Candaulism

[metrifonate]

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I guess not a strict BDSM kink but one that has elements of control and submission.
Coming out of lockdown I started my photographic intrests again. I had been doing some semi-proffesional work, mostly for buisness, agents and some portrait work through a studio I am connected with.
I was contacted by a young girl in her late teens to do some portfolio shots. At first it was just some fashion / lingerie but a week after the shoot she wanted some artistic nude shots. I will admit she is extremely attractive so I gladly did them. She was very 'relaxed' during the shoot. Keen to be naked and exposing her body. It was obvious she enjoyed being exposed and I discussed this with her.
I did another shoot yesterday, she wanted mild bondage, artistic kink which was interesting to say the least. She chatted and sounded me out about various matters., delving into more sexual subjects.
She would like a chaperone, a non-sexual partner for candaulism. She has researched a few events and has found an active group , a society that holds CMNF events. She wants me to take her and 'show her off.'
Has anyone else done anything similar?

 

[Blase]

Talked about this once upon a time with someone I was starting to get involved with on Lit. Circumstances prevented the relationship from really crossing over into real life, but it remains a dream to do something along those lines with the right girl.

 

[metrifonate]

We went to the CMNF event. It was just couples, mostly in their 40s. She loved the ability to spent the evening naked in social setting. The men were reserved, we chatted and enjoyed the event but I guess they were inhibited looking at a very attractive young lady in front of their partners. Other events have single men attending but this won't be until June. I have also organised a couple of photography workshops where she was the model for erotic nude photography. She stayed naked the whole time which the atendees (male) enjoyed. She has also been tomy house and studio and remained naked for extendend periods. We discussed at length scenarios for the future.

 

[Blase]

Sounds like you've found the muse that I am still searching for.

 

[metrifonate]

I should see if she wants to join Lit.

 

[Blase]

If she did, I'd certainly be interested to talk to her. Granted that talking to someone overseas may hold no special appeal when there is so much happening for her in real life.

 

[metrifonate]

I do wonder why she let herself be my muse or at least use me to express her candualism. She very chatty and inquisitve.

 

[Blase]

She sounds terrific. I love chatting, answering questions, and being a guide, when I find a congenial partner.

No disrespect to you, of course: It sounds like the two of you have a great relationship that's bound to get better. But if she has any interest in talking to another sincere candaulist, my inbox is open.

 

[metrifonate]

I'll ask her. She's always keen to chat to people who are open and comfortable with her. For obvious reasons she has to careful with nost people. If ahe doesn't want to join she may give you her email .

 

[metrifonate]

We have met a few times since and had photosessions and she has just hung out with myself or a few men. Last weekend we were joined by a few men for hike , picnic and photosession. She really loved it and the weather was lovely.

 

[slutindianwife]

Candaulism?? Huh????​

 

[grandprix1041]

Vandalism is also a new term to me, explain please.

 

[cowboyup6977]

A word that describe’s me
I thought I was just a show off

 

[grandprix1041]

Vandalism is also a new term to me, explain please.

Supposed to be candaulism

 

[Slappyslapowitz]

This is a kink where you enjoy exposing your partners naked body either in person such as CMNF or in pictures. My wife and I are into this and post pics of her on Reddit from time to time.

 

[Blase]

Every time I run across the term “Candaulism” I have to google it. I think the reason it doesn’t stick in my mind is that the practice is so… normal… that it doesn’t feel like a fetish.

I think most people use the term "fetish" essentially to mean a fixation, so by that definition, even something quite ordinary could become a "fetish" for someone.

Your kink level may be a bit above the mean, though. In my experience, displaying one's partner, or making her available to others, is not exactly ordinary behavior.

 

[Tallcajun]

I’ve wanted to do this with a partner for a long time.

 

[Smtg1]

When other men/women in a forum such as this tell me how sexy my wife is and what they would do to her it's extremely hot.

 

[Sgts19]

This started way way back after we got married. My son came home from shopping with her one day and asked why men were always looking at mommy. It was then I began noticing that it was true they were looking at her. I found myself getting very excited, maybe it was one of those look what I have, and you don't things.

My friend was a photographer and my wife posed many many times for him, naked, clothed, outside, inside, etc etc. Yes down the line we began a long sexual relationship with them which is going a step beyond Candaulism. Someone saw her pictures somewhere and contacted her about doing some local modeling, so she did that for several years. She'd go on these photoshoots, and I'd be hard as steel wondering if she was posing nude or fucking the guy taking pics. (neither happened, or I don't think so). She ended up on the WW web site for a few years and those were pretty much naked if you've seen the suits. I then stumbled onto a web site called Voyerurweb. My friend or I would take pics and send them in for contests they ran, no big tit contests that's for sure. So then she was out there naked for everyone to see, although the WW pics she did pretty much looked nude. Not much material in those suits, if you've seen them. She'd get hundreds of comments on her pictures from the contests she was in and I was like a dog in heat, fuck fuck fuck all the time, couldn't get enough of her. I did meet a with a cpl men from that site that I began chatting with them about her pictures and the usual I'd love to fuck her do this do that with her which I got off on. Even jerked off with one a cpl times on skype looking at her pics.

She hates looking at her old pictures and the way she used to look. All of her framed photos I had in my office have now been replaced with my dogs pictures, it wasn't me who did it. VAIN VAIN VAIN. At 69 she still looks better than most, same weight same height not a gray hair on her. Thats why I get off coming on here, talking about our adventures what we did etc etc still gets me off.

 

[SavannaT]

This started way way back after we got married. My son came home from shopping with her one day and asked why men were always looking at mommy. It was then I began noticing that it was true they were looking at her. I found myself getting very excited, maybe it was one of those look what I have, and you don't things.

My friend was a photographer and my wife posed many many times for him, naked, clothed, outside, inside, etc etc. Yes down the line we began a long sexual relationship with them which is going a step beyond Candaulism. Someone saw her pictures somewhere and contacted her about doing some local modeling, so she did that for several years. She'd go on these photoshoots, and I'd be hard as steel wondering if she was posing nude or fucking the guy taking pics. (neither happened, or I don't think so). She ended up on the WW web site for a few years and those were pretty much naked if you've seen the suits. I then stumbled onto a web site called Voyerurweb. My friend or I would take pics and send them in for contests they ran, no big tit contests that's for sure. So then she was out there naked for everyone to see, although the WW pics she did pretty much looked nude. Not much material in those suits, if you've seen them. She'd get hundreds of comments on her pictures from the contests she was in and I was like a dog in heat, fuck fuck fuck all the time, couldn't get enough of her. I did meet a with a cpl men from that site that I began chatting with them about her pictures and the usual I'd love to fuck her do this do that with her which I got off on. Even jerked off with one a cpl times on skype looking at her pics.

She hates looking at her old pictures and the way she used to look. All of her framed photos I had in my office have now been replaced with my dogs pictures, it wasn't me who did it. VAIN VAIN VAIN. At 69 she still looks better than most, same weight same height not a gray hair on her. Thats why I get off coming on here, talking about our adventures what we did etc etc still gets me off.

So romantic love this for both of you, you knew other men wanted your wife and were all too happy to share her body with them