chat up my girl

[MUPPET22]

Hi, Im looking for a guy to start chatting to my girl as Im a bit suspicious that she may be looking elsewhere, so Im looking for a guy to start chatting to her on msn and pretend to be from our area and then report back to me.

anyone up for the challenge?

 

[abdi15]

why do u feel like she's lookin elsewhere??

 

[MUPPET22]

the way she has been acting, goes out clubbing a lot more, stuff like that

 

[Miss Dizzy]

Wow....

What if she isn't but some nice guy who "appears" to trust her talks to her, and she thinks... hang on a minute, this guy is better than my paranoid significant other, and thinks, yeah, I'll go with that.

Why set someone up to fail?

Ever heard of communication and trust?

Or don't these things count in relationships anymore.

So what if she goes clubbing more often? Maybe she doesn't want to spend every second of every day looking at you... Maybe she enjoys clubbing?

Why don't you just get a tracking device on her if you're that worried? Or lock her indoors? Or chain her to a chair?

 

[abdi15]

a bit harsh don'tcha think???? i think u should just sit her down and talk to her... COMMUNICATE i think thats part of the reason why ur trippin about how she is...

 

[excoman]

chat your girl?

would be glad to, just let me know her name

 

[MUPPET22]

her name is jem, turn pms on and ill send you her details

 

[Erosian]

Or lock her indoors? Or chain her to a chair?

Wishful thinking there, Dizzy babe? hehe

 

[basic_desires]

Hi, Im looking for a guy to start chatting to my girl as Im a bit suspicious that she may be looking elsewhere, so Im looking for a guy to start chatting to her on msn and pretend to be from our area and then report back to me.

anyone up for the challenge?

Wrong approach, mate. Why would anyone lie and cheat on your behalf? If you don't trust her there is something fundamentally wrong between you and perhaps it were time you talked...

 

[MUPPET22]

still need help with this guys?? pm me for her addy

 

[basic_desires]

still need help with this guys?? pm me for her addy

Still the wrong approach, mate. Why would anyone lie and cheat on your behalf? If you don't trust her there is something fundamentally wrong between you and perhaps it were time you talked...

 

[curious_willing]

If she does go out clubbing and has fun... then good on her 'cause you obviously have issues.
Maybe you should try communicating with her instead of solliciting strangers on a web site to entrap her!!!

 

[EnglishAgain]

still need help with this guys?? pm me for her addy

I am really hoping that what you really want is someone to chat up your girl on here so it turns her and you on, but you are somehow too embarrassed to ask. If that's not the case then you really need to pour yourself a cold beer, then sit and take a long look at yourself in the mirror. If she's chatting someone else up then how on earth does catching her help your relationship? Give up, let her move on and buy yourself a large box of porn so you don't have to deal with real women.

Honestly, please could you try to explain what you will gain by doing this? How in the name of Ronald McDonald will you possibly improve your life? Think, then act. Try asking some of the undoubtedly clever and wise people above for their advice, and then go make your life better. Good luck

 

[fun2kissamy]

I will be glad to talk to her for you.
I can't promise that I will say anything nice about you.....but I will be willing to share the wonderful, trusting, fun loving side you have showed us.

PM me.

 

[PistachioIce]

What an asshole!

 

[NorthernPA4U]

Wow....

What if she isn't but some nice guy who "appears" to trust her talks to her, and she thinks... hang on a minute, this guy is better than my paranoid significant other, and thinks, yeah, I'll go with that.

Why set someone up to fail?

Ever heard of communication and trust?

Or don't these things count in relationships anymore.

So what if she goes clubbing more often? Maybe she doesn't want to spend every second of every day looking at you... Maybe she enjoys clubbing?

Why don't you just get a tracking device on her if you're that worried? Or lock her indoors? Or chain her to a chair?

I don't think the way this guy is going about this is the way he SHOULD go about this, but ...

I think people generally know when they are being cheated on. Just because he didn't explain it in detail doesn't mean his a clueless idiot. Lots of people who have never cheated, who have been completely faithful, who would like to trust their partners, get cheated on.

Communication and trust are only good until someone violates that trust.

While I understand why people are attacking this guy (even if he's right, his suggested solution is moronic), I think some of the personal attacks are a bit TOO vitriolic. I'm not sure why y'all seem to think he must be wrong. I think he's more likely right than wrong, and yet stupid to boot.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Hi, Im looking for a guy to start chatting to my girl as Im a bit suspicious that she may be looking elsewhere, so Im looking for a guy to start chatting to her on msn and pretend to be from our area and then report back to me.

anyone up for the challenge?

I'm going to be in London on Thursday.
I'd be glad to take a shot at this.
If I succeed in seducing her, I'd be glad to tell you all about it.
After I get back to the states.
If you like, I could post all the details here on this thread.
How do I get in touch w/ her?

Mike

 

[natureluvrgirl]

So...

Hi, Im looking for a guy to start chatting to my girl as Im a bit suspicious that she may be looking elsewhere, so Im looking for a guy to start chatting to her on msn and pretend to be from our area and then report back to me.

anyone up for the challenge?

So what happens if you find out you were wrong...and then lose her because of this little game? Would it be worth it? I'll join the sentiment...if you don't have trust in the one you're with, you don't have much of a relationship. Maybe if you can't trust her, its time to move on. Of course, if I were your girl, and found out about this...you'd be gone anyway. Even if I hadn't been cheating. Because I would NEVER again trust someone who set me up like this. So, whatever you decide, I hope you are prepared for what you get!

 

[koalabear]

just tie her up and shock her with a cattle prod till she talks..........you fucking ass hat....if she's smart she is looking to dump your stalker ass.....

 

[CuriousFL]

Wants and update.

So what happened.????

 

[Scotsman69]

You are a fuckin numpty, pal. Grow up, and let her grow too.

And get treatment for you paranoia. Fast. Before you mess up any more relationships, and any more precious human beings.

 

[CuriousFL]

LOL, ok all that said I am curious if he had the balls to do something. It has nothing to do with her.

So save your editorals for someone that wants to hear them.

 

[Scotsman69]

For CuriousFL: It has EVERYTHING to do with her. It is her life he wants to meddle in.

And at least learn to spell, numpty. He posted his nonsense publicly, he was asking for comment. He got it sensible, from me and several others. Shame your only interest is in a quick jerk-off.

 

[alekhorn]

why not ask her?