Can you explain your fetish?

teknight

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How do you figure you've got the fetishes you got? What happened to get you to fetishize X?

In other words, what's your story, the one that's brought you here, to this forum?
 
Anal - initially was intrigued when I saw it in films and saw a amateur one that made me want to try it, so happy I did.
Nipple play - it has always felt incredible and was naturally responsive.
Biting play - I have liked it for as long as I can remember, the sensation of soft shoulder or tender neck between your teeth. That one I think I can contribute to my parents. I can recall them play biting us on toes and fingers, etc , nothing sexual or inappropriate. But I am sure that introduced the idea.
 
Curves...

I love curvey women in spandex. Sure those skinny, muscular women I see during my runs are beautiful, but if I see a voluptuous beauty in workout clothes at the gym or on the jogging path I am fixated.
 
I wish I had a more interesting story, but the majority of my fetishes came about the same way: my wife bouncing into the room, ready for love, begins her first sentence to me with the words "listen, go with me on this," or "you want to try something with me?" and then giving me some new experience that I, as a rule, immensely enjoy. It's been that way basically since we first started having sex. My mind's been greatly expanded, because of her.

In fact, the one fetish I brought to the table myself was a general interest in bdsm, and I can't explain that at all, other than curiosity, and even that's not a satisfactory answer... Kind of glad I found a partner who was so into that too.
 
I love curvey women in spandex. Sure those skinny, muscular women I see during my runs are beautiful, but if I see a voluptuous beauty in workout clothes at the gym or on the jogging path I am fixated.
But could you say why? Was there a particular spandex clad woman that once caught your gaze? Or some such?

I'm sort of similar- I like girls in thigh high (or knee high) striped socks. When I realized I had this fetish (and, honestly, it took me by surprise) I couldn't figure out why. I mean, I don't go for the socks in and of themselves (they do nothing for me...teknically, mine is not a fetish, since that's the case, but let's not get teknical, tek)...then I realized that I associated the socks with toned, athletic women, which is my preferred body type.

I wish I had a more interesting story, but the majority of my fetishes came about the same way: my wife bouncing into the room, ready for love, begins her first sentence to me with the words "listen, go with me on this," or "you want to try something with me?" and then giving me some new experience that I, as a rule, immensely enjoy. It's been that way basically since we first started having sex. My mind's been greatly expanded, because of her.

In fact, the one fetish I brought to the table myself was a general interest in bdsm, and I can't explain that at all, other than curiosity, and even that's not a satisfactory answer... Kind of glad I found a partner who was so into that too.
What? A banal story? You're banned from the thread!!! GUARDS!
:D
Nah, it needn't involve James Bond levels of excitement- I'm just asking can you pinpoint why you have the fetishes you have.

Hehehehe. BDSM as a fetish unto itself. :D
 
What? A banal story? You're banned from the thread!!! GUARDS!
:D
Nah, it needn't involve James Bond levels of excitement- I'm just asking can you pinpoint why you have the fetishes you have.

Hehehehe. BDSM as a fetish unto itself. :D

I kind of hoped that there were internet guards, who could teleport to where I am and drag me from my computer. I would have like to have seen that :D

And I mean, hell, if you're after a story about the precise moment a fetish formed... I've got a kind of distracting formalwear fetish, specifically suits. I find that anyone, guy or girl, wearing business attire or the like becomes instantly more attractive to me. This was the main reason my wedding day was so distracting :D But I can remember the day that all started: this would have been rather early on in my courtship of the wife, back when we were still teenagers even. She had invited me along to a wedding as her date, and I was sort of looking forward to seeing what she would wear, as at that time she was an incredible tomboy and I'd never seen her wear a dress before. I also didn't see her wear one that day: she wore a suit. A nice, dark one with a tie and everything.

I hadn't known her for very long at that point, but at that moment I'd never seen anything so beautiful. It wasn't traditionally feminine, but she was so confident and brash and graceful and downright cocky that to me she looked amazing. More than that, she let me take it off her later, and there was a lot of fun to be had slowly stripping off the layers, grabbing hold of the tie... y'all get the picture. From then on, I guess I began realizing: People look good in a well-fitting suit. :)
 
eyeglasses.... square lenses, black or red frames. It started fairly recently, but I couldn't necessarily explain why. It helps if the woman is mature, not oooolllld, just mature. And to really set it off would be a quiet librarian or school teacher.
 
hmmmmm.............interesting thread..........this........I need to ponder........
 
I can't explain my fetishes...I just recently admitted a couple of them to myself...

power play, for one...as in, I am naturally submissive

and it was so obvious, DUH!:rolleyes:
 
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Hell I can't explain what I had for lunch let alone my mixed up fantasies and fetishes.
 
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Lunch

Hell I can't expalin what I had for lunch let alone my mixed up fantasies and fetishes.

Lunch , when was lunch ???
LOL
 
Not sure if it's considered a fetish. But the whole Hot Wife/Cuckold thing probably originates from my ex wife. I had moved out and she had stayed in our home. I had to stop by to pick up some papers and when she answered the door.......................all she had on was a sexy baby doll nightie.

At first I thought she was trying to seduce me. But when she let me in, there was a young guy sitting in MY recliner. At first I was very uncomfortable. He stood up and we shook hands. I got the papers and left. That evening all I could think about was this young stud banging my sexy wife. I probably jerked off 3 times that night.

We ended up getting back together for another try together. And she shared with me some of the things she did while we were apart. It made for some awesome hot times together. But we split up for good not long after.

I've since met my dream gal and married number two. Now she's the one I fantasize about taking a younger lover. Letting me watch and join in.
 
Not sure if it's considered a fetish. But the whole Hot Wife/Cuckold thing probably originates from my ex wife. I had moved out and she had stayed in our home. I had to stop by to pick up some papers and when she answered the door.......................all she had on was a sexy baby doll nightie.

At first I thought she was trying to seduce me. But when she let me in, there was a young guy sitting in MY recliner. At first I was very uncomfortable. He stood up and we shook hands. I got the papers and left. That evening all I could think about was this young stud banging my sexy wife. I probably jerked off 3 times that night.

We ended up getting back together for another try together. And she shared with me some of the things she did while we were apart. It made for some awesome hot times together. But we split up for good not long after.

I've since met my dream gal and married number two. Now she's the one I fantasize about taking a younger lover. Letting me watch and join in.
Have you discussed any of this with her?
 
so lets see.. my fetish.. i've always had a thing for group sex.. couples and such, but even better throwing another man into the mix. dont get me wrong, i'm not into the cuckold scene nor do i care for 'doms' who are only really into getting their jollies off in my wife and taking off. what turns me on most is when another man wants to take the time to enjoy a sexual encounter with both my wife and i. it turns me on to think of us putting wife as the center of our focus making sure every part of her amazing body is cared for and stimulated.. od course i've got this fantasy in my head where im only an inch from watching our friends head slip past my wifes lips and slowly enter her warm, wet tunnel. feeeling the heat from the two of them, the raw scent of sex.. but yeah just my two cent

mr w
 
so lets see.. my fetish.. i've always had a thing for group sex.. couples and such, but even better throwing another man into the mix. dont get me wrong, i'm not into the cuckold scene nor do i care for 'doms' who are only really into getting their jollies off in my wife and taking off. what turns me on most is when another man wants to take the time to enjoy a sexual encounter with both my wife and i. it turns me on to think of us putting wife as the center of our focus making sure every part of her amazing body is cared for and stimulated.. od course i've got this fantasy in my head where im only an inch from watching our friends head slip past my wifes lips and slowly enter her warm, wet tunnel. feeeling the heat from the two of them, the raw scent of sex.. but yeah just my two cent

mr w
:)
Sounds more like 3 cents.
 
My fetish is pretty simple, consensual incest between adults who aren't ashamed of doing it. Who are in fact quite eager to do it as often as possible.

It comes from having experienced consensual incest with my sister when we were younger.

I also like hearing about group sex, orgies, and swinging.

I guess my fetishes are based on normal sex that is made taboo through a twist that does nothing to make the actual sex non-consensual or otherwise deviant in nature. So I'm not into whips or chains or other such things. I'm not into force or coercion. It has to be consensual and it has to be normal sex, but at the same time very taboo. If two related adults have ordinary sex, it is just ordinary sex, but because they are related it becomes hugely taboo. The same with swinging and orgies. Watching your wife get fucked by another man while you're fucking his wife or girlfriend is also very taboo (at least to me), but very ordinary in terms of the actual sex that is happening.
 
My main fetishes come from my first real sexual encounter. When I was a freshman in high school, by dumb luck really, I ended up on a date with a very hot senior girl. We really didn't know anything about each other, so we ended up walking to a park near her house were we talked and joked around. Somehow the topic of sex came up and I admitted that I had nothing in the way of experience. She told me she couldn't believe it. I told here it was true, that I had never even seen a pair of tits in person before. She promptly led me behind some high hedges, lifted her shirt and bra, and let me see and feel her beautiful B cups right then and there. Naturally, being a very happy young man, I was instantly hard as a rock. She saw my pitched tent and told me to take it out. I didn't hesitate to do as she asked, unzipping my pants and pulling my cock out. She told me it was very nice before starting to give me a handjob. As inexperienced as I was, I tried to fondle her tits, which I was thoroughly enjoying while she jerked me off, but the positioning while hiding behind the bushes was awkward. She saw how much I was enjoying her tits, so she instructed me to stand on my knees. She sat down infront of me, her tits right at the level of my cock, and she started rubbing my cock against her tits. I had no idea such a thing as tittyfucking existed, but I was hooked from the beginning. She squeezed her tits together around my cock and I went to town. Being an eager young man, it didn't take me long to explode all over her tits. That first site of my large load all over her beautiful breasts is permanently burned into my head.

Ever since then, my three main fetishes are tittyfucking, cumshots, and exhibitionism/voyeurism
 
I couldn't help laughing out loud to myself when I asked myself this question. I have so many fetishes you would have to say the list is endless. I am sure of only one thing an overactive libido can drive me in many directions. Perhaps it is simply sexual greed.:devil:
 
Jockstraps!!!!!

Coupled with a strong fascination with gender and the mixing and matching of various attributes, I have maniacal fetish for jockstraps and the wearing them making it all the more kinky as I am female.

I was fascinated with jockstraps from the first time I saw my brother wearing one, his cock straining against the pouch. By the time I was a senior in high school, I had to try one, and something about the whole forbiddeness of having a pussy yet wearing this most masculine of garments really got me hot. And while seeing the jock's pouch stretched tight across my pussy, that soon became coupled with seeing what I'd look like with a cock bulge in it. And the sight of a seeing a femme ass framed by the straps of a jock is a thrill

So I just love a female body in a jockstrap, with or without a cock bulge, although seeing a really feminine all girl-girl thing wearing a jock with a packy down in it for a health male basket gets me going. I've had fun with these scenarios.

For jilling-off purposes gay male porn with guys in jocks does it for me too. Love seeing guys getting blown and eaten through a jock pouch.

Yep -- I have a jockstrap fetish and I have it bad

Trap
 
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