Carolina Male looking for kinky 'fun'

SCHippie

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I'm an open minded guy looking for an openminded girl who can show me some kinky fun in the Carolinas.
I like to be challanged, but can't seem to find many gals who do.
6'3", 205, athletic...how about you?
 
Hello neighbor! Welcome to Lit, and do enjoy your stay. The lounge is to your right, and please find the mints on your pillow.;)
 
Bumping

Let's try this again...

If you're at all interested, reply, PM, or e-mail me. I'll answer any questions and I'll do my best to 'meet your needs':D
 
3 Strikes and...

thought I'd bump this one more time.

I'm near Charlotte, my basic stats are above, and if you are at all curious then PM me, e-mail me or reply to this topic.

I'll entertain any and all questions.
 
Okay, how about some help

This is obviously not working, so could those who aren't interested or who might be interested offer any advice for me?
Should I be doing something differently?
 
How kinky do you like to get and what do you consider a challenge? Just curious
 
Hey there Outlet!

I'm not sure what scale of kinkiness I could rate myself, but I'm open to trying almost anything. I'm most comfortable in the fetish kinkiness than the S&M kinkiness (if they are on the same continuum), but I would like for someone to expertly take me out of my comfort zone.

The challenge I was referring to is in personality, or emotional challenge. I want someone to be able to match wits, play roles, have ideas and experiences that could make the experience lots of fun! But I also would like to be challenged physically. Because I'm a big guy, I'm proportionately big as well, so it would be fun to be with someone who could "handle" me as well.

Does this satisfy your curiousity?;)
 
That does satisfy my curiousity. It looks like we are in the same place, sexually that is. I have several fetishes and fantasies I would like to fulfill. I do agree that it helps to have someone who is mentally and emotionally up to the same experiences. I imagine it is a little dificult to find someone who can "handle" you considering your size.
 
What type of fetishes/fantasies are you looking to fulfill? Are you having trouble finding people to fill them, or just keeping them as fantasies? With the Bible belt the way it is, I have trouble finding women open to the 'fun' stuff.
 
I do have a a slight problem finding people open to my situation. I am married so that is a red flag for most men. It sucks to be quite frank. I enjoy sexual relationships that push the envelope a little. I like to experiment and be a little daring. To be really honest, I adore sex in any form and fashion. I can do without the emotional "stuff" although I do like to have a little emotional involvement since it does help the flow of things. I have had relationships where the guy is just too in to me which causes problems for me. I have also had relationships where the guys is all about getting himself off while I am left wondering why in the hell I am there. Don't get me wrong, I will never underestimate the power of great sex. I just think it holds a much great power if you enjoy the person as well.
 
well...

Well... I AM interested. But I guess I have a few questions. How old are you? What do you look like (beyond weight and height)? I'm in the Boone area, and I am definintely looking for someone to satisfy me and to satisfy. And I like my men big;). But b/c I am well, pretty new to all this online talking stuff (parties are my forte), I'd guess I'd like to know a little more first.
 
You sound very similar to someone that I know, Outlet. If you are anything like her, then I certainly hope I can meet you!

I agree 100% with what you said about emotional involvement...it's certainly a plus when you're having fun or a fling, but it can complicate things too.

What part of SC are you from? Just curious.
 
Unregistered,

Thanks for your interest, but I'm hesitant to start anything with someone who isn't registered. I'll be glad to send you a picture or Private Message you if you register, but I don't want to do much out here in the open.

I'm interested in what you look like so if you registar, please PM me!
 
I am living in Columbia. So I sound like someone you know? Why isn't she/he keeping you challenged or are they but you like variety?
Where are you from?
 
I lived in Columbia for a while, and while I was there she challanged me quite a bit, but since I moved a little North, she's not challanging me as much.

Would you be at all interested in 'challanging' me?
 
Outlet said:
I do have a a slight problem finding people open to my situation. I am married so that is a red flag for most men. It sucks to be quite frank. I enjoy sexual relationships that push the envelope a little. I like to experiment and be a little daring. To be really honest, I adore sex in any form and fashion. I can do without the emotional "stuff" although I do like to have a little emotional involvement since it does help the flow of things. I have had relationships where the guy is just too in to me which causes problems for me. I have also had relationships where the guys is all about getting himself off while I am left wondering why in the hell I am there. Don't get me wrong, I will never underestimate the power of great sex. I just think it holds a much great power if you enjoy the person as well.

Outlet, your post hits it right on the nail for me with the exception I'm the male in that scenario. I've had that red flag you mentioned flown at me as well. Too bad I'm not closer to Columbia.

:p
 
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Got a nibble...

but it got away.

Anyone else (females) interested at all? Curious enough to at least ask a few questions?
 
Thanks so much for your curiousity!
I hope it continues!!

I notice that you are in Indiana, any chance you'll be down here anytime soon?
 
I'm gonna bump this...but admittedly with little hope.

Oh to find someone who will ask questions, who is curious about me and is interested in having the same fun that I am.

I'm not looking for someone to cyber with, I'm looking for the real thing. I'll answer any and all questions honestly and I have some pictures to show what I physically look like.

There have to be fun, horny women SOMEWHERE out there!

If you are into some kinky fun, and are worth the drive from the Charlotte area, e-mail me, PM me, post to this forum...let me know you are out there!!!;)
 
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