chubby wife

[fire_breeze]

And the self-loathing starts at such a very early age. A couple of weeks ago I saw a news piece (I wish I could find the link) about a 6 year old girl from Texas who told her mother that she wanted to go on a diet because she thought she was too fat. It made me think WTF, because the little girl wasn't overweight at all. But I guess all her friends are smaller than she is and she's already feeling the sting of poor body image.

Little girls buy into this shit sooo early that it's frightening. The reporter did an informal experiment: showing a group of 5-7 year old girls a range of pictures of other little girls and asking them to determine if the pictured girl was fat or not. And I have to tell you, some of the girls deemed "fat" were absolutely within normal BMI range.

It's sad how early our kids' minds are poisoned, often without us being aware of it or even aware that we, ourselves are contributing to it. Someone on another forum recently posted this link on how to talk to little girls. It's an excellent article and dead on. It's forever changed my thinking on how I will converse with girls.

I came across this article a couple of months ago. Studies seems to suggest that body type is ingrained into girl as early as the age of three and that they prefer thin. After reading this article, it put into perspective my personal self loathing.

 

[bone251]

I have told my wife it is not the size of the girl it is the size of the scream and moan that matters.
But she does not like sex so it just does not matter to her.

Very sad.

 

[Lady_Fiona]

I am big, some class me as BBW some as SSBBW but its only a label. Ok so I am not always comfortable in my body, I am not always on top of my self esteem but I am still always me.

The best thing I ever did was grab life by the balls, take a massively deep breath and stand naked in front of a camera for the first time. I did it for me, to prove that I could, to see how I did and to teach myself that I am, in fact, beautiful.

I have had 3 shoots now, each more darling than the last and each time I have been completely fascinated to see what my photographer can do.

It may be a big ask and something she may never consider, I have glamour (clothed) shots too, for me it was a big turning point in my life.

 

[sweettreat601]

Lady Fiona....YOU GO GIRL! It is wonderful to see someone so self confident and comfortable in her own skin!

 

[bone251]

I have said it is the size of the scream and not the size of the girl that really gets a guy going.

Figured I would add a few observations.

I play in the escort hobby. It does not take long to realize that there are some bigger girls and some bbw girls in the hobby working as escorts. While there rates are not the highest they seem to have the loyalist followers and do a real good biz. Seems most of them have a lot of passion to share when they play. As I like the older girls I find many of them are little more full in the shape. It is the size of the scream.

I like tease and denial. There are several video out showing tease and denial. The older girls that are not super slim tend to be the best. Recently a pretty big girl put out a couple videos. Her teasing style was most intense. She quickly became a hero on the tease and denial board. She did a video an hour long and just kept the guy on the edge of his O the whole time. But she had him tied down pretty good and he just took it.

My wife has put on a few more but she refuses to have sex. Does not matter what size you are if you won't play.

Life is real and there is no fair distribution of the weight. But passion is there for the taking if you take it.
I want to be with a girl that will take it.

 

[Felix_Jones]

Shit! Are fat people breeding?

 

[Ex Princess]

Maybe she is distracted by other things that are making her feel less sexy? Does she have girlfriends that she goes out with and talks to?

 

[muffdriver]

my thaughts

several years ago , after my divorce I dated a girl from work . she was ff and I didn't care . I noticed when ever we were going to bed @ her place she would enter the walk-in closet and change into a nightgown .. after a few times I stopped her and asked her to sit on the edge of the bed .. while sitting there , I , without fanfare just undressed and then spent a few minutes just hugging her .. I then lied down on the bed and asked her to just undress .. again , not a striptease act , just disrobe .. when she was finished I then asked her to just sit on the edge of the bed while I laid there and we just talked .. she never did undress in the closet or the bathroom @ my place ......... she later THANKED me big time for being honest and loveing ... MISS U ELLEN ..........R.I.P...............
YOUR DONALD..

 

[Cherry_Rose]

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