Clit licking

[luckyjim70]

Ladies, I have had completely opposite reactions to this from a handful of wonderful women. Maybe you can give me a better idea of how women feel about it.

When kissing, sucking, or licking a woman's clitoris, some pull me in hungrily for more. But others beg me to stop or pull my head away. It's not they don't like it, they say. It's just too intense. They feel out of control in a way that makes them uncomfortable.

I am all for out of control, but not if a wonderful woman is troubled by it or if I seem selfish. What do you think?

Response here or on PM... however you like.

 

[nataleeg]

All women are different and some find direct clitoral stimulation too intense (and actually uncomfortable). Others require that same direct stimulation.
I can't imagine any woman being offended by you "going for it", but definitely be attentive to reactions and continue accordingly. Just because your mouth is not directly on her clit doesn't mean it doesn't feel as good.
Sensitivity issues aside, sometimes I am in the mood for long, slow, drawn out oral sex and sometimes I want it to be crazy, jaw clenching, squirming and quick.
Most women will give you a lot of queues. Most will automatically (since I think we all have been with at least one or two guys who think female anatomy is the riddle of the fucking Sphinx). But if some one is hard to read, just ask what she likes. The fact that you are already into giving oral sex and being so considerate already scores MANY points. You can't really go wrong

 

[captjames]

Bump. Interested in more ladies' views.

 

[sixfeetundernea]

I'm not exactly sure what your question is, but yes, women are different. I take SSRIs that really affected my sex life. I'm still a horn dog, but it now takes me minimum 2 hours minimum to have an orgasm while masturbating. If I do go through with it, my orgasms are very weak.

I've never had an orgasm with a man and to me because of it, I don't feel like a woman. My current partner is the first one who's ever eaten me out of the 3 I've had, but I don't enjoy it. His favorite is to 69 and he tells me he gets off doing it, but I just don't believe it. Not that I'm calling him a lair, but I feel like men who just say it are being nice. I've felt like I've tried to guide him, but he just doesn't really follow and I can't concentrate while I'm trying to balance on my knees and sweating face off while I'm trying to get him off. It's actually... rather annoying.

I think another reason why I have such a hard time is what happened with my first 2 partners. The first that I lost my virginity to, I begged and begged and begged and he always said he wanted to and was excited to, but never did it. I kind of got angry one time and he said it's because I take too long. Which is true. But I've never really had foreplay done on me, I always seem to do it. I also was natural at the time with my pubic hair and I asked him if he wanted me to do anything with it and he said no over and over again. I trimmed it for a possible threesome and he loved it, leading me to believe be was lying before, even though he was natural and wouldn't shave of I asked him to.

My second partner and I were all about living our small fantasies with each other. My biggest fantasy at the time was to be eaten out. So he did. For like, 30 seconds. Has never attempted ever since.

With my current, I've had one session for a few minutes dedicated to me. I've done everything I can think of to make it better except shave because I have bad skin problems (and it's not a double standard because I like men natural lol) I feel so disgusting down there and with the time it would take to do it, if successful is asking for too much. I'm so embarrassed when I'm licked or touched down there. I'm got into fights online with men about whether they really do like it out not, but I'm trying to be reasonable.

Take it as if suddenly someone started to jerk your cock fast. Even if it doesn't really bother you, not the greatest sensation, is it? If you're going to do it.... please do it right. As in take your time and listen to her body. Otherwise, don't do it at all.

I wonder if I would enjoy it more I'd my first partner had done something about it before I have the heavy dosages I have now. Maybe I'd be more confident. Maybe i would come close to finishing. There are creams, lotions, even Viagra can help women, but I don't feel like a woman doing that. I feel extremely pathetic that I don't function like a normal woman. It's extremely hard to take when men ask if I could squirt and realizing I'm not sexy enough to produce that.