Chicago area Litsters, how can I...

[OldestMotive]

...find a friend with benefits?

When I lived in California, I had a friend I would see every few weeks for some naked fun. We were both in the same boat...passionless marriages, but not so bad that we wanted to leave them. The arrangement worked well for both of us.

Now that I'm living back in the Chicago area, I find that I really miss having that kind of relationship, but I haven't figured out how to get one going. I've been hanging around Lit for years and thought I might find someone here, but it hasn't worked out that way so far. I've made some great friends, and some who would be definite possibilities, but none live in the area. What's a guy to do?

I'm not one for the bar scene and I'm not really looking for a one-time thing, anyway. What I really want is someone who can be a friend and we can get together for some fun once in awhile. I want someone I can talk to and laugh with. Anyone have any thoughts for me?

 

[iwatch]

...find a friend with benefits?

When I lived in California, I had a friend I would see every few weeks for some naked fun. We were both in the same boat...passionless marriages, but not so bad that we wanted to leave them. The arrangement worked well for both of us.

Now that I'm living back in the Chicago area, I find that I really miss having that kind of relationship, but I haven't figured out how to get one going. I've been hanging around Lit for years and thought I might find someone here, but it hasn't worked out that way so far. I've made some great friends, and some who would be definite possibilities, but none live in the area. What's a guy to do?

I'm not one for the bar scene and I'm not really looking for a one-time thing, anyway. What I really want is someone who can be a friend and we can get together for some fun once in awhile. I want someone I can talk to and laugh with. Anyone have any thoughts for me?

 

[iwatch]

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[OldestMotive]

What do you consider older?

 

[guynxtdor]

Well I don't really think its that hard, I think it always helps to have an ex-girlfiend for something like that though.

 

[OldestMotive]

Yes, that would help. Either that, or maybe one of my Lit friends will decide to move to Chicago.

 

[OldestMotive]

Over 100 views so far and only two people have posted.

 

[ordiva62]

HI

Wish I were closer..... I am in Central IL...near Peoria. If interested let me know.

 

[OldestMotive]

Re: HI

Wish I were closer..... I am in Central IL...near Peoria. If interested let me know.

Given my work schedule, Peoria is a little too far. I tried this once with someone from near Springfield and we could never find a time to meet. I really want someone in the Chicago area. Thanks for the reply, though.

 

[OldestMotive]

Any more responses?

 

[jk60060]

This thread has been gone for a while. Any women out there looking for NSA?