Celibate Bisexual Male

[OlderBiMan]

I haven't been with anyone in a long time. Oh, I've been with both men and women before (duh !) but right now, I want something more meaningful
in my life. Unfortunately, good men are rare and good women are even rarer.


Ever felt that way ?

 

[BitterIchor]

I was recently burnt badly (got cheated on and left for a man, they married and lived happily ever after) and I have a hard time trusting anyone. I live in a small to medium sized city, so even if I did want to meet someone, the odds are against me.

So yeah, I may not be a "celibate bisexual male", but I get where you're coming from.

 

[Wolfman1982]

Well mates, I think I am in the same boat as you guys, if you don´t say masturbation is noncelibacy.

Heck I am 23 years old. and have been single for 6 long years (I can celebrate singlehood anniversary now).

And I am looking for a partner too. So I know the feeling of not having a person to love and cherish, and I am not into "whambamfuckyoumam" (onenightstands).

 

[ETNDawg]

Unfortunately, good men are rare and good women are even rarer.
Ever felt that way ?

I feel that way all the time -- and even MORE so since I got married.

 

[John Doe]

Unfortunately, good men are rare and good women are even rarer.


Ever felt that way ?

Constantly.

 

[OlderBiMan]

Well, I may not be celibate for much longer. Two months ago I met a rather interesting lady. I attended a local fundraiser for GLBT youth. She was one of the coordinators. A tall, lean woman with close-cropped red hair and sparky blue eyes. She was in her late thirties. Her name is Mary Jo. She's a GLBT activist and a member of PFLAG. She's a single bisexual woman who's got a 17-year-old daughter. We've gone out. She's a feisty and lively dame. Quite attractive, too. I'm rather curious about her. Recently, we went out together and my celibacy "ended". What can I say ?

 

[revolution724]

Lucky you, and congrats. I thought for a while my celibacy was going to end soon, but I realized my heart wasn't in it and just broke it off with the woman I'd been seeing. Not only are good ones hard to find, but the right good one is damn near impossible.

 

[human_male]

Yes and I can't see it ever changing. Unless I make a lot of money or my looks suddenly come in.

 

[OlderBiMan]

Yes and I can't see it ever changing. Unless I make a lot of money or my looks suddenly come in.

Don't say that. Recently, a big butch girl I knew hooked up with a guy
who works in the postal office. who is he ? as flamey a guy as can be.
love is crazy, you know.

 

[emzthebitch]

everybody is beautiful to somebody

 

[ezervet]

everybody is beautiful to somebody

ah yes, but will that person be beautiful to me? That's the real question

honestly though, i feel like i'm in a similar boat, sort of a self enforced celibacy. i'm a bisexual male, even. Right now, i'm not really in a place where i want to start a relationship with a woman because i'm just starting to go through what my sexuality is, and i don't think that it would be fair to me or her to start something now, because i'm in a really weird place. (if you'll allow me a "straight" flashback, god, that sounds gay!) but, i'm not really out enough to pursue something with a guy. plus, i'm not down with the hook up sex, so it limits my options for the physical affection on both fronts.

when something happens, it'll happen. i'll stop being whiny and do something.

 

[PredatorSmile]

In my experience, you meet the people you're meant to know and care for when you least expect it. Three years ago today, I was in a relationship with a woman who had severe anger and control issues. Yet I stayed with her, even when she treated other people and myself like crap.
Today, I'm with a wonderful man. Yet if you had told me that I was going to end up with a guy, I would have laughed because I used to identify as 100 Percent Lez. Surprise, surprise. I know, it shocked my family and friends too. what can i say ?