Coaching new needs thru frustration

lmarco32

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Hello everyone,

I believe that frustration is a powerful tool we own, able to open ourselves up to new needs.
With sparks of adrenaline, it helps lowering our reluctance, enhances our senses and opens us to new possibilities.
Shivers and squirms show what our body is telling us and could guide our partner to probe more in the right direction.
It is important to follow its pace and to have a trustful relationship so that one can catch the partner if is falling.
Additionally the (eventual) final release helps consolidate our learnings and teaches our body to ask for more of them.

I prefer when it is used with coaching, not training.
The difference is that the coach is aware of what the receiving part wants to explore (maybe is just a bit reluctant of) and is carefully studying what body tells.
A coach would not impose a kink because it is liked, instead explore new possibilities suggested by subtle signals, ready to back out if needed.

I am looking for girls and ladies interested in exploring frustration as a gateway to something new.
This is obviously a sexual theme, but sex is not a requirement, exploration and learning are the goal.
I am also curious, sorry I am an old gentleman, on meeting new gender fluid personalities but with female body.
Possibly in the area of Berlin.

Your curious,
Marco
 
How coaching with sexual theme may happen in general? Away from the frustration side.
 
Coaching is exploring possibilities for learning new skills or have a higher performance.
You are probably an expert in anal, but for someone that is reluctant, having a trustful partner is needed to see if is something relating to them.

A trustful partner is not forcing the kink because needed or craved for,
He/She rather finds a way to slowly tease towards the goal and is very attentive on how to use his skills and the partner skills.

Coaching is listening, watching, studying... because there are infinite ways to approach a kink.
You surely know that and enjoy most of them.
Someone else might need to find what are liked and what not.
Or just discover it is not something they relate to, without getting hurt.
 
Don't know that it is called coaching but I usually imagine that I help females a young men explore spanking, anal, DP and erotic pain the same way you explained
 
If the goal is agreed, if you are aware of the boundaries and you are able to fluidly change them when the right time comes, if you listen to non voluntary reactions (that are 70% of the communication) and you question them, care for them, use them...
Then you are on the right road.
 
Interesting.
I will try to find my first customer then :)
A young man to coach for strap-on anal.
 
That is lovely!
My suggestion, as a coach, you should try to positively influence him into learning.
Bringing him to the edge of his comfort zone will make him uncomfortable in a bearable way.
And that edge is where we learn the most.

In order to support that edge and not let him slip over, you could bring him to the brink of an orgasm and then keep him there for as long as needed... while you show him the beauty of what you are doing.
Let his reactions guide you and let his frustration hold him tight of what could be coming next.
 
Good approach. I think coaching a couple for anal can be more interesting
 
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