Can't decide on a sex toy

[JohnnyA]

I'm looking for anal stimulation and the feeling of being penetrated. I was up at the sex store and was looking at either

a nice looking 7 inch stiff,sort of flexible/jellied/vibrating dildo

or

a sequence of incresingly larger anal beads.

I want the most bang for my dollar and I hope to massage my prostate. So...
vibe or bead? Does anyone have experience with which one gives more pleasure?

 

[Tymeless]

i'm looking for the same kinda thing and i'm an anal virgin so all suggestions are welcome!

 

[Wolfman1982]

hmmmm oh well, my first dildo was a golden dildo 18,5 cm and in diametre 3 CM ,with a vibe in it, and another one afterwards was a see through purple one, with a vibe in it too . And it could bend a little , and then I bought a black one, without a vibe in it. And that one was great too, heck I also once bought two buttplugs.

Hmmm if I should choose one for you anal virgin starters, then it would be mandys baby vibes, but you can also see a golden one I had as my first dildo on this page

http://www.sexlageret.dk/index.php?cPath=11&sort=2a&page=2

(no I didn´t buy them on the internet, I bought them at the stores), but anyway, nowadays I only have a white dildo that looks like a real cock. But perhaps, I should get some more dildos again

Just forget the page is in Danish. Since it isn´t hard to figure out, what the different words mean.
And you can always use the site as a picturereference.

To those who don´t know how much an inch is, then an inch is in centimetres 2.54 centimetres(well 2.540005 centimetres to be exact in USA anyway, and in England it is 2.539996 centimetres), so if you are going to figure out what the centimetres are in inches then do like this. 18 : 2.54 = 7.8 inches and alot of decimals.

 

[webber1998]

If you are looking for the sensation of being penetrated, I would recommend the vibrating dildo. I personally prefer something fairly stiff and pliable, with a penis shaped head on it. Blue Dolphin is waterproof and not TOO large. I recommend it for massaging the prostate too. Some of the anal wands are great if you are practicing on yourself ( or with a friend ).

I've got on set of anal beads that I really like. I think you can still get them although I haven't looked in a while. It has 3 sets in one so 3 different sizes of beads.

In my opinion, each of these give their own set of sensations in anal play. The dildo and vibrator for that penetration feeling. And the beads feel great when being inserted or removed.

And there are some awesome butt plugs out there too.

 

[JohnnyA]

Anyone tried inflation toys? I saw some up there today. Its a latex bulb that you insert in a orifice and then inflate it to your pleasure.

 

[JohnnyA]

Ill take a picture of what I decide to buy tomorrow. I know what I want, but my check hasn't cleared yet.

 

[rjp44]

anal toys

There's a good selection of butt plugs, dildos vibrators and combinations at the blowfish web site

 

[JohnnyA]

Bought these two. The one is a silver 7.5 inch vibe and the other is a nice sequence of purple jellied anal beads. Can't wait to try both.

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v372/CJMFilm20/DSC00037.jpg

 

[webber1998]

When in doubt, buy both.

Report back after you have tried them.

 

[JohnnyA]

Haven't tried either yet. I've always wondered with anal things. What can hurt you? If I feel pressure and what have you should I go past it or does that mean stop?

 

[AlecBond]

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[rjp44]

Bought these two. The one is a silver 7.5 inch vibe and the other is a nice sequence of purple jellied anal beads. Can't wait to try both.

That dildo is pretty large for a beginner, so I would recommend lots of lube, working up to a couple of fingers first, more lube, and bear down like you're trying to shit when inserting the dildo. Take your time and don't try to insert it all at once. Take it in and out and slowly work it past the sphincter muscles. When the head pops in past them, you will know it......Enjoy

 

[bi golly]

I have a Feeldoe that I like. It is the purple one and I have no problems getting it in. I like to lube it up and then gently press it against my anus. I have lube in me also, but I use gentle pressure, then I back off and press again. I do this around 30 times, pressing a little harder each time and then it just slips right in. I find that I really relax when I do this because it takes so long.

I tried using finger to loosen those muscles, but that never really worked well.

I have tried anal beads in the past, but found that the string between them was not very pleasureable. There are silicon toys that are sort of 'beads on a stick', but I haven't tried one of those.

 

[noonenew]

I got a Doc Sue 6" jelly dong, I love this thing... in fact, it's in me right now.

 

[noonenew]

aaand, I just ordered this guy
http://www.adameve.com/vibrators/waterproof/wet-toy-waterproof-vibe-pc-204-25.aspx

I can't wait to try it out! It's got everything I was looking for, suction cup, vibration, waterproof.


and as far as hurting yourself... Yeah, I'm pretty sure that's how it is. If it hurts, stop and reposition, or stop and try to relax.The pain usually subsides. You've also got to condition your ass a little, I guess... You don't want a prolapse, eww.

 

[zekealicious]

I think a "tulip wand" is a good starter