Celibate marriage

[finewine0110]

I am looking for advice, and hope to hear from anyone who can help. I am 59 years old, a runner, and keep in shape. I have been in a "celibate" marriage for a number of years. I still have a strong libido -- and masturbate often (many time using literotica.com as a stimulus!). Several years ago I went the "Adult Friendfinder" route and met 4 different women -- having both short and longer term affairs.

Unfortunately, I went a little crazy, and was caught. In spite of this my wife stayed with me, and we have a good marriage, except for the sex part. We sleep separately, and have "vanilla" sex about once every three months. When I began my affairs I read Lou Paget's book "How to Give Her Absolute Pleasue", and was told by my lovers that I am very good.

So what am I to do? -- another affair? At 59, they are hard to come by -- the internet (i.e., adult friendfinder) tends to ignore older men.

I would love to communicate with someone who shares my frustration -- especially another woman. My e-mail address is finewine@usa.net if you want to communicate directly.

I am writing this here, as it seems to be the place where "erotc people" can share their views without reprisal.

Cheers,

-DW

 

[GonzoTheGreat65]

get a divorce

Your wife doesn't seem to respect you.

 

[Eilan]

At 59, they are hard to come by -- the internet (i.e., adult friendfinder) tends to ignore older men.

Having spent quite a bit of time (and having had a bit of success with a couples profile) on AFF, I'd say that your marital status is more of an issue there than your age is. While some women don't have a problem with married men, others do (and say so in their profiles). Add that to the fact that on AFF, men vastly outnumber women, and your chances of success decrease.

At any rate, good luck.

 

[SweetDreams4U]

I'm wondering...why stay in a marriage you're so frustrated in?