Can't figure something out

[angelkitty7888]

Hi! I'm new and i looked around but i didn't find a thread that made sence for this so i decided to make one!

i am a lesbian and over the summer i turned 18 so my girlfriend and i finally went all the way (and i did bleed) but i'm not sure if she really broke me... for one her nails were a bit long so she could have just torn me a little... and i'm no where near as sore as i expected to be... i can't exactly find out for myself *blush* and i don't know what to look for other than the obvious.... any ideas?

 

[MrsConfused]

I will talk with you, sweetie!

I am a bit older than you, in my 30's, but if you would like to talk about this or anything else, I will try to help. I am not sure about the bleeding. I would say she just scratched you if she was using her fingers. I will tell you that I am not lesbian, but bi. I was married, but he turned out to be a dick and I never had an interest in women until I met the wife of my husband's friend. Over a short time, I really fell for her, but it took quite a while to get up the nerve and with the help of some ladies on here, to feel her out and come to find out, she was attracted to me. We have been, more or less, seeing each other for some time now. I got divorced, but she is still married and her husband doesn't know about us. She doesn't think he would understand or go for it, so we are carefull. He knows we are friends and spend a lot of time together, so it is not unusual for us to be together a lot and he does work a lot of hours. I even spend the night at times with her telling her husband that she feels safer with someone else in the house when he works midnights. I never experienced what I experience with her with a man. As they say, a woman knows what women want and like and we both enjoy each other so much and love to cuddle. If you would rather talk about this in private, you can send me a message and we can talk through emails (private messages) here on Literotica. Hope to hear from you.

 

[tanyachrs]

A single finger isn't likely to break your hymen since women can use tampons without it breaking. On the other hand, many women don't have much of a hymen left by the time they're 18 anyway. That whole cherry popping thing is a bit of a myth. On the third hand, no you probably wouldn't feel too sore the next day. Different women have different amounts of more or less stubborn skin with larger and smaller openings, all of which is natural.

I'd just not worry about it - what's the dif either way? But you could ask your gyno to take a look and see if there are any remnants of your hymen that need to be cleaned up. It can be done quickly by your doctor.

 

[briar_rose]

yes can also depend on the size of your girl's hands too. Soreness can have a lot to do with the size of the penetrating object. but hey, i'd say you've got nothing to worry about, and the best way to be sure is go do it agaiN! lol

 

[angelkitty7888]

lol thanks people!

my girl used a couple fingers (and some tongue lol) and i was just surprised because when my friends (who also are lesbians) went "all the way" they were sore for about a week and one complained a lot.... i guess i was just expecting something similar.... *shrug* oh well life goes on and we're happy

but as i said thanks people!!

 

[sweetjain]

This link might help. Hymens tend to be very different just like other aspects of women's bodies.