maplewood2034
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What is the safest way to properly fit a new cock ring? I am new to this idea but totally want to try it, but want to do it right.
Cock ring sizing
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KlaytonFrost
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Measure your penis?
Or you can get stretchy rubbery ones that don't need to fit perfectly. I'd opt for one of those to begin with to see how you like the sensation - especially if you've never tried one before.
Or you can get stretchy rubbery ones that don't need to fit perfectly. I'd opt for one of those to begin with to see how you like the sensation - especially if you've never tried one before.
yeah that's what i use wife and i really like them
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I tend to prefer them to the rigid ones anyway - they exert pressure without trapping or crushing, and they're easy to remove if things go wrong.
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Wearing the Cock-Ring
My older more dominant Boyfriend part-funds my apt, on condition he has a key so he can come around and fuck me whenever the mood takes him, which is fairly regular. I'm a little infatuated with him, and more than a little intimidated by his big beautiful uncut cock. He usually texts me so that I'm nude and ready for his visits. So when he instructed me to shave my body hair I was naturally obedient to his wishes. Then he arrived with a cock-collar for me. He doesn't usually spend time playing with my own body, so I quite enjoyed the close attention he pays to fitting the ring, complicated by my perky erection! Made of leather reinforced by wire, inscribed 'property of ***' (his name) it fits snugly around the base of my penis with the option to tighten it, then around my scrotum so my genitals are forced forward more prominently, the pressure inducing a pleasurable near-permanent sluggish half-hardness. There's a small gold padlock with a key that he keeps. Although it obviously and specifically spells out his complete ownership of my sexuality I gratefully accept this, with an element of playful sex-game there too, and when I see myself in the mirror it sure as hell looks sexy. When I crouch naked to suck him off I'm aware of its pressure on my erection, and it adds to the perky slavish servility of my position. On two occasions when he called around for sex he wasn't alone. He brought a sleazy older guy whose name I never discover, but he gleefully notes my cock-collar and makes crude comments about it. As my Boyfriend watches, I suck the friend off too. Sadly, after a number of months my Boyfriend dumped me (his wife found out about his furtive Gay sex-life!). I allow my pubic hair to grow back, but the cock-collar is more difficult. I use pliers and a Stanley Knife, very carefully in this intimate area, before I could cut it loose, and was symbolically released from his sexual control. It was with mixed feelings of regret...
My older more dominant Boyfriend part-funds my apt, on condition he has a key so he can come around and fuck me whenever the mood takes him, which is fairly regular. I'm a little infatuated with him, and more than a little intimidated by his big beautiful uncut cock. He usually texts me so that I'm nude and ready for his visits. So when he instructed me to shave my body hair I was naturally obedient to his wishes. Then he arrived with a cock-collar for me. He doesn't usually spend time playing with my own body, so I quite enjoyed the close attention he pays to fitting the ring, complicated by my perky erection! Made of leather reinforced by wire, inscribed 'property of ***' (his name) it fits snugly around the base of my penis with the option to tighten it, then around my scrotum so my genitals are forced forward more prominently, the pressure inducing a pleasurable near-permanent sluggish half-hardness. There's a small gold padlock with a key that he keeps. Although it obviously and specifically spells out his complete ownership of my sexuality I gratefully accept this, with an element of playful sex-game there too, and when I see myself in the mirror it sure as hell looks sexy. When I crouch naked to suck him off I'm aware of its pressure on my erection, and it adds to the perky slavish servility of my position. On two occasions when he called around for sex he wasn't alone. He brought a sleazy older guy whose name I never discover, but he gleefully notes my cock-collar and makes crude comments about it. As my Boyfriend watches, I suck the friend off too. Sadly, after a number of months my Boyfriend dumped me (his wife found out about his furtive Gay sex-life!). I allow my pubic hair to grow back, but the cock-collar is more difficult. I use pliers and a Stanley Knife, very carefully in this intimate area, before I could cut it loose, and was symbolically released from his sexual control. It was with mixed feelings of regret...
that is curious. so a cock ring is a sub thing mostly? no wonder I don't know how to do it. Not into dudes. but have had some women ask me and the roll at the end of anything smaller than a Trojan magnum XL IS==*is* a cock ring on me. I'm a grower not a show-er.I will suggest if a sultry female sub wants to control it, her collar is made of flesh and she can lock it down whenever she wants! 
I am only this honest and forward when manic. stress makes me manic. but not hard. maybe I need to be hard and manic. my meds will help with that. Others disagree. touch is a powerful thing.. touch a cock and you empower yourself and your lover's cock. a ring made with thumb and index is a ring easily released under duress but not under your command. If that makes any sense. I need a smart sub to intellectualize all of this because I don't get laid anymore (wife has fibromyalgia and offers up only rarely unless she is high on lots of meds) and need an outlet (music will do much for me, but it won't make me come.. at least not yet).
I am only this honest and forward when manic. stress makes me manic. but not hard. maybe I need to be hard and manic. my meds will help with that. Others disagree. touch is a powerful thing.. touch a cock and you empower yourself and your lover's cock. a ring made with thumb and index is a ring easily released under duress but not under your command. If that makes any sense. I need a smart sub to intellectualize all of this because I don't get laid anymore (wife has fibromyalgia and offers up only rarely unless she is high on lots of meds) and need an outlet (music will do much for me, but it won't make me come.. at least not yet).
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You talking fixed dimension ring around cock n balls all? Steel or such? Visit gearessentials. beauties there, and more importantly, a page about sizing. My experience is that I like a tighter one for the action, and to have it on not more than three hours or so, and the next size up for all-day wear for a pleasant sensation and a handsome bulge. Strangely, the wider ones are more comfortable at tighter size; I guess because the grip is spread over more skin.
I've a thread of several pages long on fet and sexuality central: "The Big O - steel cockrings as daywear" Find it from my profile.
Simon
Cock ring sizing for the impotent is an art and a science. My partner wants to be fucked regularly, and I find it extremely difficult to orgasm when I am not hard. So, I either need to let this wonderfully sexual partner inject my cock with a prescription drug, or I need to use a medical grade pump with cock rings.
It took me a long time to find a combination of two Osbon cock rings that kept me at maximum size, but did not overwhelm me with pain to the point I could not orgasm. The Osbon pump is the only one I've found that gets me really big. There is some pain involve, whether I am being injected or using cock rings, but that just becomes part of the experience. I like serving this partner.
It took me a long time to find a combination of two Osbon cock rings that kept me at maximum size, but did not overwhelm me with pain to the point I could not orgasm. The Osbon pump is the only one I've found that gets me really big. There is some pain involve, whether I am being injected or using cock rings, but that just becomes part of the experience. I like serving this partner.
