Cheering yourself up

[Debbie]

So if things are bad what do you do to make things better?
Or, your girlfriendis/boyfriend is depressed what words/actions would you offer as conselation.?
Debbiexxx

 

[Nathon_88]

Write poetry.

Read a book.

Play with the dog.

Run around the house nude.

 

[rambling man]

There is something about flowers that women just love, jewelry, too. I imagine that men do not understand nor believe in the utility of these things and women know that. Because of that, when men do buy them for their wives/gf's it makes them feel special precisely because they know men regard those things as pretty useless.

 

[willfulbrat]

Rambling Man, flowers and jewelry would work for me!

DebbieXXX, it kind of depends on the degree of what's happened to the person. Sometimes people just need to grieve and have someone there for them. But if it's just a crummy day at work, a little teasing, joking, story-telling and good food and drink usually does the trick.

And to cheer myself up, just being around people and focusing on them helps me get my mind off my own troubles.