Cfnm enthusiast

[Zephyr_82]

Hi, I've been searching for a long while now trying to find an appropriate partner to indulge in my cfnm fantasies, without success..I'm not into hardcore cfnm but enjoy nudity in front of women, possibly stemming from some stray incidents which have stuck to me.

One instance was when I was younger, we had weekly swimming classes and the teacher-in-charge would supervise us, she never came in the water with us, just watched us with hands folded on a corner while the swimming coach taught us. After the class was over she would always stand at the door of the men's changing room and watch us change. Most guys including myself would be naked while changing out of our swimwear and she would watch us hands folded at the door..I presume most guys accepted this as normal as did I, and didn't think it was important enough to discuss among ourselves. This continued for at least three months if I recall correctly after which I think she left her job.

This is a prominent event in my life i can which has led me to my cfnm fantasies. I'm not sure if such things happen to other men as well, but in my case, they have certainly left a mark.

If there are any women out there who would enjoy casual male nudity, while being clothed herself, pls do pm me.

 

[bailadora]

Sexual discussion with regard to underage people (underage meaning under 18) is expressly prohibited by Literotica in any form or fashion. You need to amend your post before you run afoul of a moderator.

 

[satindesire]

The mods won't hesitate to come in here if you don't edit out the underage stuff. Listen to Bal. She knows what she's talking about.

 

[Zephyr_82]

Apologies, but the incidents are true. Not intended to offend anyone or infer anything related to underage sex, but a statement of facts. If this is not acceptable, would request the moderator to delete this thread to avoid further discussion on this.

 

[satindesire]

Apologies, but the incidents are true. Not intended to offend anyone or infer anything related to underage sex, but a statement of facts. If this is not acceptable, would request the moderator to delete this thread to avoid further discussion on this.

Just because it's true doesn't mean you have to talk about it. The mods don't have to delete the entire thread when you could edit your post way more easily.

Come on, man, don't make this 10 times more difficult than it has to be just because you want to break the rules.

 

[bailadora]

Doesn't matter if they are true or not. They're not allowed on Literotica. You can take care of the problem yourself by a) amending your post or b) deleting the information altogether. If you are unclear as to how to do this, see the information in this post.

 

[Zephyr_82]

No intention of breaking rules, didn't know how to delete the thread, just found out how to edit..is this acceptable or needs further amendment ?

 

[satindesire]

No intention of breaking rules, didn't know how to delete the thread, just found out how to edit..is this acceptable or needs further amendment ?

Get rid of the "childhood incidences" reference and you're golden. You can't delete threads, only mods can do that.

 

[Zephyr_82]

Thanks, hope all this effort yields some responses edits done.

 

[Eilan]

Since there isn't a specific How-To in this post and you appear to be looking for a CFNM partner, you may want to ask a mod to move this thread to the Personals Board.

You might also consider starting a CFNM thread on the Fetish Forum. Sans references to underage sex, obviously.

 

[SweetErika]

There are also a bunch of CFNM threads here already, if you're interested in checking them out.

But, no, CFNM alone doesn't really do anything for me personally. There are some situations that can call for it, but those are related to my brand of kink than CFNM as an interest or fetish.

 

[Eilan]

The idea of CFNM is hot to me if humiliation of the male is involved.

 

[Zephyr_82]

Almost 24 hrs in this forum and no responses yet..shud I take eilan's suggestion and request the moderator to move this to the fetish section? But as bailadora has told me, chances of any responses even there are quite slim, given the abundance of cfnm ads on this site as sweeterika has pointed out..
@ eilan: cfnm has elements of submission, inferiority and humiliation in it, although in moderation, and to me it is exactly the mild doses of these elements combined which does the trick..others may have differing views, can't opine for them.

 

[bailadora]

What I said was that you could place an ad on the Personals board, but that the chances of receiving a response were pretty slim.

If you post on the Fetish board, you'll likely find others (of both genders) who are into this fantasy.

 

[SweetErika]

Particularly since this thread has a lot of off-topic discussion, I'd save LadyG the trouble of moving it over and just copy your original post, paste it into a new thread in the Fetish forum, then make any necessary changes to suit that forum (e.g. replace the last line of your post with asking if there are any CFNM enthusiasts who want to share their thoughts and experiences). Or, go contribute to one of the CFNM threads from that forum that I gave you the search link to above.

Then forget this thread, unless people post to it in the future.

But you should be aware that some of the forums here, like HT, move more slowly that others, such as the GB or Playground. You may have to wait more than 24 hours for responses in the Fetish forum, too, though it seems like that one has been moving a bit quicker. It can take time for the right people to find your topic and/or craft their responses, so be patient (you can always look through those other CFNM threads in the meantime).

 

[Somehowyou]

What is CFNM?

 

[Zephyr_82]

Clothed female, nude male..

 

[Zephyr_82]

Hi...still wondering what this post is doing in thus forum but surprisingly I've had more views and responses from this forum than any other forum..ladies, pls feel free to chat with me abt wat u feel abt this particular fetish of mine

 

[SweetErika]

Hi...still wondering what this post is doing in thus forum but surprisingly I've had more views and responses from this forum than any other forum..ladies, pls feel free to chat with me abt wat u feel abt this particular fetish of mine

Um, this thread was doing nothing in this forum until you bumped it. And it's unlikely to do anything in this forum because you're asking to chat about your fantasies regarding a specific fetish, rather than a How To question. Two women threw you a bone with on-topic replies after the underage discussion, but that doesn't mean this thread has sparked any real interest.

I'd suggest saving your breath here and checking out the other CFNM threads on the board (I gave you a link to a bunch in a previous post, remember?), as well as following the advice to post about CFNM in Personals and/or ask if there are any other enthusiasts on the Fetish forum (the Fetish forum is still your best bet for finding other enthusiasts).