Cbt

[DrivingSouth]

What does CBT refer to when speaking about fetishes or fantasies??

Thanks!!

 

[thehoaxer]

i think

it's cock and ball torture

 

[DrivingSouth]

it's cock and ball torture

I guess I should have been able to figure that out...That does not seem to be very pleasurable for a man...lol...

 

[thehoaxer]

i agree

but i guess some guys are into it.

 

[SweetErika]

I guess I should have been able to figure that out...That does not seem to be very pleasurable for a man...lol...

It's a very general term that encompasses a lot of things, from the more mild to the wild. Like a little biting, light cock spanking, clothespins/pinching on your scrotum, cock and/or ball bondage, wax? That's CBT; so is the trampling, serious impact, piercing, weighting, etc., you're probably recoiling from.

 

[Snip2]

so is the trampling, serious impact, piercing, weighting, etc., you're probably recoiling from.

OMG..................... I've been kicked/hit in the nuts when I was a kid...........that CANNOT be good! I don't care who you are!

 

[WCHSP]

A lot of people get off on the fear or humiliation aspects of it... like our culture has a stigma about getting kicked in the nuts, and whenever there's stigma it breeds fascination. Plus, there's something to be said for using the literal source of a man's strength as his weakness.

 

[TheAntiRebel]

Some of my past sex partners have kind of nipped/mock bite at my dick in the past, and I was (mentally) freaking out.

Not cool, ladies!

 

[Eilan]

I guess I should have been able to figure that out...That does not seem to be very pleasurable for a man...lol...

I think it depends on the man. Very, very occasionally, my husband will ask to have his balls, squeezed, slapped and/or punched, and although it's obviously painful for him, he has the most intense orgasms at these times. I have to admit that it kinda freaked me out at first.

 

[NippleMuncher]

The whole extreme BDSM scene is quite scary. There is some freaky stuff out there that can't be good for anyone, let alone the person (male or female ) that it's happening to. In the end, whatever floats your boat, as long as it's between consenting adults it's all good.

 

[janeyl]

My partner orgasms very strongly when I use a riding crop on his balls but only if he is very very aroused-we are not into BDSM as a rule but like to steal some of the ideas for playtime occasionally-strap on play and a little dabbling with sounds

I must admit I had to look twice though-CBT means Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to me!! (must try and leave work behind.......lol)

 

[wildehafer]

One man's torture is another man's pleasure.

It's another form of bondage and discipline so it's not everyone's cup of tea.

Personally, I've tried it and quite like it, but then I'm somewhat into pain. That's just my preference.

I also like to try different stuff, extend my boundaries so to speak, to see what I do and don't like.

If you never try, how do you know?

 

[FantaSeaGirl]

The whole extreme BDSM scene is quite scary. There is some freaky stuff out there that can't be good for anyone, let alone the person (male or female ) that it's happening to. In the end, whatever floats your boat, as long as it's between consenting adults it's all good.

It is true that "in the end whatever floats your boat", but I don't think "can't be good for anyone" is an appropiate statement. Thise who play in the BDSM scene go by the motto "SSC: Safe, Sane & Consentual". Safe words are often used and while some "play" may seem "unsafe" to you or any outsider there is often a lot o forethought that gooes into a scene. For example, CBT would not entail prolonger blood restriction & a lot of impact play that looks hap hazard is very carefully done avoiding kidneys, protuding bones such as hips with deeper impact and other considerations.

I'm just saying, I like your attitude of "whatever float your boat" bet wanted to point out that BDSM is not necessarily as dangerous as it appears.

 

[EasyDoesIt]

For some, myself included, the connection between pain and pleasure....and blending them together.....is extremely erotic. There is a difference psychologically between pain and erotic pain.

A lady introduced me to the use of cat-o-nine tails. She enjoyed it dragged across her skin, then gently slap her skin with it. As she became aroused, firmer and harder strikes on her breasts/kitty were thrilling for her. Very erotic to administer seeking just the right strike. As her lips became red and swollen....the strikes became harder, even seeking contact with her clit. Using the cat and erotic pain, her kitty opened and leaked. At the right time, I would immediately switch from the erotic pain to the pleasure of the most gentle licks I could provide.....rocking orgasms followed shortly.

The same lady would tie me spread eagle and use the cat on my balls and cock. The same approach was used starting very gentle and increasing the force with excitation. Sometimes she would use a wooden spoon on the testicals. Balls would become red and slightly swollen and she would finish me with her mouth or kitty. The orgasms were superior.

Blindfolds were very useful with this kind of play. You cann't anticipate the timing or strength of the strike.

Once discovered, erotic pain is incredibly intimate because of the trust that goes with it. Certainly worth exploring ....and decide for yourself.