Cock Rings

[hotspur52]

hi. I'm very new here as well as many sites where I aim to contact like minded people for some fun. First though, I have a few questions about the jargon of this world of erotica. When sampling sites with members wives/partners submit photos of themselves, they often invite 'monitors' and 'caming'. Can someone please tell me what they mean? Also, I have just bought myself a Cock Ring and am not sure how to put it on (over my cock only or around my cock and balls?) and as it is adjustable, how tight should it be in order to work properly. I believe that the whole idea of the ring is to restrict the flow of blood OUT of the cock in order to keep it stiff for longer (after cumming?) as well as prolonging the erection and keep me from cumming too soon. How does it do this?

Daft questions I suspect, but I really want to know. Can anyone help me please?

 

[Chicklet]

oh! oh! i know the answer to one!

camming is when you and or the other person have your webcam on for others to view.

one of the more popular ways to do this is through yahoo, because it has lovely large windows for webcams.

viewing and showing a webcam is free, and webcams can be purchased for very little money.

 

[emap]

Oooo oooo I know another one, monitor is so far as I know you have sex with her while he watches, either using a messenger of some sort or in the same room. Generally using a messenger, in the same room sex while he watches is usually refered to as watching or voyeurism.

I've never put on a cock ring, I have an excuse mind you, no cock attached to me to put one on and heck I never heard of them until after I met my current and he lasts quite long enough thank you.

Though so far as I know you want the cock ring tight enough to notice it is there but not overly so. The exiting blood vessels being on the outside it does not take that much pressure to restrict them.

Now I have to say, I have never used one on myself or on someone I am with so what I just said is conjecture. I am sure a knowledgable pervert will wander by shortly to correct me on that.

 

[intruder52]

Well I use cock rings on occasion. You can Google cock rings and get lots of information on how to use one or more. I generally use a slightly larger one that will slip over my cock and balls and provide enough restriction to provide a very erect penis but not restrict blood flow to the point where I have to worry about damage. You will have to experiment on size to find what is confortable for you. Let me say that numbness and pain are an indicator that the ring is to tight or has been on to long.

Also I use more than one at a time on occasion. One around the cock and balls and then one or more along the length of the penis. Using several provides the wife with a different feel than just my cock without rings. I have used up to four or five at one time. Experimentation is what it is all about, and it is lots of fun for both you and your partner.

 

[SweetErika]

I'm not positive, but I'd imagine the distinction between camming and monitoring is that camming more goes along with chatting/cybersex and may involve both people viewing each other simultaneously (e.g. we watch each other masturbate, or I tell you my fantasies and watch you jack off to them), whereas monitoring is more about watching a person/couple masturbate or have sex, without interacting with them a ton.

There are many different styles of cock rings. Some go around just the cock and others go around both the cock and balls. If yours is adjustable and you can fit your balls in there too, you can try it both ways and see which you like best.

It needs to be very snug to fit, but obviously your bits shouldn't be turning blue or anything. At the proper level of snugness it CAN and WILL do damage if you leave it on too long. That time varies, but 15-20 minutes should be your limit to avoid tissue damage (provided you're pretty healthy - if you're a heavy/long-time smoker, or have any conditions that affect your oxygen levels, blood vessels or tissue, set your limit at more like 10 mins). You can certainly use it longer than that; just make sure you take it off every 15-20 minutes and let the blood circulate normally for a few minutes before putting it back on.

 

[jayce1066]

There's a good article on cock rings at http://www.blowfish.com/catalog/guides/cockrings.html
Enjoy.