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Aynmair
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This is a two-part question. I was inspired by StrangeLife's thread that in part addressed women writing from a man's POV, and by a bit of fluff I was reading. The very manly male protagonist hales himself back across an ocean and a continent early from a business trip
rolleyes
to ask his new love interest why she faked her orgasm with him. And I've read a few other bits of equally fluffy fluff where a purported uber-Master teaches newbies how to tell when she is faking it.
Now, as a woman, I'm of two minds about this. I would be flattered if a man I was with could actually tell if/when I've faked an orgasm, as it would mean he was really paying attention and could really read me. But, alas, I've never knowingly met such a man... (let's just say I have significant experience). On the other hand, sometimes faking an orgasm is just ... convenient. That's not too romantic but practical.
So, curious as always, my questions are...
1) For men: Can you tell when she's faking an orgasm? Always? Sometimes? Never? Only when you know her well? Do you give a rat's ...? Does it affect your ego and/or do you worry about her?
2) For women: Do you think most men can tell when you're faking it? (darlings, I am sure you've faked it one time or another. Unless you're out-of-this-world lucky.
PS To those who ask what is this question doing on the AH forum, I answer: character development!
Now, as a woman, I'm of two minds about this. I would be flattered if a man I was with could actually tell if/when I've faked an orgasm, as it would mean he was really paying attention and could really read me. But, alas, I've never knowingly met such a man... (let's just say I have significant experience). On the other hand, sometimes faking an orgasm is just ... convenient. That's not too romantic but practical.
So, curious as always, my questions are...
1) For men: Can you tell when she's faking an orgasm? Always? Sometimes? Never? Only when you know her well? Do you give a rat's ...? Does it affect your ego and/or do you worry about her?
2) For women: Do you think most men can tell when you're faking it? (darlings, I am sure you've faked it one time or another. Unless you're out-of-this-world lucky.
PS To those who ask what is this question doing on the AH forum, I answer: character development!
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