Chastity Sub seeks On-line Findom

[onall4s2112]

I'm seeking someone for correspondence, mainly an on-line female confidant. I used to have an ex-girlfriend who played the findom role, but she is now in a relationship.

We had a unique arrangement...I didn't realize how unique until I tried to find a replacement! Would love to explain more if someone is interested.

 

[onall4s2112]

More Info...

Well I know it's a long shot finding anything on-line, but it's fun trying.

So I guess "Chastity" in the title of my original post is misleading. Since I'm in a relationship, actually wearing a chastity device is not possible. Orgasm control via the Honor System is more precise.

Anyway here's some more detail about what I'm looking for.

Since my current girlfriend and I don't have sex very often, I periodically grow really horny. One time an ex of mine asked to borrow some money. She had done so before and paid it back in a month or so, so it wasn't totally out of the blue.

She had asked to borrow $400, I was stalled (I didn't want to go through the loan process again) and we talked about other things. She asked how my relationship was and I told her not great in the bedroom, but otherwise good. She offered some advice and kiddingly said that she should charge me a fee for it. An idea suddenly struck me that I could perhaps maneuver her into an arrangement that would benefit both of us.

I said, "Oh are you into Findom" now? And of course she was like, "What is that?"
She and I had always been kinky together and even did the Cuckold thing a little before we broke up, so it was easy getting her interested in an arrangement. We finally agreed on a monthly tribute to be paid and a set of rules and set penalties for not following or breaking them. It was all done on-line and she got some much needed cash being and I got a kinky outlet for my sexual frustrations.

I guess it helped that we knew each other. She knew my deepest darkest secrets and was imaginative enough to play on them. It was all very erotic and I had a wonderful time and it even had a good affect on my relationship with my current girlfriend.

But of course besides the lucrative part, she didn't really get anything out of it, although I think she enjoyed the thought of me fantasizing about her. After about 3 months her situation changed and she started a relationship of her own and asked that I stop contacting her, at least about our "Arrangement".

I have a story I wrote based on this Findom arrangement. It's all factual, pretty much, except for the ending where we meet in a hotel room...that never happened although it made for a fun story.

 

[lilcuriouscatt]

Pm me if you are still looking.

 

[onall4s2112]

hello,
I wasn't notified of your response, yes I'm still looking...Thanks

 

[Lena11]

Sounds fun! PM me

 

[josie1517]

Well I know it's a long shot finding anything on-line, but it's fun trying.

So I guess "Chastity" in the title of my original post is misleading. Since I'm in a relationship, actually wearing a chastity device is not possible. Orgasm control via the Honor System is more precise.

Anyway here's some more detail about what I'm looking for.

Since my current girlfriend and I don't have sex very often, I periodically grow really horny. One time an ex of mine asked to borrow some money. She had done so before and paid it back in a month or so, so it wasn't totally out of the blue.

She had asked to borrow $400, I was stalled (I didn't want to go through the loan process again) and we talked about other things. She asked how my relationship was and I told her not great in the bedroom, but otherwise good. She offered some advice and kiddingly said that she should charge me a fee for it. An idea suddenly struck me that I could perhaps maneuver her into an arrangement that would benefit both of us.

I said, "Oh are you into Findom" now? And of course she was like, "What is that?"
She and I had always been kinky together and even did the Cuckold thing a little before we broke up, so it was easy getting her interested in an arrangement. We finally agreed on a monthly tribute to be paid and a set of rules and set penalties for not following or breaking them. It was all done on-line and she got some much needed cash being and I got a kinky outlet for my sexual frustrations.

I guess it helped that we knew each other. She knew my deepest darkest secrets and was imaginative enough to play on them. It was all very erotic and I had a wonderful time and it even had a good affect on my relationship with my current girlfriend.

But of course besides the lucrative part, she didn't really get anything out of it, although I think she enjoyed the thought of me fantasizing about her. After about 3 months her situation changed and she started a relationship of her own and asked that I stop contacting her, at least about our "Arrangement".

I have a story I wrote based on this Findom arrangement. It's all factual, pretty much, except for the ending where we meet in a hotel room...that never happened although it made for a fun story.

Hi there PM me! I'd love to chat