cock cage and voluntary male chastity

[switchersm]

BDSM forum has a thread "male chastity " with only a few posts.
Every erotic webshop sells a lot of chastity devices for men,more than for women I think. The interest to use them in BDSM games seems to be not very big.
So I ask in this forum, are there men on Lit, who voluntary wear a cock cage, who have given the key to their wife and live in permanent chastity - like I do -, that means no more fucking and no more orgasmns (max. 3 -4 mastarbation spurts per year)
That may be a cuckold or another special relationship. I am very interested in the experiences of Lit members.

 

[switchersm]

BDSM forum has a thread "male chastity " with only a few posts.
Every erotic webshop sells a lot of chastity devices for men,more than for women I think. The interest to use them in BDSM games seems to be not very big.
So I ask in this forum, are there men on Lit, who voluntary wear a cock cage, who have given the key to their wife and live in permanent chastity - like I do -, that means no more fucking and no more orgasmns (max. 3 -4 mastarbation spurts per year)
That may be a cuckold or another special relationship. I am very interested in the experiences of Lit members.

No posts, no answer. That confirms my presumtion, that most of the cock cages are only bought to play sometimes, not for a real life in chastity. All the stories of cuckolds and cuckoldry are only fairy tales, fantasies, mostly promoted by the sex industry

 

[MistressMaggie]

I've acted as a Key Holder as well as tormented clients with locking them in using a combination lock and not revealing the proper combo.

 

[switchersm]

I don't know that it confirms anything, but I doubt that there are too many men wearing these devices outside of a bdsm scene or some sort of short term playtime with a partner. I suspect they find the most use among gay men, perhaps even moreso than in the bdsm community since most men take on a more dominant "top" role with submissive females as their partners. I know there are many exceptions and there is some crossover between the gay lifestyle and the kink lifestyle.

Thank you. This may be an explanation that men don ' t talk about.

 

[switchersm]

I've acted as a Key Holder as well as tormented clients with locking them in using a combination lock and not revealing the proper combo.

That sounds a little bit cruel but I think your clients loved it.

 

[bluesky496]

BDSM forum has a thread "male chastity " with only a few posts.
Every erotic webshop sells a lot of chastity devices for men,more than for women I think. The interest to use them in BDSM games seems to be not very big.
So I ask in this forum, are there men on Lit, who voluntary wear a cock cage, who have given the key to their wife and live in permanent chastity - like I do -, that means no more fucking and no more orgasmns (max. 3 -4 mastarbation spurts per year)
That may be a cuckold or another special relationship. I am very interested in the experiences of Lit members.

i wear one to please my lover , i have no access to the key , he keeps it at all times and only releases me when he feels i deserve a reward , he feels it shows my devotion to him and makes me more attentive to his needs and not so focused on mine so i wear it happily and proudly .

 

[MistressMaggie]

That sounds a little bit cruel but I think your clients loved it.

I've heard begging but it's all been consensual.

 

[Feelfreetotouch]

Voluntarily? I don't see the fun in that.

 

[MistressMaggie]

Voluntarily? I don't see the fun in that.

"Consenting" and "volunteering" are two different things. >

 

[Eliphaz]

I'd probably go along with trying it if a partner were really into the idea but it doesn't do much for me in itself.

 

[MrRetro]

I find the idea of wearing chastity and handing over the key to a female lover extremely erotic and arousing.. I've not ever done it, though I am considering purchasing a chastity device for a certain woman..

I wouldn't want to wear it, though, unless the woman would get a sort of thrill out of being in complete control of my sexual pleasure.. And whilst I wouldn't be receiving regular sexual pleasure, I'd want to be giving very regular oral pleasure to my lady..

 

[SlutAddicted]

My wife cages my cock regularly, but it is not part of long-term chastity or denial.

Approximately 3 1/2 years ago she took control of all my ejaculation - where when and how are determined by her. Usually it is a matter of "allowing" me to ejaculate but sometimes she "compels' me to do so all at her discretion. Most of that time has been on the honour system and while it took a period of adjustment I am proud to say that I have been fully obedient and compliant for 3 years. However, it wasn't so hard as she frequently let's me ejaculate including fucking her on a regular basis.

We often joke that we don't know if she is a generous mistress, amused by watching me do things on command or just too much of a slut to let a good cock go to waste. All of the above I think.

Close to a year ago she purchased a chastity cage and started putting me in it regularly. It is primarily a symbol of her control and dominance that adds to our psychological thrills. I typically am caged for a period of hours or days. One of her favourite kinks is to lock me up in advance of her having a date with one of her lovers. She might lock me up before going to work that morning and tell me she won't be home until after her date. Or as happened last Thursday I didn't even know she had a date until she came into the living room wearing a skimpy dress and fuck me pumps with my cage in her hand.

Most times I get to fuck her after her dates. Sometimes she'll tell me I need to earn it which means clean-up duty prior to cage removal. And carrying the key has become its own little fetish. Sometimes on a necklace or anklet/bracelet. But she also used the spare key to make a pair of earrings, attached it to her bellybutton jewelry or maybe hangs it from one of those delicate body chains she sometimes wears to the beach/poolside.

 

[bluesky496]

BDSM forum has a thread "male chastity " with only a few posts.
Every erotic webshop sells a lot of chastity devices for men,more than for women I think. The interest to use them in BDSM games seems to be not very big.
So I ask in this forum, are there men on Lit, who voluntary wear a cock cage, who have given the key to their wife and live in permanent chastity - like I do -, that means no more fucking and no more orgasmns (max. 3 -4 mastarbation spurts per year)
That may be a cuckold or another special relationship. I am very interested in the experiences of Lit members.

i wore one for many years at the insistence of my then lover , he wanted to keep me in chastity so that i would only think of pleasing him .
he kept the key on him at all times and would release me only as a special reward and never more than once a month .
i actually enjoyed the experience and would do it again with the right person.

 

[littlecordelera]

We got our first one about a year or two ago. It's hard for me to remember exactly when, but I was the one to bring it up. I don't put it on him for really long periods of time, like I've read others do. I mostly like to use it when we will be in the company of others. How dose he feel about it? To this day, every time I go to put it on him he gets an erection. I take that as a good sign.

 

[switchersm]

Very good reason

i wear one to please my lover , i have no access to the key , he keeps it at all times and only releases me when he feels i deserve a reward , he feels it shows my devotion to him and makes me more attentive to his needs and not so focused on mine so i wear it happily and proudly .

Thank you, that are the reasons and my feelings and also my behaviour because I wear a cock cage and my wife has the keys. I can live up my submissiveness and my wife enjoys my intens caring for her