Cellular/Mobile "Bad Date" Rescue

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I don't "date", but this is amusing. P.
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Salon.com - Aug. 8, 2004 | The peak time for dates from hell in New York City is Friday at 8 p.m. -- judging by the cell phone calls delivering emergency excuses to bolt.

Truth is, they're fake "rescue" calls -- now being offered by two cell phone providers, Cingular Wireless and Virgin Mobile USA. In an era of Internet-set dates, it's just customer service -- a hip way to wiggle out of an uncomfortable encounter.

The rescue calls are a way to use the phone as a lifestyle accessory, Virgin Mobile spokeswoman Sarah Koening said.

For both Cingular and Virgin Mobile, the prerecorded messages are created at a high-tech central command in California's Silicon Valley. There, five people with doctorates in linguistics dream up excuses for folks to repeat before suddenly dropping a date gone sour.

Dan Enthoven, director of marketing for BeVocal, the California company that designs complex voice-driven software for the telecom market, said the number of rescue calls go up on weekends, especially Fridays at about 8 p.m. BeVocal's two rescue-call clients in North America, Cingular and Virgin Mobile, generate at least 10,000 calls a month, he said.

With both Cingular's Escape-A-Date and Virgin Mobile's Rescue Ring service, a customer can arrange to be called at a set time, using the cell keypad.

When the cell rings, one of Cingular's eight "emergency" messages says: "Hey, this is your Escape-A-Date call. If you're looking for an excuse, I got it. Just repeat after me, and you'll be on your way! 'Not again! Why does that always happen to you? ... All right, I'll be right there.' Now tell 'em that your roommate got locked out, and you have to go let them in. Good luck!" And bingo, the bad date is history.

The rescue-call service is part of a Cingular package that costs $4.99 a month. Virgin Mobile offers its Rescue Ring at 25 cents per use, plus the price of the call.
 
Thats so cool! I'd use that if I had a cell phone with one of those companies!!
 
That's an excellent idea for a service. They must be doing pretty good at it with 10,000 calls a month. Glad I don't date. lol
 
Drat...

They're always one step ahead of me. :)

What ever happened to tough-ing it out? It thickens one's skin and builds character. :p
 
Now tell 'em that your roommate got locked out, and you have to go let them in. Good luck!"

Damn!!

My friends use that line on me all the time!!

:p
 
They just did a story on this -

on CNN Headline News.

I wonder. With so much publicity, how on earth can this work? Anyone who gets a cell phone call during a first date will be looked upon with suspicion!

:eek:
 
Wonder if it could work in reverse?

She: "Not again! Really? Just like that? Right here? OK, if you say so."

He: "What was that?"

She: "My familiar. She says I should fulk you right now"

He:" Not again! Really? Just like that? Right here? OK, if you say so."
 
not that i dont just adore my cell phone.. but what ever happened to honesty?

sorry, dick, you just dont do it for me.. heres half my tab. buh bye now...

jane, i thought wed get on, but, i ve just realized were not ganna jive.. see ya

maybe with a bit more tact but still.. better than being dishonest and leaving the other to wonder if theyll see you again.
 
vella_ms said:
not that i dont just adore my cell phone.. but what ever happened to honesty?

sorry, dick, you just dont do it for me.. heres half my tab. buh bye now...

jane, i thought wed get on, but, i ve just realized were not ganna jive.. see ya

maybe with a bit more tact but still.. better than being dishonest and leaving the other to wonder if theyll see you again.
I have to agree wholeheartedly on that.

First of all, blind dates rarely work out simply because the parties involved start out in an uncomfortable environment. Forced to spend time with a total stranger and worried that you will not be good enough. Often it makes for very tight lipped conversation or babbling idiots.

I gave up accepting "fix-ups from friends years ago for that reason.

But if you must go that route and you find it is not working out, why not simply say, "Hey, I'm sorry, but I don't see this working out. I'm sure you are a terrific guy/girl but I'm just not feeling a connection." Shake their hand pay the check and go.

If it were me on the receiving end I would rather hear that than some faked phone call and never hear from you again. How long do you think it's going to take me to figure it out?

At least with the honest approach if we meet again at, say, the grocery store we can say hi and be friendly. The other way we'll be again obviously uncomfortable and have to explain what happened.

I'll never hold a grudge because you told me the truth. In fact I'll more likely respect you for it.
 
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