to the cock
head. Your up stroke motion should end at the head of his cock just
as your lungs fill with air. Now with your mouth still open let the
air in your lungs out slowly through your mouth as your opened mouth
travels back down the cock shaft. This technique cools the cock on
the up stoke and warms the cock with your hot breath on the down
stroke. Do this movement as long as you like then return to the basic
vacuum suck method.
The Circle:
Place his stiff cock inside your mouth but do not tighten your lips
around the shaft. With your head begin a circle motion. The cock will
slide to different places in your mouth as you continue the circle
motion. Watch your teeth on this one. A kneeling position will
suffice but it is also effective when your partner is on his back and
your head is directly over his cock. The circle should be executed in
both clockwise and counterclockwise motions in a slow purposeful
manner.
The Lollipop Lick:
With your man sitting in an elevated position and you on your knees
in front lift his hard cock to reveal his balls. With your tongue
find the underside of his balls. Now, while resting his balls on your
wet tongue, lick in an upward motion to the very tip of his cock. It
is permissible to use your hands in this technique. It is better to
do this technique several times in succession-like licking a lollipop
or ice cream cone.
Congratulations!
You are doing just fine and he loves it! Keep it up as long as you
are comfortable with it. For his added pleasure and to give you
something to play with reach up and fondle his balls. Or go up even
further and play with his nipples. This will give him something else
to concentrate on so he doesn't pop his load yet. If you feel he is
about to cum stop what you are doing and let him cool off for a few
minutes. After all you are having fun and you want to enjoy his cock
as much as you can! Then let him pop his load down your throat or all
over your face! Be prepared for a really huge load!