Cock crazy

BiGuy_64

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I came out to my (bi) daughter and son last year, months after my wife died.

Both were very accepting and really helpful.

Has anyone gone cock crazy when coming out? I was seriously considering going to glory holes, bath house, anywhere there was dick to suck or fuck. Also was signed into Sniffies, Grndr, Feld..a few others.

My daughter talked me off the ledge and got me to chill. I was going to go to a doctor and get every shot/prescription do I could go crazy.

Now, I’ve calmed down. Having a FWB has helped a lot to take edge off but I still would like more frequent dick.
 
Don’t “rush” out there. Just relax. If you’re out to your kids that’s the greatest freedom I can imagine. You don’t need an ABS to hide what you want or simply for the thrill of something taboo. You can go to bars, events, you can put yourself out there and live. Be happy and enjoy your next chapter.
 
I’m trying! Not much community where I live and don’t want to drive 45 minutes (that’s the closest) to a gay bar. Was thinking of getting a hotel room and got to a couple. I could take train, get to hotel and the walk to a bar.

No DWI for me, please
 
I came out to my (bi) daughter and son last year, months after my wife died.

Both were very accepting and really helpful.

Has anyone gone cock crazy when coming out? I was seriously considering going to glory holes, bath house, anywhere there was dick to suck or fuck. Also was signed into Sniffies, Grndr, Feld..a few others.

My daughter talked me off the ledge and got me to chill. I was going to go to a doctor and get every shot/prescription do I could go crazy.

Now, I’ve calmed down. Having a FWB has helped a lot to take edge off but I still would like more frequent dick.
Absolutely, every day! Oh! Sorry, I misread that as "does anyone go cock crazy upon getting up?" as in up in the morning and yeah...totally. Every day. But that was not the question, dork-in-the-mirror! Stupid idiot who's...stupid.
 
I've not come out but after a breakup I did head down the path of exploring M2M, initially with a gay masseuse and then visiting a gay saune whenever I had the opportunity, handy as one wasn't far from work. So yeah I guess I went for it as much as I could. Then once I had my own place for sure I was on sites like aquirt a lot going to meet guys or have them over as well as exploring dressing and my femme side and finding I preferred to be more sub/bottom and taken bareback. Having moved again 10 years back, this has cooled off tho, in part perhaps since covid as much as anything, tho there was far less success in hooking up here than when I lived the other side of the river.

So I guess it isn't unusual to go 'cock crazy' when you first decide to open yourself to the new you and want the excitement of those new experiences as much as you can :)
 
When coming to terms or accepting your sexuality its very easy to over-react when you discover that freedom. Having an FWB is a great way to ease into the next phase of your life. Relax and enjoy the situation.
 
I would go crazy but with one person or one couple. Thats it. A bar, sauna, or a group thing would be out of the question. It would be like a marriage for me but with out the love and living together part. Would have to be just about sex and all that goes with that. And the idea of cheating or fooling around with some one else would be a solid see you the heck later. I dont want to catch something I cant get rid of.
 
If I was there to help you, I would make sure you were getting cock every single day
Do you know what's an incredible turn-on for me, something I've fantasized about for years but never experienced? To have a woman feed me her husband's/boyfriend's cock. Or guiding it into my ass. I don't know why, but of all the potential “woman watching” scenarios, that one gets me more than any other. Especially if she seduces me into the situation.
 
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