Casual Sex: Do women really want it?

[woodietime]

I see all kinds of stuff on literotica and sometimes wonder if there are women out there that just want to have sex with a guy on a regular basis. I know most men, including me, would like to fuck a different women every week. Not just sex, but make love - multiple orgasms, long and slow. I really wonder if many women want to have this kind of relationship. What do you think?

 

[nikssilly]

I can honestly say that I personally find "casual sex" more erotic and exciting that being in a relationship.

 

[The Gimp]

I know most men, including me, would like to fuck a different women every week.

I can't say that I'm a part of that club. Now that I have a girlfriend who's sexual appetite is just as strong as mine sex is a hell of a lot better than it was back when I was in flavor of the week mode. I know what she likes and she knows what I like so we can get right down to business. If I were to put some effort into it I'm pretty sure that I could have sex with someone new but I'm happy with the one I've got

 

[biencounters]

If you pay them they want it bad

Sure, women love casual sex, - for pay - drugs or to keep their job.

 

[dragonhearted]

Re: If you pay them they want it bad

Sure, women love casual sex, - for pay - drugs or to keep their job.

boy are YOU misinformed!

 

[biencounters]

Dragonheart

boy are YOU NAIVE!

 

[Jaybird3]

Woodietime, I happen to like casual sex. I don't have the time or the energy right now to invest in a full time relationship. But at the same time, I do have that "itch that needs scratched" about 20 times a week. lol.

biencounters, I am neither misinformed nor naive. I just am old enough to know what I want and what I need. I have never had sex for any of the reasons that you give.

I just know what like a lot of other biological urges, sex is one of mine.

 

[biencounters]

Jaybird

I totally agree. We all have that urge. Unfortunately, at 40yrs old and a full schedule working. I have found that I must create a financial incentive to have sex. That is unfortunately the way our economy is. When I was a teenager, and mom and dad paid for everything. Or until I became an adult. Around 25 or so and the weight of the world fell on my shoulders. Unfortunately like you and virtually everyone around me. Sex has become something harder and harder to come by. Because we are all simply "too busy". Believe me, I would be having sex all the time, but my partners have to work, have children, responsiblitities. Etc.
I have found, that women will, however, show up and fuck if they know they will get paid. Get high, or have a chance to make money with my company.

 

[Jaybird3]

Then might I suggest that you take a serious look at the women that you are seeing. I am almost 45, I have put in my 20 years in one career and am working on a second one. At no time in my life did I have sex for money or drugs or to get ahead.

 

[nikssilly]

Oh bother!

I think I may have made a mistake in replying here. I wnat to get one thing straight. I have NEVER had sex in "payment" for drugs, accepted or been offered payment, and have never "screwed my way to the top". I hate being in a relationship. I am horrible at them and have never been successful in them. I do, however, love the act of sex, enjoy orgasms, and would much rather it be a casual one-night stand than go through the emotional bullshit.

There - 'nuff said.

 

[Jaybird3]

No. nikssilly, you didn't make a mistake replying here. I think that it is more a case of just what I said. If those are the only people that someone can find then maybe they need to take a look inside and see why.

I have never accepted any kind of payment for sex either, (unless you count mutual orgasms, and in that case, I am guilty as charged).

I think what you said is about right for some of us. Some folks just are not hardwired for whatever reason for the relationship thing. My job is not to judge them. Just to be a friend if possible.

 

[dragonhearted]

Re: Dragonheart

boy are YOU NAIVE!

you stupid fuck....I have HAD casual sex without being paid, given drugs or to keep a job. I have never stooped that low! I have sex cuz I fuckin ENJOY it! So take your "naive" and shove it up your ass....cuz that is the ONLY fuckin you'll be gettin with YOUR lousy attitude!

 

[Jaybird3]

So anyone else want to chime in on the casual sex thing.

 

[mellowmage]

Casual sex?

Wow... I still love it although I am just 36. I have never been paid for it although I did once sleep with a client. Never did drugs for it although we have had a buzz while doing it. Didn't get offered a promotion though lovers have helped me in my career. Of course I also have gotten my lover high, paid for a "massage" in Vietnam, and helped my lover to get a job. What was the question? Oh yeah, "Do any women enjoy casual sex?" I am not a woman but many of my partners and I have had a wonderful time screwing each others' brains out just because it fit the moment. Personally I think the subject goes back to the old adage of loving the one you are with and living for the moment. As for passing judgement on others for thier appetites or justifying your own actions by trying to condemn others, some of you are simply being absurd.
So... Do any of you women like to have casual sex just for the fun of it?

 

[dragonhearted]

Re: Casual sex?

Wow... I still love it although I am just 36. I have never been paid for it although I did once sleep with a client. Never did drugs for it although we have had a buzz while doing it. Didn't get offered a promotion though lovers have helped me in my career. Of course I also have gotten my lover high, paid for a "massage" in Vietnam, and helped my lover to get a job. What was the question? Oh yeah, "Do any women enjoy casual sex?" I am not a woman but many of my partners and I have had a wonderful time screwing each others' brains out just because it fit the moment. Personally I think the subject goes back to the old adage of loving the one you are with and living for the moment. As for passing judgement on others for thier appetites or justifying your own actions by trying to condemn others, some of you are simply being absurd.
So... Do any of you women like to have casual sex just for the fun of it?

Wanna fly up here to MAINE to find out? I love sex everyday, often 3 times a day or more....if I can GET it! I have not met a man that could keep up with my needs.

 

[Jaybird3]

I truly enjoy casual sex, but have the same problem as dragonhearted here. Hard to find a man that can keep up.

 

[janus40s]

I truly enjoy casual sex, but have the same problem as dragonhearted here. Hard to find a man that can keep up.

No problem keeping up with a woman... The key is to use hands, lips, and most of all... thoughts...

 

[Jaybird3]

How very true on the thoughts janus.

 

[RoughPlay]

I do have that "itch that needs scratched" about 20 times a week. lol.

That's a big itch Jaybird3. What do you do when there's no one else around to scratch it ?

 

[Sadbhine]

Wow. What a subject!
As for my two cents worth: I am a female, not yet 30, and a professional with a busy schedule who does do a lot of traveling. And I've never had sex for money, drugs or to get further ahead in my career.
The casual sex thing might be fine and good - everyone loves that rush of excitement of the 'first time' with a new person and the palpitating heart and sweaty palms and the pure excitement. I dont think that is any different for men then it is women. Something new, something exciting always holds an attraction (what is it that guys call it? 'Strange pussy'?). Which would explain why many women are shop-a-holics. Much easier to go shopping then to try and pick someone up, eh? And sometimes the thrill of a new outfit that makes you feel sexy and desirable is neater then trying to dis-entangle from someone who thinks they are in love.
But - having said all that, I agree with Gimp. I like "knowing the terrain" so to speak, and if given the right situation and circumstances, my lover and I can get a quickie in at any time, any place and yes - feel that same rush as if we were with someone else (doesnt hurt throwing a couple of curve balls into the repertoire either). However, knowing the terrain gets us there much quicker.

 

[dragonhearted]

Speakin of quickies....I could use about 10 in a row right now!

 

[SallyIsHere]

Yes and no

The excitement of "new" is great but I quickly realize that we know nothing about what the other person likes. I still am amazed that there are men who think they have developed a sexual style that is so good that "one size fits all." First times are overrated in my book. I would rather have a "casual" month with someone.

Sally

 

[Jaybird3]

rough play...it is difficult believe me. lol.

That is why I like casual sex and not all men don't know what to do to please me. The ones that don't, I tell.

 

[Sterling]

Although I am a guy, and I am young; My attraction to older women has pointed me to a few women who just wanted casual sex.

 

[Calibetsy]

Casual Sex do women like it or not?

Seems to me everyone went on a tangent somewhere and didn't return to the point. what in the hell does getting paid for sex, drug use or involvement in your company business have to do with liking casual sex? That is called prostitution and thats a whole other ball game.
I don't care much for casual sex my self as I am in a long term relationship that is heading towards marriage. I am more of my self and I know him more intimately helps learn the tricks about turning each other on. We are both horny and busy and still manage to have hot sweaty sex three or four times a day and if you don't think I'm busy I have five kids and care for two more under the age of seven. Being truely horny means you find a way and in a relationship we have it whenever we have a spare moment neither of us need to go looking for it.
One other note...on charging for sex, when I was married my ex husband was such an asshole I would charge him for sex all the time as a way of discouraging him it didn't work. But at least I got something out of the fucking.