Cheating college girlfriend

[Justfantasies]

Your girlfriend at college confesses that she has fucked another guy. This happens more than once. Do you

1. Break up with her
2. Get angry with her but don't drop her
3. Say you understand but masturbate thinking of her getting fucked
4. When you see her want all the details of her lovers and then fuck her yourself
5. Something else

 

[lc69hunter]

Have the conversation. Question is, can you live with her getting occasional random one-offs? Marriage does not always have to mean monogamy. Better to know theses things and work them out before marriage.

 

[Justfantasies]

Have the conversation. Question is, can you live with her getting occasional random one-offs? Marriage does not always have to mean monogamy. Better to know theses things and work them out before marriage.

This happened to me an I enjoyed th stories

 

[screwher]

If I had my current mindset but living in the college scenario I’d take three and four. I would request that she call me as she’s on her way to the guy’s place. I love masturbating as my wife is getting laid. Then when I saw her next I’d like all the juicy details. Then we have our “reclaiming” sex.

 

[Islander55]

Have the conversation. Question is, can you live with her getting occasional random one-offs? Marriage does not always have to mean monogamy. Better to know theses things and work them out before marriage.

I suspect there are very few monogamous relationships these days. Most guys would be better off if they can embrace their GF/wife as being sexual and maybe needing something a bit different now and then. Certainly most young women have a need to explore a bit and at least for me that needs resurfaced in my 40's.

 

[screwher]

I suspect there are very few monogamous relationships these days. Most guys would be better off if they can embrace their GF/wife as being sexual and maybe needing something a bit different now and then. Certainly most young women have a need to explore a bit and at least for me that needs resurfaced in my 40's.

I agree. Before we started dating, my wife had limited experience. About four years into our relationship she started getting that itch. She dropped her panties for three other men in a short period of time. Fast forward years later, she started getting sexually restless again. She was soon naked in another man’s bed again. So we came to a decision as a couple. We both want her to continue having sex with other men. And it’s been amazing!

 

[gtnlynn]

We went to different colleges, and I only saw her once or twice a month. She was free to date others. Although she denied it, I knew she was having a lot of sex with other guys. I had a choice; call her a liar and dump her, pretend I didn't know and stay with her, or call her a liar and stay with her. I loved her enough to pretend I didn't know and let her have her fun until her junior year. Then I asked her to stop dating others. She never had another date with them. After we married, she confessed that she was a bit of a slut in college, but it was just for fun. All of her "dates" knew she loved only me. That worked for us.

 

[Islander55]

I agree. Before we started dating, my wife had limited experience. About four years into our relationship she started getting that itch. She dropped her panties for three other men in a short period of time. Fast forward years later, she started getting sexually restless again. She was soon naked in another man’s bed again. So we came to a decision as a couple. We both want her to continue having sex with other men. And it’s been amazing!

I think that type of arrangement can really enhance the sex life for a couple and for both parties if they are really into it.

 

[littlecordelera]

Your girlfriend at college confesses that she has fucked another guy. This happens more than once. Do you

1. Break up with her
2. Get angry with her but don't drop her
3. Say you understand but masturbate thinking of her getting fucked
4. When you see her want all the details of her lovers and then fuck her yourself
5. Something else

Maybe your comment should read, "Your girlfriend at college confesses that she has fucked [other] guys. This happens more than once. Do you"

5. Get married

 

[Justfantasies]

Maybe your comment should read, "Your girlfriend at college confesses that she has fucked [other] guys. This happens more than once. Do you"

5. Get married

Yes you are correct — other guys

And marriage is what I did

 

[Sgts19]

Not cheating but within days of her dumping me I watched her fucking some guy. Yes there's a story behind it which I won't go into at this time

 

[Britva415]

Your girlfriend at college confesses that she has fucked another guy. This happens more than once. Do you

1. Break up with her
2. Get angry with her but don't drop her
3. Say you understand but masturbate thinking of her getting fucked
4. When you see her want all the details of her lovers and then fuck her yourself
5. Something else

5. Something else.
5a. Ask her what she wanted to accomplish by confessing to me. Maybe I'll be into it, maybe I won't, but not finding out what page she's on and whether I'm on it too or not would be a major mistake.

 

[OldGoodPup]

Accept my place as her cuck and clean up boy and double down on my service to her.

 

[kucked2x]

Your girlfriend at college confesses that she has fucked another guy. This happens more than once. Do you

1. Break up with her
2. Get angry with her but don't drop her
3. Say you understand but masturbate thinking of her getting fucked
4. When you see her want all the details of her lovers and then fuck her yourself
5. Something else

2,3

 

[Carnevil9]

"Awesome! I thought we were being monogamous, but I'm cool with us both fucking other people on the side."

 

[Nellie60]

Your girlfriend at college confesses that she has fucked another guy. This happens more than once. Do you

1. Break up with her
2. Get angry with her but don't drop her
3. Say you understand but masturbate thinking of her getting fucked
4. When you see her want all the details of her lovers and then fuck her yourself
5. Something else

2, 3,4, 5 or if you dont love her enough 1, 3, 4, 5

Similar happened to me and of course I wanted the details and fucked her plus did number 3 and as for 5, I started looking elsewhere.

 

[waratah]

Your girlfriend at college confesses that she has fucked another guy. This happens more than once. Do you

1. Break up with her
2. Get angry with her but don't drop her
3. Say you understand but masturbate thinking of her getting fucked
4. When you see her want all the details of her lovers and then fuck her yourself
5. Something else

If its more than once its not a mistake, or a drunken event. It would involve lies. I have low tolerance for lies. 1.

 

[waratah]

I suspect there are very few monogamous relationships these days. Most guys would be better off if they can embrace their GF/wife as being sexual and maybe needing something a bit different now and then. Certainly most young women have a need to explore a bit and at least for me that needs resurfaced in my 40's.

Applies to both parties?

A two sided open relationship might work if lots of respect and communication. Wouldn't think cheating would be good place to start though. (In 99% of cases)

 

[Islander55]

Applies to both parties?

A two sided open relationship might work if lots of respect and communication. Wouldn't think cheating would be good place to start though. (In 99% of cases)

 

[Islander55]

I agree that an open relationship or swinging would be the way to go for those into it. I also agree that cheating is not a good way to go about it but I suspect that is more of the norm for those you desire variety.

 

[Justfantasies]

2, 3,4, 5 or if you dont love her enough 1, 3, 4, 5

Similar happened to me and of course I wanted the details and fucked her plus did number 3 and as for 5, I started looking elsewhere.

2, 3,4, 5 or if you dont love her enough 1, 3, 4, 5

Similar happened to me and of course I wanted the details and fucked her plus did number 3 and as for 5, I started looking elsewhere.

I never really found someone else, just substitutes. But it gave me pleasure masturbating

 

[lc69hunter]

With a lifetime of experience (I am 73), I believe that women "cheat" at a much higher rate than the surveys suggest. It is not in a evil way, and has nothing to do with husband and marriage. They don't go looking for it, and don't have affairs. It is just when circumstances and opportunity happen, they will sample a strange cock. The first time, they will feel guilty, and when going home they are convinced the husband will see the word "slut" penciled across their forehead, and when he doesn't, she drags him to bed and fucks his brains out to make up for it. No harm, no foul. and, she will do it again, and hubby benefits, because she brings that libido home to him.

 

[WildFireTN]

With a lifetime of experience (I am 73), I believe that women "cheat" at a much higher rate than the surveys suggest. It is not in a evil way, and has nothing to do with husband and marriage. They don't go looking for it, and don't have affairs. It is just when circumstances and opportunity happen, they will sample a strange cock. The first time, they will feel guilty, and when going home they are convinced the husband will see the word "slut" penciled across their forehead, and when he doesn't, she drags him to bed and fucks his brains out to make up for it. No harm, no foul. and, she will do it again, and hubby benefits, because she brings that libido home to him.

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