can one like two people at once?

[paganangel]

just a question for the populace. no reason...really..just curious.
just would like to know, if one WERE involved with two people, what is the bestcourse of action?

 

[perks]

yes, you can like two people at once. The course of action depends on your ultimate goal. What do you want from each person and what do they want from you.

You can plan a journey with two seperate destinations, but you'll probably end up in a whole different place entirely.

 

[lobito]

that it is THEIR business, not mine.

Can someone have relationships with two or more? Yep. Can you love them the same? Yep.

 

[juicylips]

It would depend on what you mean by involved.

Just sex?? Has the words "I Love You" been said?

How long has it been going on and what are the expectations of each person.

Cassidy

 

[VanB]

Paganangel

It *is* possible to love 2 people at once but it is very complicated. How you deal with it depends on your circumstances.

 

[Wiggles]

What do the other people in the relationship think about it?

Do they think it's serious? Are they dating/seeing others?

Are you hurting their feelings? Would they be hurt if they knew?

I think the 'person' in that situation would have to answer these questions and do what 'he/she' thought would be best for these people he cares about.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Depends on the deepth of the realtionship you have with them. Too complicated an issue to give any real answer here......

But I would say that some people see different things in people and can not find it in one alone..... don't know if that makes for good "honest" relationships or not ????????

 

[Guest]

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[Laci]

Its possible but if you just ask yourself would one of these people really love you if they were doing certain things that could hurt you behind your back.

 

[Violette]

Isn't it amazing...

With one person, you can be as kinky as you can get, but when two people are involved, all of a sudden, you have to be REAL careful!

Yes, it is very possible to be involved with two people at once (and have a HELL of a lot of fun in the process!). But it's vital that all parties are on the same wavelength whether you're with one or the other. Once a committment's been established, like it or not, SOMEbody's going to get hurt!

So, as long as there's no exclusivity involved, enjoy your lone-wolf ways! But if you are seeing someone in addition to having a relationship, just let me leave you with TWO words of warning:
LORENA BOBBITT!

 

[paganangel]

thanx

i just needed a little vindication. i really know i shouldn't feel guilty, but i do. there hasn't been any expressed commitment and the l word hasn't yet been mentioned.
thanx again