Hi! It’s been a number of years since I’ve been active on Lit, but I’m back! So, here we go!
I’m seeking an ongoing correspondence with a man (late thirties to fifties) from Ireland or the UK — because I prefer conversation with an accent, a hint of historically repressed tension, and just enough dark, enlightened humour to keep things interesting.
About me:
DWF; mid-thirties; Canadian. Bisexual (if that matters to you).
Slim but fit — think Pilates and hiking boots. I’m active enough to keep my joints lubricated and my heart rate up, mostly so I can enjoy the outdoors (among other activities that involve heavy breathing).
I have three (not small) tattoos — all easily hidden. Because unwrapping tends to make most things more fun.
Currently I’m going through a career change, which means I don’t have the time to date in any traditional sense.
My personality? Somewhere between:
– ‘enough nerd to overthink a pub quiz answer’
– ‘enough debater to try and sway the moderator’
– and ‘too much flirt to take it seriously — because, let’s be honest, the moderator is probably sexy AF and holding all the answers’.
I take cream and sugar in my French press if I can’t get a flat white.
But let’s get very real for a moment: I’ll drink any old drip if it’s hot and caffeinated.
I’m from the prairies, so coastlines are a novelty. These days, I live close enough to the mountains that grassy meadows and parklands feel romantic again.
If you’re curious, emotionally literate, and have a strong preference for long-form conversation over single-sentence replies — I’d love to hear from you!
I love stories with depth, banter with bite, and the kind of slow-burn that builds tension on purpose.
I read often. I write poetry. I collect interests and cultivate hobbies the way a magpie collects shiny things — though I rarely list them unless they’re shared or relevant.
***A summary (or if the above was TL;DR — jk, if that’s you, don’t message me; you’re super not my type):
You: Late 30s to 50s. Clever. Open-minded. Kinky. Based in Ireland or the UK.
Someone who writes with intention; who knows when to say far too much, and when to say just enough to leave me aching for the next line.
Bonus points if you can ruin me for mediocre conversationalists.
I’ll melt if you can make me laugh before my second cup of coffee (thanks, time difference).
Ideally, you’re unattached — but depending on your situation, I’m open-minded.
Meeting is a possibility in the future. But let’s begin with some well-placed words and see where that gets us.
I’m seeking an ongoing correspondence with a man (late thirties to fifties) from Ireland or the UK — because I prefer conversation with an accent, a hint of historically repressed tension, and just enough dark, enlightened humour to keep things interesting.
About me:
DWF; mid-thirties; Canadian. Bisexual (if that matters to you).
Slim but fit — think Pilates and hiking boots. I’m active enough to keep my joints lubricated and my heart rate up, mostly so I can enjoy the outdoors (among other activities that involve heavy breathing).
I have three (not small) tattoos — all easily hidden. Because unwrapping tends to make most things more fun.
Currently I’m going through a career change, which means I don’t have the time to date in any traditional sense.
My personality? Somewhere between:
– ‘enough nerd to overthink a pub quiz answer’
– ‘enough debater to try and sway the moderator’
– and ‘too much flirt to take it seriously — because, let’s be honest, the moderator is probably sexy AF and holding all the answers’.
I take cream and sugar in my French press if I can’t get a flat white.
But let’s get very real for a moment: I’ll drink any old drip if it’s hot and caffeinated.
I’m from the prairies, so coastlines are a novelty. These days, I live close enough to the mountains that grassy meadows and parklands feel romantic again.
If you’re curious, emotionally literate, and have a strong preference for long-form conversation over single-sentence replies — I’d love to hear from you!
I love stories with depth, banter with bite, and the kind of slow-burn that builds tension on purpose.
I read often. I write poetry. I collect interests and cultivate hobbies the way a magpie collects shiny things — though I rarely list them unless they’re shared or relevant.
***A summary (or if the above was TL;DR — jk, if that’s you, don’t message me; you’re super not my type):
You: Late 30s to 50s. Clever. Open-minded. Kinky. Based in Ireland or the UK.
Someone who writes with intention; who knows when to say far too much, and when to say just enough to leave me aching for the next line.
Bonus points if you can ruin me for mediocre conversationalists.
I’ll melt if you can make me laugh before my second cup of coffee (thanks, time difference).
Ideally, you’re unattached — but depending on your situation, I’m open-minded.
Meeting is a possibility in the future. But let’s begin with some well-placed words and see where that gets us.
Lovely to read something thoughtful instead of most posts in here.
And hello to you, too!
