First of all, have you ever seen the G spot vibrator? It's an average sized vibrator (usually in various bright or pastel colors) that curves at the top. It is designed to reach the g spot and achieve killer orgasms.
Anyway, the g spot can be found with fingers too. (Sometimes, though, they're not long enough to reach properly, hence the special vibe.) Take your index and middle fingers (or just one of the two if you're used to having only one finger inside you), curve them slightly, and then insert them into your pussy. You should feel a spongy patch of skin (parallel to your mound on the outside of your body)... That is your g spot.
I've found that after using the specific g spot vibrator, it's easier for a man to hit it during sex.
When I first met my wife, she asked me a riddle: What do the lottery, the toilet bowl and the G-Spot have in common?
Answer: They are three things men can't hit. LOL, but crying on the inside.
Good news is that with good patience and communication, you can find it using Tiggs' Directions above. She is definitely right about using a vibe or fingers ahead of time helping improve target location during intercourse.
Ok...I found my g-spot...but I try to masturbate, but I can't get off...it's just not the same as being fingered by a guy...any helpful tips for me...anyone?
A note: in a percentage of women, the G spot does not produce a killer orgasm; it is more of an irritant when stimulated. Please don't get all carried away and upset if it doesn't happen.
I, myself, am one of them. Sigh. It sounded so good, too.