Christmas present.

[Dapperguy]

How do I convince my sub-wife that a sex toy for Christmas is the best thing for her?

 

[Mnkinkcpl]

Sorry I don't think this is a battle you can win.

The closest I have come is lingerie and that was happily accepted since it came with a matching choker and earrings.

Maybe one of the jeweled butt plugs with a real gem might work but I doubt it.

 

[Dapperguy]

Thanks for that.

 

[als_hubby]

Trying to convince her of that presupposes that a sex toy IS the best thing for her.

1. It may or many not be true. If the issue is her current lack of sexual satisfaction, talk it out first, work on skills/techniques, etc. first.
2. "Sex toy" is a pretty broad category. Choose the wrong one(s) and that might be the end of it.

But if she's resistant to the idea, for heaven's sake, DON'T make it a Christmas gift. Get her something you know she would like, and get a sex toy some other time.

 

[69cocksucker69]

Shitty that you have to convince her. A good sub in my opinion would accept and be grateful for any gift? Or at least I would be.

 

[J_Bone]

Get her a Sybian or one of its various knock-offs. Might be acceptable for Christmas, birthday and anniversary all rolled into one, but she'll never want to leave the house.