fairyqueen
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Just out of curiousity, what's your opinion. Do you think it's cheating?
Chatting = Cheating????
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bronzeage
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Only if you hide one chat partner from all the other chat partners.
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Everyone has their own definition of cheating.
So, every time I think about sexual intercourse with Mishcka, I call her Husband, just to be on the righteous side of things.
So, every time I think about sexual intercourse with Mishcka, I call her Husband, just to be on the righteous side of things.
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For most men, no it's not, for most women, yes it is.
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What's the difference? I don't consider it cheating, more like personalized erotic stories.
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That's the thing, it doesn't matter if YOU think it's cheating or not.
What matters is if your partner thinks that it's cheating.
What matters is if your partner thinks that it's cheating.
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If you're chatting, then you're cheating on Lit, since you're clearly not chatting here.
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To guys words more often than not (you didn't say cybering, you said chatting) are just words. Me taking you out for dinner is quite often as simple as I wasn't through talking to you and it was right around the corner. It certainly has less than nothing to do with my significant other at the time. It seems like guys cheat physically.
Women cheat emotionally. A woman staying up for hours to talk to some guy is getting something she needs.
It's just an opinion though.
Ultimately this. Though that makes things annoying at times.
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That's the skinny of it: If you wouldn't do it with your partner in the room, you are probably doing something bad.
I am also inclined to agree with Sean, that women are more prone to having emotional affairs (that will sometimes turn physical over time) while sex-chatting is just another form of porn for guys.
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It is odd that you would chat with someone while you're with someone.
Also, learn to spell or use the spell checker on your browser.
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If you wouldn't do it with full knowledge of your partner, then yes it is.
I have found that asking a guy if it's okay and he says yes, does not always mean it is okay. You have to kind of watch reactions.
Even stuff like posting on lit when they are available can be tricky because unless you are posting together, you are basically saying I would rather post on lit than spend time with you or so I was told.
I have found that asking a guy if it's okay and he says yes, does not always mean it is okay. You have to kind of watch reactions.
Even stuff like posting on lit when they are available can be tricky because unless you are posting together, you are basically saying I would rather post on lit than spend time with you or so I was told.
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Oh we're not married yet. But it's always good to hear from ya anyway, Lance.
Whore.
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If you lie about it, it's cheating. My partners and I all sleep with other people, but we're not sneaking around doing it. My gf is talking really seriously to this guy, let's call him Joe, because that's his name and it's common enough that no one will know. If I ask her to do something and she says, "Hold on a sec, I'm talking to Joe," I'm like, "Well tell that sonofabitch to get off skype, I need you to do this,".
But if she were all, "Hold on a sec,"
and I was like, "I need help in the kitchen!"
"I'm doing something!"
"What?"
"Talking to somebody!"
"Who?"
And then she lied- I'd be madder than hell. What the fuck are you doing that you need to keep it from me? Who the hell is X? Why didn't you tell me? What the fuck is going on?
Not that I expect her to tell me where she is 24/7 or anything, but we're intimate partners and I expect to have at least a working knowledge of where she is and what she's doing in case my dumb ass sets myself on fire or something and needs help. If I KNOW she's at dinner with a lover, I know I can call her phone and somebody will be here with a fire extinguisher. But don't fucking lie to me.
Edit: I know where my boyfriend is 24/7, not because I want to but because he's one of those people who are like, "Eating a cheeseburger! Here's a picture of it!" then five seconds later, "Reading a comic, here's a picture of it!" then five seconds later, "At work straitening shelves, here's a picture of them!" five seconds later, "Just got a shipment in, look at all these packages! Here's a picture of it!"
Bitch get a fucking instagram.
But if she were all, "Hold on a sec,"
and I was like, "I need help in the kitchen!"
"I'm doing something!"
"What?"
"Talking to somebody!"
"Who?"
And then she lied- I'd be madder than hell. What the fuck are you doing that you need to keep it from me? Who the hell is X? Why didn't you tell me? What the fuck is going on?
Not that I expect her to tell me where she is 24/7 or anything, but we're intimate partners and I expect to have at least a working knowledge of where she is and what she's doing in case my dumb ass sets myself on fire or something and needs help. If I KNOW she's at dinner with a lover, I know I can call her phone and somebody will be here with a fire extinguisher. But don't fucking lie to me.
Edit: I know where my boyfriend is 24/7, not because I want to but because he's one of those people who are like, "Eating a cheeseburger! Here's a picture of it!" then five seconds later, "Reading a comic, here's a picture of it!" then five seconds later, "At work straitening shelves, here's a picture of them!" five seconds later, "Just got a shipment in, look at all these packages! Here's a picture of it!"
Bitch get a fucking instagram.
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Yes, if E=T. In which case the following would also be correct:
Chatting = Cheaeing
Chatting = Chtating
Chatting = Chtaeing
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Thats a quote I HAVE to remember
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That's pussy-whipped bullshit.
If you do something your partner doesn't like, that doesn't automatically make it wrong.
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It does for your relationship. If my partner didn't want me talking to other people, that's a PROBLEM with the relationship. That's not shit you just ignore.
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Nonsense.
People flirt in person at work, at coffee shops, restaurants...all the time.
And they don't go home at the end of the day and tell their partners about the cute UPS guy or the hot coffee shop grrl.
Are they all cheating?
People flirt in person at work, at coffee shops, restaurants...all the time.
And they don't go home at the end of the day and tell their partners about the cute UPS guy or the hot coffee shop grrl.
Are they all cheating?
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Every single one of them.
The debate is over!
You're actually Jimmy Carter?
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