Can you experiment with bdsm online?

naxalite0906

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Hello all.. I guess the title of the thread is pretty self explanatory really.. I have always been very curious about bdsm, especially from a sub's point of view as I have often had fantasies and desires about various situations. I was just wondering if it is a good idea, and fun, to experiment with these fantasies further with a domme online. I am very willing and very open minded about things, as well as being eager to find out as much as I can so I know how far I am willing to go and whether I would enjoy these fantasies as much in r/l..

All responses are welcome, thank you so much for reading and please feel free to pm too if you think you can help me..
 
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To answer naxalite's question, yep I think you can experiment with BDSM online. It's great for those who don't get enough (or any) of what they crave at home. After all, it's only harmless fun...:)
 
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naxalite0906 said:
Hello all.. I guess the title of the thread is pretty self explanatory really.. I have always been very curious about bdsm, especially from a sub's point of view as I have often had fantasies and desires about various situations. I was just wondering if it is a good idea, and fun, to experiment with these fantasies further with a domme online. I am very willing and very open minded about things, as well as being eager to find out as much as I can so I know how far I am willing to go and whether I would enjoy these fantasies as much in r/l..

All responses are welcome, thank you so much for reading and please feel free to pm too if you think you can help me..

To give my own opinion on what you originally asked; Most definately online is a wonderful, and SAFE place to explore fantasies and desires. I wish you much growth and sucess in your journey.
 
I can only speak for myself but online BDSM is nowhere as satisfying as the real deal and gets old pretty quickly. I guess it could be a relatively safe way to explore though, for someone who never took the plunge so to speak. Just look out for wanna-be's they can mess you up real bad, especially if you're on the bottom. Read a lot about BDSM first as well, so you have an idea of what interests you. Good luck :)
 
Yes you can experiment with BDSM online. Some find it fulfilling while others don't. It is basically what you make it. Though I do agree with the advice already given to you in previous replies. Do your research first, beware of those wannabes that can do more harm than good. There is a big difference in having an online BDSM/D/s relationship and one in r/l. It is all in what you are looking for. I say go ahead, explore it online. You might be amazed at what you learn about yourself. Good luck!
 
Yes you can....

Chance is a Lady said it well .... many players an wannabes and worse abound now in the proliferation of online groups/personnas, as well as in real life too There are many good groups online to help you in personal exploration and in winnowing out the chaff an riff-raff that all to often abounds in here < online in general> Livi9ng an exploring within the D/s BDSM lifestyle for many many yrs taught me much yet once discoverd the online ver needed to relearn things re myself anew an thus in the process have met many fine Dom(me)s an subs that also share teach an help others learn an grow within this lifestyle too HAve a few sites an communities you may find of interest as well as links to articles an pages with good info both in ur explorations an keeping ur self safe feel free to IM or email me anytime an wish u well upon ur search ...
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I totally agre that online BDSM interest is a great way to go. I had a male sub from the UK for about 2 years. It was wonderful. Although life has led us in different directions, I'll never forget what we had. You can explore your desires safely and if it works theres always a chance of setting up a RL meeting to explore it further.
 
Thank you everyone for posting and being so positive about it, now all I need is someone to help me explore it more :)
 
Ok.. Came across this again and wanted to bump it to see if there was anyone out there willing to help me continue in my journey. I have learnt a little more about myself, now considering myself to be more of a switch so any f subs looking to explore, or any dommes looking for a cheeky, bratty sub then please feel free to pm me :)
 
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