DanceGalNYC
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- May 1, 2011
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Hi! I'm new to BDSM, but very turned on by some of it (especially orgasm control.) I want to prevent my boyfriend from cumming for at least a few days (to start) so that when he cums it is harder and more and a better experience than usual. We are thinking about cock cages, but I am a bit confused.
Based on what I have read, it seems that the ways to have harder, better orgasms is to abstain, and to have him repeatedly get to the edge where he is about to cum then back off. Obviously the ultimate way of abstaining is a male chastity device, but the ones I have seen prevent the penis from getting hard...which seems to contradict the "edging" part, since how can he get to the edge if he can't get hard?
It seems like self-control would be the ideal, but I kind of don't trust him not to cum (esp if its in his sleep)...and I just like the idea of having him under lock and key.
How do cock cages work...how do they create longer, harder orgasms by preventing erections if they won't allow the guy to be teased to the point of almost cumming - or even allow them to get an erection? Also, do you have any suggestions for what kind to get?
Any and all advice you have would be much appreciated!!!
Based on what I have read, it seems that the ways to have harder, better orgasms is to abstain, and to have him repeatedly get to the edge where he is about to cum then back off. Obviously the ultimate way of abstaining is a male chastity device, but the ones I have seen prevent the penis from getting hard...which seems to contradict the "edging" part, since how can he get to the edge if he can't get hard?
It seems like self-control would be the ideal, but I kind of don't trust him not to cum (esp if its in his sleep)...and I just like the idea of having him under lock and key.
How do cock cages work...how do they create longer, harder orgasms by preventing erections if they won't allow the guy to be teased to the point of almost cumming - or even allow them to get an erection? Also, do you have any suggestions for what kind to get?
Any and all advice you have would be much appreciated!!!
