Can't come, won't come

[HeyNonnyNonny]

Here's one for the vast collective experience of the AH:

Has anybody been to bed with someone (I'm assuming a woman) who was, or claimed to be, non-orgasmic?

If so;
a) were you able to prove them wrong?
b) did you enjoy it?

I had always understood that lots of people didn't have experience of getting off during sex, but it was news to me that some people believe themselves to be physiologically incapable of it.

 

[Le Jacquelope]

Here's one for the vast collective experience of the AH:

Has anybody been to bed with someone (I'm assuming a woman) who was, or claimed to be, non-orgasmic?

If so;
a) were you able to prove them wrong?
b) did you enjoy it?

I had always understood that lots of people didn't have experience of getting off during sex, but it was news to me that some people believe themselves to be physiologically incapable of it.

Patience and good oral sex skills make the ultimate battering ram for that problem.

 

[angelfox]

Here's one for the vast collective experience of the AH:

Has anybody been to bed with someone (I'm assuming a woman) who was, or claimed to be, non-orgasmic?

If so;
a) were you able to prove them wrong?
b) did you enjoy it?

I had always understood that lots of people didn't have experience of getting off during sex, but it was news to me that some people believe themselves to be physiologically incapable of it.

Yes there are rare medical reasons why a woman can't orgasm; but usually it is psychological.

I am a woman who didn;t have an orgasm until age 34. This was largely resulting from little self awareness and an incompetant partner for many years. He put me off sex for a variety of reasons, marital rape being one of them.

Then i met someone else who showed me what it was to enjoy sex again. Eventually I learned how to make myself cum and now sex is wonderful!

I think alot of people get more enjoyment from their partners pleasure rather than their own. I know one man who isn;t happy unless his partner cums. He takes his pleasure from her pleasure.

It takes time and patience as the other poster said, to help a woman with orgasm problems. Ultimately a woman needs how to learn how to pleasure herself so that she can teach her partner the same techniques. It's all about communication.

On a side note and more in response to the original question -yes I bet there are lots of men who have been to bed with women who didn;t orgasm. I just wonder how many of them actually a) realised and b) cared?

 

[amicus]

Yer gunna have to think on this fer a while...but most women, nine out of ten, from my personal experience, do not know and never expect to gain pleasure from sexual intercourse.

It is not necessary to make a baby; and the girl just wants to please the guy... and we know how he is pleased....

And although we have a generation and a half of women's libbers, who know all about dildos and vibrators, that is just the San Francisco left, most don't have a clue.

So, be a man, be patient, be gentle, explore and expand...slowly and teach your woman how to love...

amicus...

 

[impressive]

And although we have a generation and a half of women's libbers, who know all about dildos and vibrators, that is just the San Francisco left, most don't have a clue.

You can't be serious.

 

[TxRad]

You can't be serious.

*Sigh* Oh yes he can and I'm afraid he is.....

Very scary, ain't it....

 

[672]

~snerks at the amicus post and meanders elsewhere~

 

[amicus]

truth is tuff, ain't it?


amicus...

 

[672]

truth is tuff, ain't it?


amicus...

Your post makes me LOLLERSKATES. That is all. No explanation. I love male explanations.

 

[amicus]

amicus]Yer gunna have to think on this fer a while...but most women, nine out of ten, from my personal experience, do not know and never expect to gain pleasure from sexual intercourse.

It is not necessary to make a baby; and the girl just wants to please the guy... and we know how he is pleased....

And although we have a generation and a half of women's libbers, who know all about dildos and vibrators, that is just the San Francisco left, most don't have a clue.

So, be a man, be patient, be gentle, explore and expand...slowly and teach your woman how to love...

amicus...

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I quote myself and even put it in bold face, to stuff it in your face...most women, my sample was only about 1500, have no idea what sex is all about...


Of course, that number is not sufficient for a scientific study, but it suits me.

If it isn't abuse or molestation at a very young age, (about 40% of all young girls), then it is domineering mothers, absent fathers or lack of physical love and contact.
So don't bullshit me, or the forum, youse guys, fess up...it ain't me just pointing it out, why shoot the messenger?

amicus...

 

[672]

[/B]

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I quote myself and even put it in bold face, to stuff it in your face...most women, my sample was only about 1500, have no idea what sex is all about...


Of course, that number is not sufficient for a scientific study, but it suits me.

If it isn't abuse or molestation at a very young age, (about 40% of all young girls), then it is domineering mothers, absent fathers or lack of physical love and contact.
So don't bullshit me, or the forum, youse guys, fess up...it ain't me just pointing it out, why shoot the messenger?

amicus...

Don't cry because you fucked cold fish.

Well, that's not a fair response. Here's a nicer one. If men from your time sat and taught women how to enjoy sex, women would learn blowjobs, and how to get the man off first. And because this man previously assumed she couldn't get off anyway, he'd accept a fake orgasm. At least one of them got off, and the girl seems more into the moment.

She's a growing girl. Her orgasm is the last lecture in this course. Trust me.

 

[TheeGoatPig]

I've only been with the one woman, and she claimed to have had orgasms, with me no less. However, she wouldn't even let me try oral on her, which is the exact opposite of the way it is supposed to be...

 

[amicus]

Yeah, sure, 672, 'Cunnilictus and Cunnilingus' are all words we learn in grade school.

(lookem up dummy)

You may find that both are classified as 'perversions',...of course that is only in the dictionary, I am sure modern freaks have their own definitions...


amicus...

 

[amicus]

[QUOTE=TheeGoatPig]I've only been with the one woman, and she claimed to have had orgasms, with me no less. However, she wouldn't even let me try oral on her, which is the exact opposite of the way it is supposed to be...[/QUOTE]

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Goatpig....there is folklore..never trust a woman, in anything...for any reason...at any time...and then...when she does what she swore she would never do...you will have recourse to recovery.

amicus...

 

[cloudy]

[QUOTE=TheeGoatPig]I've only been with the one woman, and she claimed to have had orgasms, with me no less. However, she wouldn't even let me try oral on her, which is the exact opposite of the way it is supposed to be...[/QUOTE]

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Goatpig....there is folklore..never trust a woman, in anything...for any reason...at any time...and then...when she does what she swore she would never do...you will have recourse to recovery.

amicus...

Ah, the meat of the issue. Sorry we frighten you so badly, ami. But then, considering how little you understand women, no wonder we scare the shit outta you.

 

[Guest]

Goatpig....there is folklore..never trust a woman, in anything...for any reason...at any time...and then...when she does what she swore she would never do...you will have recourse to recovery.

amicus...

Well, this just sounds like sour grapes, ami.

What a pity your sex life has never been fulfilling.

 

[TxRad]

another good thread and amicus has totally sidetracked and fucked up.....

I'd opplogize for my gender if he was one of us......

Can anyone spell dinasor..... obviously i can't......

 

[amicus]

[QUOTE=sweetsubsarahh]Well, this just sounds like sour grapes, ami.

What a pity your sex life has never been fulfilling.[/QUOTE]

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Read my stories, dipshit...you don't get away with a cheap shot,, although that may be your only resource, lacking the ability to discuss anything...


amicus...

 

[TxRad]

[QUOTE=sweetsubsarahh]Well, this just sounds like sour grapes, ami.

What a pity your sex life has never been fulfilling.

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Read my stories, dipshit...you don't get away with a cheap shot,, although that may be your only resource, lacking the ability to discuss anything...


amicus...[/QUOTE]


What have your stories to do with real life? Everyone has a fantasy or two, so i guess yours is actually being human..... and sane.... and smart, and ect ect ect.....

 

[Guest]

[QUOTE=sweetsubsarahh]Well, this just sounds like sour grapes, ami.

What a pity your sex life has never been fulfilling.

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Read my stories, dipshit...you don't get away with a cheap shot,, although that may be your only resource, lacking the ability to discuss anything...


amicus...[/QUOTE]

Cheap shot?

You constantly take cheap shots at women and at "queers" as you call 'em - how interesting that you cannot handle any of your own back.

It is impossible to discuss anything with you, ami. You don't know how to have a conversation without resorting to ridicule.

Take your balls and go home, little man.

 

[oggbashan]

Yeah, sure, 672, 'Cunnilictus and Cunnilingus' are all words we learn in grade school...

amicus...

In my equivalent of grade school, yes we did. Latin classes were very informative. We could read the books that weren't available in translation because they were so depraved.

It encouraged our Latin but we were disappointed because, even in Latin, what was described wasn't new knowledge.

Og

 

[amicus]

cloudy]Ah, the meat of the issue. Sorry we frighten you so badly, ami. But then, considering how little you understand women, no wonder we scare the shit outta you.

[/I]

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Ah, cloudy, you don't scare me at all...I just don't trust you to cook my food, care for my children or manage my affairs.

What's more, I sure as hell don't wamt you running things, at any level, which I will enforce once I become in charge of all things.

But before you run off on a tangent of the Amicus's hatred of women, bear in mind a statement I have repeated a hundred times and you continue to ignore,
"I truly respect and love" the true, real aspect of femininity.

From your words in previous posts, I realize that you cannot distance yourself from your upbringing, your environment, or the conditions and situations you find your self in, but perhaps others, in thus public forum, can have an objective viewpoint.

Situational, relativistic ethics and morals cannot provide the answers you seek.

You need a foundation, but neither I, nor anyone else, can provide it for you, you must find it on your own....or not...


sorry to be so personal..


amicus...

 

[cloudy]

[/I]

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Ah, cloudy, you don't scare me at all...I just don't trust you to cook my food, care for my children or manage my affairs.

What's more, I sure as hell don't wamt you running things, at any level, which I will enforce once I become in charge of all things.

But before you run off on a tangent of the Amicus's hatred of women, bear in mind a statement I have repeated a hundred times and you continue to ignore,
"I truly respect and love" the true, real aspect of femininity.

From your words in previous posts, I realize that you cannot distance yourself from your upbringing, your environment, or the conditions and situations you find your self in, but perhaps others, in thus public forum, can have an objective viewpoint.

Situational, relativistic ethics and morals cannot provide the answers you seek.

You need a foundation, but neither I, nor anyone else, can provide it for you, you must find it on your own....or not...


sorry to be so personal..


amicus...

You weren't being personal. You know next to nothing about me, so how you can assume that anything you say about me is "personal" is beyond me. It's strictly conjecture and assumptions. And we all know what happens when you ass-ume.....

Bless your little heart.

(you've lived in the south....I trust you to understand what that truly means)

eta: when did I ever offer to cook your food, care for your children or manage your affairs?

You wouldn't like my cooking....I'm a cannibal, remember?

 

[TxRad]

You weren't being personal. You know next to nothing about me, so how you can assume that anything you say about me is "personal" is beyond me. It's strictly conjecture and assumptions. And we all know what happens when you ass-ume.....

Bless your little heart.

(you've lived in the south....I trust you to understand what that truly means)

eta: when did I ever offer to cook your food, care for your children or manage your affairs?

You wouldn't like my cooking....I'm a cannibal, remember?

My oh My what a sharp stick you have there......

 

[arienette]

Uhhh...Where did the real topic of this thread go? Did it run away? Was it scared of amicus?