Clarification / Rant!!!

[Wildflowerfirefly]

So I joined this site because a Dom that I talk to on Tumblr suggested this site to me he said that I would enjoy all the wonderful stories that this site has.

He was right I am enjoying the stories that I have read.

I decided to post an introduction of myself because I wanted to get to know people.
I wanted to learn from them and be educated and enlightened by their stories and the conversations that they wanted to have with me.

I thought it was great I had people reaching out to me and my mailbox was* filling up and I was enjoying meeting the wonderful people that I have been getting to know who I'm having conversations with.

I have never kept it a secret that I am in a BDSM Sub and Dom relationship..
I am not looking for another Master nor do I want one I am more than satisfied.

So let me just be direct as I can be if you want to have a conversation with me if you want to talk to me I have no problem with that I'm open to have conversations with you but please be respectful of the fact that I am in a BDSM relationship and I do have a Master.

I have no intention of going on kik or Skype or entertaining you in any sexual escapades that you might possibly think I want.

I am just looking for conversations and friendship!!!

When I got into my mailbox tonight and there's some guy giving me shit talking to me like he owns me and being disrespectful because I haven't responded to his 2 messages I'm sorry I'm NOT ok with that!!!

I don't believe in playing games and I always believe in being upfront and honest with the people I have talked to on here.

I am not a troll!!!

Every post that I have posted is accurate about me and my master and my sexual experiences..

I have enjoyed getting to talk to you the people that I have..

I just want to be clear I may not come on here every single day but I owe no one any explanation as to why I haven't responded or why I haven't been online.

The only one that I owe any explanation to is my master and furthermore I don't deserve to be attached or treated like shit because I haven't responded to your messages...

I am a nice person and I deserve to be treated with respect.

If you want to have a conversation with me by all means please contact me but please understand that if I don't respond right away it's not because I'm not ignoring you it's because I'm not online.

I do not deserve to get attacked or be treated like shit because I don't respond according to your timetable.

As soon as I come back online I tend to respond to all of the emails that are in my box.

So please if you wanna talk to me by all means do just don't mistake me for a doormat because I will not allow you to walk all over me.

Wildflower

 

[MeekMe]

You seem to be posting in the wrong forum. When you post to BDSM Personals, that signals to people that you are looking for companionship. If you want discussion, post in BDSM Talk. BDSM Talk is for discussion of topics related to BDSM. If you keep posting in personals you’ll keep getting suitors in your inbox.

 

[Gentledom45]

Yes what she is saying

 

[Wildflowerfirefly]

Thank u for telling me lol i had no idea where to post i appreciate the help thank u

 

[AlliaPotestas]

Thank u for telling me lol i had no idea where to post i appreciate the help thank u

It doesn’t justify such appalling behaviour from your correspondents - whether you were looking for friendly chat or more, no one should abuse you for not instantly responding... dicks

 

[msteel4u]

Sad to hear, but that I what to expect from trolls. When they find out you are a sub, whether you are looking or not, they come out of the woodwork. I am sorry that has been your experience and on behalf of the legit Doms out there, my apologies.

That said, there is a place for BDSM chat. You can see it off the main page. Won't keep all rhe trolls off you, but it would help. But be careful and be selective, not every troll is so obvious.

Best of luck to you!

Steel