Childhood Games

[Kailey_86]

Someone mentioned something in another thread that got me wondering. What sort of games did you play as children that could be seen as sexual? i'm talking about games like playing doctor. Talk about what you did and what you feel about it now that you look back on it. How does it relate to how you play now?

When i was a kid i used to use those floating noodles in the pool. i would pretend that they were horses but i remember it feeling really good between the legs. i had no idea why it felt so good at the time but that didn't matter very much.

i also remember playing school with my teddy bears and dolls. i would spank them if they didn't do their homework. i still have fantasies about school spankings. i am not really interested in acting out a roleplay game like this though. i get my spanking needs satisfied in other ways.

 

[babiesmiles]

I didn't play much doctor when child , but since early age I always liked that kind of hollywood movies placed in ancient Rome ( Spartacus , Ben Hur and similar ) where slaves (better if female ) were whipped ,crucifixed , tortured or given as food to wild beasts . That should mean something IMO . Lol

 

[marieR19]

I don't think I played doctor, either, but as young as seven I was acting out little stories that I'd written with friends, with me being the submissive... Of course, at that point, I only knew it as the "victim", but I knew that I loved pretending to be the victim. I vividly remember acting out this particular story with my friend, when we were maybe eight or nine years old, and she was pretending to choke me with a rope, and I told her to pull it tighter because it didn't feel real enough. And I loved it. lol


Heather

 

[Byakuya]

"I'll show you mine if you show me yours"

 

[Kailey_86]

"I'll show you mine if you show me yours"

Hehe, i remember that. It was 1st grade. He showed me his and i ran away. What was i thinking?

 

[lil_pooka]

I played all sorts of things where I was the prisoner or slave or such. I remember setting up elaborate "cages" made from the bed and wall and a babygate. I also remember thinking they were never good enough lol

 

[sexymom]

I always enjoyed being tied up. I had a close friend whose father was a professor of art and art history, and he had an extensive library of art books. A lot of the medieval religious paintings featured various tortures and crucifixions. These turned me on too. It is interesting how erotic the religious art was until they cleaned it up in the 1800s, painting diapers on the nude figrues, etc.

 

[Chicklet]

i tied up my barbies, and put leashes on my stuffed animals. they were all slaves to another toy at some point or another.

my friends and i tied each other up to see if we could get out (i remember this really making my mom upset 'cause 'what if there's a fire?!')

played kidnapping games complete with lots of bondage, and pretend tortured each other.

fun fun.

 

[lil_pooka]

oh I did that with Barbies too. I remember once I had all the girls dressed in paper napkin slave outfits amd the male onces were clothed and my grandmother walked in. She decided i needed to learn to sew barbie clothes so they'd have somethig to wear

 

[Dosxx82256]

where were you guys when i was growing up

 

[trojan_man_co]

haha i guess my inner dom side came out when playing with ge i joes... i used to play army naturaly.. one would comand the others around and make them serve him... it was better with the females ones...

 

[lil_slave_rose]

*shrugs* i don't remember ever playing with my barbies like that or my dolls. i didn't play doctor either..sheesh you guys are a bunch of perverts!! LOL..kidding,kidding. what i do remember is when i started masturbating i would do things to 'hurt' myself just a little and i got off so much harder when i did that. stupid little things when i think about them now LOL..but they worked at the time

 

[ammre]

We played doctor, I liked to die.

 

[Kailey_86]

*shrugs* i don't remember ever playing with my barbies like that or my dolls. i didn't play doctor either..sheesh you guys are a bunch of perverts!! LOL..kidding,kidding. what i do remember is when i started masturbating i would do things to 'hurt' myself just a little and i got off so much harder when i did that. stupid little things when i think about them now LOL..but they worked at the time

i did the same thing. i caused myself pain when i first started masturbating. i didn't know what masturbating was at the time but that didn't matter. i used to use toothepaste on my clit and i would hit myself down there with a belt. i did it to make my fantasies more real and it worked for the most part.

i hate to admit this but i was actually caught tying up my grandmother's cat with socks and putting him in a cage made out of a laundry basket. Don't worry, i loved the cat and wasn't trying to hurt it. No intentional animal abuse or cruelty here. i wished i were the cat having those things done to me. my dream has come true, hehe.

 

[the captians wench]

I was always the princess locked up in the tower. We would pretend my hair was long enough to climb. *giggles* it's almost always been long enough to sit on. I think I just liked having my hair pulled even then.

My mom would "beat" me with my pony tail when she was being silly. Just pull it around and start smacking me in the face with it. And my aunt would pull me by the hair to get my attention....it's no wonder that feeling is so comforting to me.

I also had(have) a fasanation with medieval tourture devices. Especially the iron maiden. and now I get tacked.

I thought the stocks looked cool, and wondered if any one ever got spanked while they were in there.

I played school, and I was always the teacher. I was really tough on my students too.

I also always had slaves and pets when I was growing up. If I wasn't a princess locked away in a tower, then I was the queen being waited on hand and foot....maybe there really is a domme in me.

 

[liberatedslave]

I used to play the victim in kids games and was never 'leader' material at school. My first frissions of submission really came from books and films. I was always rooting for the bad guy, found the hero intensely dull and lost interest once the heroine was saved and 'happy ever after' ensued.

Shakespeare's 'The taming of the shrew' when I was about 12 was a real turning point for me. It was the first time I realised that this stuff got me excited, the first time I masturbated and also the first time I hurt myself, pinching myself hard, while doing so.

After that came the years of shame repression *sigh* why DID I bother?

 

[myinnerslut]

sloave princess. i played slave princess a lot. my brother would be the prince. my cousins the king and queen and the other princesses. i would be the slave princess. i would be tied by my ankle to the coner of a table and would be the "dancer". every once in a while i would "try" to escape, but would get captured and re-tied down by my male cousins and brothers. ::note- nothing sexual with my family, they just happened to be the kids i was around alot::

oh those were the days....

 

[Chicklet]

We played doctor, I liked to die.

rofl

sorry, i love it!

 

[A_Kefka]

playing twister. Used to purposely place a hand or arm rather close to certain parts of the girls playing. Didn't try to feel them up as I did it, but usually ended up touching when people fell. Some of the girls did the same to me too.

 

[Ahugreycat]

so it seems quite common...

I am actually relieved to see that there are so many others who also had these childhood experiences. I remember me playing with my friend, being on a leash and taken for walks, naked in the garden. We only got caught by our parents once, when she was putting diapers on me, I don't remember what actually happened, but since we were closely observed by them haha. Strangely I still miss her in a way, those were some unforgettable 2 years of my life. I checked some'scientific material' and it seems to be part of our development to have certain phase in early childhood where we develop a snese about our own sexuality. Once I find something good on the web, i post it here.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Ugh, I spent most of the time alone so games were self motivated and solo efforts. I did experiment with things a lot in bed at night when I was around 7 or so, and that seemed to continue through to teen years. Then there was also a boy who wanted to show me how guys pee on the way home from school and was forever begging me to return the favour....I claimed as I had never agreed to it or asked him to I was not obligated to accomodate his requests. There was also a casual female friend when I was about 7 or 8 who was keen to have a show and tell in the girls toilets with me, stripping down to nothing to show me her bod.

Catalina

 

[mernie99]

Good thread.

Yes, I played doctor with my brother. Mmmm. It's funny ... neither my brother or I have spoken about it since we were kids. But he was very affectionate.

I don't exactly remember what I was playing, some sort of "let's pretend" game with my little sister. Being the older one, I was leading, and it had some masochistic overtones ... perhaps a slave, some torture, whatever. What I do distinctly remember is my little sister (probably 6-8 or so at the time) telling me that she thought my game was a bit creepy and that she didn't want to play it anymore. I guess I figured out that some games were not meant to be played with others.

I also remember going to the pool and positioning myself over the water jets.

And then there was the time when I was about 12 years old ... I heard some older teenagers in the next yard. A boy had apparently been pretty aggressive with a girl and she screamed out "no" loudly, in a scared tone of voice. I had thought many times how I wanted to be that girl. I always connect that memory with the Raspberries song "Please Go All the Way" which was likely playing at the time.

True confessions ...

 

[marieR19]

......... Eeep. I just realized something. I used to play "puppy" with my godmother. *is creeped out* It wasn't sexual or anything, but it was definitely part of my submission awakenings...

I remember it really well, I would be a really hyper puppy and she would have to calm me down, usually by swatting me with a paper. lol


Heather

 

[Otherkorean]

My family moved alot when I was little so I tended to not keep friends for very long. But I do remember having a boy a few years older than me for a neighbor. We played "Landlord and poor person". He was the landlord that would always come around and demand rent, which as a "poor person" I didn't always have. He 'lived' in the living room, while I 'lived' in the space beneath the desk.

I had actually forgotten about that game until yesterday. When I had to get something from under a desk. lol

 

[FurryFury]

I didn't have many playmates as a kid but:

Barbie, beats up the other chicks, ties them up, they all fuck Ken. His head falls off. Endless repetition and variety to this game.

The drinking game: Using an old bar and fridge mix drinks for each other, make them out of the grossest stuff you can find. The other person has to take at least a good swallow or forfeits their turn.

Making scare houses, acting out ghost stories with one guy bud, getting kids to pay to go through. Loving scaring the crap out of people or just making them scream and giggle.

Spending the night with a gf who explained and showed me how to masturbate. Her brother was able to show me a few things as well.

Never ending Monopoly games.

Borrowing my Grands furs and solo loving.

*sighs*

Ah well, good times.

Fury