Clean Or Sloppy?

pogogirl

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I have a question for the men of Lit. Do you like your blow jobs clean or sloppy? I thought all guys prefered clean but recently found out that is not always true. Just curious about waht you guys think.:D
 
Sloppy Please

A sterile or neat bj? Ugh. Just the idea of it is a weenie shrinker.
 
Personally I don't see the attraction to sloppy blowjobs. My wife is quite neat when giving me one, she also uses very little hand action. Again, no problem from me about that.

I've seen guys here begging for blowjobs the way the porn princesses do it. Well quite frankly I didn't marry a porn princess, most blowjobs in pornos seem to be a cross between a blowjob and a handjob. If I want a handjob I'll ask for one thank you very much.

Considering that I can orgasm from one of my wife's blowjobs, and a true blowjob probably exerts the least amount of force on a penis, I think she's damn talented and I'm mighty lucky to have her. I wouldn't have her change how she does it one whit. :)
 
Bobmi357 said:
Personally I don't see the attraction to sloppy blowjobs. My wife is quite neat when giving me one, she also uses very little hand action. Again, no problem from me about that.

I've seen guys here begging for blowjobs the way the porn princesses do it. Well quite frankly I didn't marry a porn princess, most blowjobs in pornos seem to be a cross between a blowjob and a handjob. If I want a handjob I'll ask for one thank you very much.

Considering that I can orgasm from one of my wife's blowjobs, and a true blowjob probably exerts the least amount of force on a penis, I think she's damn talented and I'm mighty lucky to have her. I wouldn't have her change how she does it one whit. :)

Bob, You always make the sweetest post..:D
 
I vote for 'dealers choice'. Hahaha beggers can't be choosers you know;)
 
pogogirl said:
I have a question for the men of Lit. Do you like your blow jobs clean or sloppy? I thought all guys prefered clean but recently found out that is not always true. Just curious about waht you guys think.:D

Well, given the choice, I vote for sloppy. Oral, anal, vaginal, always the wetter the better. Well, theoretically, I suppose it could get too wet. But, I've never had it too wet. The sound of her slurping away on my cock is an increadible turn-on, and it feels fantastic.
 
pogogirl said:
I have a question for the men of Lit. Do you like your blow jobs clean or sloppy? I thought all guys prefered clean but recently found out that is not always true. Just curious about waht you guys think.:D

well for me a blow job is a blow job? but at the risk of sounding dumb, what is your defintion of a sloppy one and a clean one?

phil
 
me too

Sloppy vs. clean - I'm puzzled by this, too -
sloppy like lots of spit, or sloppy like hands too?

Or something else that isn't even occurring to me?
 
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PhilLusty said:
well for me a blow job is a blow job? but at the risk of sounding dumb, what is your defintion of a sloppy one and a clean one?

phil
I mean sloppy as in lots of spit
 
Lots of spit is always good. Its visually pleasing and, when your jaw gets tired, its easier on the shaft when you switch to useing your hands.
 
from a woman's point of view....

there's situations where you feel you need to be 'clean', and then there's those where you just all out 'go for it'!

either way is great - i love cock!
 
My partner enjoys really, really wet combined blow and handjobs with the saliva coating his shaft and making my hand slide over him rather than moving the skin too much.

I can't make enough spit for him, really, and so we're looking for a lube on the market in Australia that is the same consistancy as saliva, but doesn;t go sticky as it dries like Sylk (the one we use for PIV sex).
 
For me, it simply depends upon the mood. For an evening with a nice sensual and romantic mood, candles, wine and massages a nice clean blowjob seems perfect.

If it is one of those tear the curtain down nights then the sloppier the better.
 
Sarah_C said:
My partner enjoys really, really wet combined blow and handjobs with the saliva coating his shaft and making my hand slide over him rather than moving the skin too much.

I could not agree more.
 
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pogogirl said:
I mean sloppy as in lots of spit


So I still stick with my answer of any blow job is a good blow job!

But a sloppy one feels so good........... so if i had to make a choice i would opt for full on sloppy, given by a cock loving, cum sucking woman..... one that devoures my hard cock with reckless abandon

:D :p :devil:

phil
 
MY bloke likes them both, it depends on the situation like if he wants one in the car just before going in to work and yes believe me it has happend on more than one occassion then its a nice clean one but then on other occassions it can be very sloppy and wet and slippy :p
 
As one that was an oral virgin up until I was 35 yrs old, I would think that people would be satisfied that their partner is willing to indulge you in giving a blowjob, no matter what type it turns out to be.

My first wife adamantly refused to go anywhere near my dick with her head.

My second wife knew this months before we met face to face, knew I had never experienced someone giving me a blowjob, although I did know how to go down on her.

My first orally induced orgasm was given to me by the woman I love and it was everything and more than everything I had dreamt it would be for more than 12 years. Sometimes she can give me a blowjob and the orgasm will be so intense that afterwards I'll sleep like I've spent the last 20 days awake. Other times I just want to hold her close while my body continues to shudder. Its her "gift" to me and I have never questioned how she delivers it, nor do I see any reason to do so. She does, and I'm just happy to be the one she wants to use her talents on.

My point with all this is, no matter how she regularily gives you a blowjob, you should be content with it. Ask for a different style if you want, but don't make it a relationship issue or something to fight about. Remember guys, there are other men out there that don't get blowjobs at all. So if your woman does like to give you blowjobs, be happy. Life in the non-oral section isn't all that much fun.
 
Bobmi357 said:
My point with all this is, no matter how she regularily gives you a blowjob, you should be content with it. Ask for a different style if you want, but don't make it a relationship issue or something to fight about. Remember guys, there are other men out there that don't get blowjobs at all. So if your woman does like to give you blowjobs, be happy. Life in the non-oral section isn't all that much fun.


Thank you, Bobmi! Excellent reminder. I would only add that if your partner in giving you a blowjob is willing and eager to do so, it shouldn't matter if it's sloppy, clean, or somewhere in the middle!
 
The last couple of relationships I've been in have been with women that didn't enjoy giving blowjobs at all. Though they still enjoyed receiving oral sex.

So, I'd have to agree with the people above who said any.
 
Another female POV..

There are sometimes I want to be "clean" and make him feel all warm and fuzzy about my love for his cock..

-And-

There are times when I want to show him what a nasty little cock-whore I am and make the porn girls look like amateurs..

I think he mostly prefers to have me enjoy what I'm doing (and I do ;)) no matter if it's 'clean' or 'sloppy'!
Syb.
 
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