Cheated-on husbands and boyfriends

[liqueur]

She told me when we first met that she had been with five guys before me, but that number grew until, after careful consideration, she said that the number must have closer to 70.

 

[screwher]

Later she took a job that involved a lot of trips to conferences and conventions and eventually confessed that she fucked some guys on those trips, some complete strangers. She always went after the older professorial types and I would say that she quickly let them get into her panties, except she hardly ever wore panties

Nice! I only wish my wife had a career that took her out of town on business. I know my sexy hotwife would use the opportunity of a company paid hotel room to play.

 

[ILikeIt]

My wife cheated on me two years into our marriage. She was 22 at the time. She did it with a work friend. She initiated the relationship. She spent a lot of time with him at her work. They had lunches with others but alone also. On her 22nd birthday she went out after work for drinks with him. That night I had a party for her with a bunch of friends but she had to go to bed early because she was sick throwing up. She never drank because she got sick on it. I thought she had the flu but it was from the drinking. She basically had these work dates going on for a couple of months. I was oblivious. We were arguing more often and she told me she was going to live with her mother to think about our relationship. That first weekend away while I was alone in our apartment (completely devastated that she left me) she was on her first official date with him. They went out to dinner then back to his house. She fucked him on that first date (we dated for two years before she fucked me). Her mother worked the afternoon shift so my wife had the house to herself at night. She had him over to her mother's house and she told me he tried to have sex with her again but she stopped him. She moved back in with me about three weaks later. She confessed to me three years after it happened. It never entered my mind that she was with another guy. I could not imagine her doing something like that. She said she only had sex with him that one time. She said when it happend it was a blur and she hardly recalls it. She said while they doing it she regeretted it. Our marriage was doing much better when she confessed and we worked through it. I wasn't going to leave her for soemthing that happened three years earlier. She told me the above details over the years. For many years I felt bad. As time passed it became erotic for me to think about them together. The emotional attachment she had for him still bothers me but the sex they had turns me on. What bumbs me out now is the lack of details she has shared about the actual sex. Whenever I bring up the subject she is very reluctant to talk about it. I know enough about the lunches and after work drinks but I want the juicy details about the sex. I have not told her that the sex she had with her friend is a huge turn on for me and I would love for her to elaborate on the details. All she has ever told me was they were making out on the couch, moved to his bedroom, she was in his bed with her pants off but her shirt still on, he fucked her and was done. She said the fucking part was a blur. I asked if it was a wam bam thank you mam thing and she said yes. That guy must have been a loser my wife had a great body with spectacular tits back then. He just fucked her and didn't explore her body while giving her an orgasm some other way. What the fuck was wrong with that guy. Either the guy was a dip shit, got his and was done, or my wife refuses to come completely clean.

 

[Nellie60]

My wife cheated on me two years into our marriage. She was 22 at the time. She did it with a work friend. She initiated the relationship. She spent a lot of time with him at her work. They had lunches with others but alone also. On her 22nd birthday she went out after work for drinks with him. That night I had a party for her with a bunch of friends but she had to go to bed early because she was sick throwing up. She never drank because she got sick on it. I thought she had the flu but it was from the drinking. She basically had these work dates going on for a couple of months. I was oblivious. We were arguing more often and she told me she was going to live with her mother to think about our relationship. That first weekend away while I was alone in our apartment (completely devastated that she left me) she was on her first official date with him. They went out to dinner then back to his house. She fucked him on that first date (we dated for two years before she fucked me). Her mother worked the afternoon shift so my wife had the house to herself at night. She had him over to her mother's house and she told me he tried to have sex with her again but she stopped him. She moved back in with me about three weaks later. She confessed to me three years after it happened. It never entered my mind that she was with another guy. I could not imagine her doing something like that. She said she only had sex with him that one time. She said when it happend it was a blur and she hardly recalls it. She said while they doing it she regeretted it. Our marriage was doing much better when she confessed and we worked through it. I wasn't going to leave her for soemthing that happened three years earlier. She told me the above details over the years. For many years I felt bad. As time passed it became erotic for me to think about them together. The emotional attachment she had for him still bothers me but the sex they had turns me on. What bumbs me out now is the lack of details she has shared about the actual sex. Whenever I bring up the subject she is very reluctant to talk about it. I know enough about the lunches and after work drinks but I want the juicy details about the sex. I have not told her that the sex she had with her friend is a huge turn on for me and I would love for her to elaborate on the details. All she has ever told me was they were making out on the couch, moved to his bedroom, she was in his bed with her pants off but her shirt still on, he fucked her and was done. She said the fucking part was a blur. I asked if it was a wam bam thank you mam thing and she said yes. That guy must have been a loser my wife had a great body with spectacular tits back then. He just fucked her and didn't explore her body while giving her an orgasm some other way. What the fuck was wrong with that guy. Either the guy was a dip shit, got his and was done, or my wife refuses to come completely clean.

I believe the guy would have explored her body completely, committed every sexual act on her that you would do yourself. Knowing she had left you at the time, he would of lavished that opportunity. I believe she only agreed to what you say, not releasing all the details for fear of hurting you or embarrassing herself. Plus she probably genuinely had regrets.

I had two ex girlfriends who had affairs.

I may have mentioned it already, in the first relationship I followed her and spied on her committing a sexual act on this unknown guy.
I was devastated and angry. I never got a confession from her but fucked her silly as a way of reclaiming her when she came home. I never mentioned to her I witnessed her infidelity and promptly left after that night. I still regretted not knowing what led to her having an affair. That took many months of soul searching as that relationship was my first.

At least you still have her and got parts the confessional details just not the finer details.
And it will be a turn on for you to imagine what they did..

 

[ILikeIt]

The soul searching you mentioned is important. The person who cheated made that decision alone, but the reasons can vary. I’ve done the soul searching and asked myself why. Was she just looking for sex or some type of sexual reassurance of her desirability. We married young and had dated each other on and off since we were in high school so neither one of us had that much experience dating others. Maybe she felt she missed out on dating. The soul searching part was when I place some blame on myself. I was not a good partner. I was selfish and immature. I didn’t not help her in household duties. We both worked but she took care of the bills. I’d go to the bar after softball games and not call her and tell her where I was at. I treated her as if she was my mother there to take care of me. We had many fights because of my selfishness. Many commentators on lit state that if she cheats that is an absolute deal breaker. When she came back to me we went to counseling our marriage got better I got better and she got happier. Three years later she told me she had to tell me something. She was crying almost uncontrollably and confessed to having sex with a work friend. I was devastated but got over it. We have been married for 52 years.

 

[Nellie60]

The soul searching you mentioned is important. The person who cheated made that decision alone, but the reasons can vary. I’ve done the soul searching and asked myself why. Was she just looking for sex or some type of sexual reassurance of her desirability. We married young and had dated each other on and off since we were in high school so neither one of us had that much experience dating others. Maybe she felt she missed out on dating. The soul searching part was when I place some blame on myself. I was not a good partner. I was selfish and immature. I didn’t not help her in household duties. We both worked but she took care of the bills. I’d go to the bar after softball games and not call her and tell her where I was at. I treated her as if she was my mother there to take care of me. We had many fights because of my selfishness. Many commentators on lit state that if she cheats that is an absolute deal breaker. When she came back to me we went to counseling our marriage got better I got better and she got happier. Three years later she told me she had to tell me something. She was crying almost uncontrollably and confessed to having sex with a work friend. I was devastated but got over it. We have been married for 52 years.

Understand why now. You explained it well.

You been together for so long, congratulations on that achievement.

Still you wonder is that the full story or is there still something niggling away? I assume you turned on by those thoughts now? Cause I certainly did.

 

[Buxomjadeex]

I cheated on my first ‘serious’ boyfriend by fucking his dad after he was giving me a lift from a party. I was tipsy and very horny at the time. One thing led to another and he parked up and I ended up fucking him in the car

 

[Nellie60]

I cheated on my first ‘serious’ boyfriend by fucking his dad after he was giving me a lift from a party. I was tipsy and very horny at the time. One thing led to another and he parked up and I ended up fucking him in the car

Did he ever find out and did you seduce the dad again?

 

[tristantrotsky]

I cheated on my first ‘serious’ boyfriend by fucking his dad after he was giving me a lift from a party. I was tipsy and very horny at the time. One thing led to another and he parked up and I ended up fucking him in the car

As long as you both enjoyed that sweet fuck, there's no harm at all.
Sometimes we just need the physical release of having good sex, without consequences or guilt.

 

[Kolejdayz]

As long as you both enjoyed that sweet fuck, there's no harm at all.
Sometimes we just need the physical release of having good sex, without consequences or guilt.

Yes there should be a lot more guiltless sex for all of us

 

[Kolejdayz]

I cheated on my first ‘serious’ boyfriend by fucking his dad after he was giving me a lift from a party. I was tipsy and very horny at the time. One thing led to another and he parked up and I ended up fucking him in the car

Was he good?

 

[peter49parker]

Isn't part of that due to the adventure and 'forbidden' nature that causes it? If you have a hall pass, I expect it would have a lesser impact on sexual energy.

My wife freely admitted that the cheating part of it did add 'spice' to her affair, but the hall pass took away the associated guilt. And the hall pass made it a whole lot easier to hook up, when I was encouraging her.

 

[000777]

Several years ago my wife and I started doing some fantasy and roleplay in the bedroom. It really spiced up our bedroom!
One of the fantasies was her cheating. Of course during the fun and the excitement I told her she should do it for real.
Of course, I never thought she would, but she did.
She started fucking her boss on business trips and then a coworker and then she fucked a few of her business clients.
I found out about it three years later.
It was a real mix of feelings but overall it did turn me on.

 

[Kolejdayz]

I'm a mature married man who found out years ago that his loving wife had cheated regularly while traveling on business. At least three coworkers of hers, one was a tall, good-looking single stud, ex college football player with a huge cock and (apparently) incredible sexual skills who she saw 3-5 times a year for 10 years before I found out. l was shocked, hurt, very angry at first, but we stayed together and over time her cheating became an intense turn-on for me. Love to connect with other cheated-on husbands and boyfriends who have experienced this and anyone else who's turned on by wives and girlfriends who are bold enough to go out and get what they want or need sexually and enjoys chatting about female infidelity and cuckoldry.

Desire has always carried an experimental edge for me. From my earliest relationships, the idea of straying—of crossing boundaries—wasn’t just temptation, it was intoxicating. One woman I adored would sometimes drift away for a night, or vanish into the thrill of a short affair returning with secrets. I didn’t know at the time, but later, when she confessed, her words were molten. The way she revealed those fleeting dalliances—eyes steady, voice low—wasn’t betrayal, it was a spark. She knew exactly how much her honesty aroused me, how it set my pulse racing.

 

[liqueur]

@Kolejdayz

Desire has always carried an experimental edge for me. From my earliest relationships, the idea of straying—of crossing boundaries—wasn’t just temptation, it was intoxicating. One woman I adored would sometimes drift away for a night, or vanish into the thrill of a short affair returning with secrets. I didn’t know at the time, but later, when she confessed, her words were molten. The way she revealed those fleeting dalliances—eyes steady, voice low—wasn’t betrayal, it was a spark. She knew exactly how much her honesty aroused me, how it set my pulse racing.

I can see why you adored her!

 

[HotflixLust]

Two weeks ago my wife went to her business conference trip with mostly her male colleagues and she had quite some fun there.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

@Kolejdayz

I can see why you adored her!

Not as much as every single guy she was with.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

You guys really crack me up. I was with 2 women who were married, I didn't know initially, after I found out and they were " free" to express their feelings about there husbands it wasn't very flattering. I not only wondered why they were with there husband one woman was ready to leave him for me.
Yet this turns you on SMH

 

[Ed_Sumner]

Two weeks ago my wife went to her business conference trip with mostly her male colleagues and she had quite some fun there.

Please elaborate!

 

[lifeis2short2b]

Please elaborate!

OK your getting turned on because your wife cannot get satisfied by you.
She screws whoever she wants and has no respect for you as she trashes you to everyone of her lovers.
And you even want her to tell you. Not only can I not believe it, neither can she.

How's that