Can You Fuck Someone & Remain Emotionally Detached?

[juicylips]

This could be r/l, online, phone..however you fuck.

One time only? A continuous affair?

Is there such a thing as true fuckbuddies only?

Cassidy

 

[perks]

yes I can.

is it as good? no

do I want to......no.

but sometimes..when ya need to fuck.....it's just what the dr. ordered.

 

[Vanyel_Ashke]

This could be r/l, online, phone..however you fuck.

One time only? A continuous affair?

Is there such a thing as true fuckbuddies only?

Cassidy

I suppose you could. But why would you want to?
The emotions are part of the sweetness of it.
I guess I am just not a "Wham, Bam, Thank You Ma'am" kind of guy.

 

[Xander]

Only if you keep it short.

In my experience you can only remain fuck buddies to an extend...at some point it will always turn into an emotional thing, and that usually destroys the whole fuck buddy concept.

but yes I can and I have in the past.

 

[lilminx]

I can, depending on the person. And perky baby is right, it's not as much fun, but for me, sex with someone I'm not emotionally involved with is better than no sex at all.

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

Yes I can, I have done it, but I don't care to anymore.

If I have sex with someone more than a few times then I will probably start to get emotionally involved with them. This is why I want to know someone and like them first before having sex with them, then when I have sex, get hooked on the sex, then get emotionally involved I won't regret it.

 

[erosman]

hello sis

Could I?

Would I?

Should I?











no

 

[StondTmplPilot]

I can't.....It just is not in me

 

[Rubyfruit]

No, and I don't want to either. If the other person isn't there with me, mind, body, heart and soul, it isn't worth the time or effort. I'd rather masturbate.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I want to be with the person for the reason that they turn my head on too, not just my body.......

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

Simple answer

HELL NO

now i've never done it with anyone but that is one of the reasons why the emotion in it.

I want someone how shars feelings I have. that I am someone special to them not just something hard. and they are someone special to me not just another hole to use.

(lol okay the words I used there didn't mean to offend anyone please don't take it the wrong way)

 

[P. B. Walker]

I can and have done it... would I rather not... definitely. Sometimes a good fuck (phone, cyber, RL, whatever) just hits the spot...

- PBW

 

[Siren]

Yea I could fuck someone and remained unattached emotionally

 

[Basia]

This could just be the fact that I've only had one partner talking, but I could never do it. It takes a sort of bond with a person to be able to drop your pants for them, and without that bond, the sex would seem worthless. With the bond, it's like your shareing something very special with the other person, with out the bond, it's just sex...

 

[Summery]

I have had detached emotions in sexual relationships in the past by means of phone, cyber and RL. Do I prefer these relationships? No way. The best sex I ever had was emotionally attached to someone! In my attached relationships they get all of me...mind, body and soul!

 

[Mellon Collie]

This could be r/l, online, phone..however you fuck.

One time only? A continuous affair?

Is there such a thing as true fuckbuddies only?

Cassidy

I have yet to test the theory but I think I can safely say I wouldn't be able nor would I want to.

 

[lavender]

 

[april-wine]

Personally............nope can't do it........

 

[Krankar]

I'm not really sure....

...bend over,,
we'll see...

 

[Svedish_Chef]

Its always going to be beeter with an emotional attachment.

no I couldnt do it...

Even my dick agrees, it wont stand up for anyone that I dont feel some attachment for.

 

[Siren]

Lavy.,,,,,,,,,,,,but but but...............

 

[Ragingbull]

No, and I don't want to either. If the other person isn't there with me, mind, body, heart and soul, it isn't worth the time or effort. I'd rather masturbate.

Ruby, if I owned a couple of grapefruits like those in you av, I'd rather masturbate as well.

As for emotionally detached - hell, you just can't have great sex without emotion. Doesn't mean you have to marry them or bring them home to mama. But if it it isn't eyeball popping, finger scratching, body pounding, head throbbing, squealing, thrashing, grunting, gut wrenching sex then it misses the mark even if you're committed

 

[Rubyfruit]

Ragingbull,

If that package in your boxers was attached to my body, I'd stay home stroking it all day.

 

[Ragingbull]

Shucks, I think we ought to trade for a day. There ought to be a way!

 

[LRC]

NO !