Can I Cum (ejaculate) with only Anal Sex???

[cream1rst]

So I just purchased a Red Rider harness with dildo and obviously can't wait to use it. Has anyone ever used it?

Furthermore AND most importantly, how can u cum with just anal penetration? I would love to achieve a giser flow of cum exploding from my dick while being "piped" from the Red Rider.

Anyone have any videos, advice , literature on how to achieve this?? Thanks for the help and as always I will update with my experience!

 

[Kim_Burly]

Finally, a topic that I am truly well qualified to answer. I can address this from two perspectives. First, watching my husband, Sir, take other men. For a while, not long after we were married we played with other couples (we no longer do). Sir, being who he is, is always the Alpha male in any given mix of people (sexually I mean, socially, he is "normal").

So, I have seen him take several men anally, and he could almost always make them cum from the penetration alone. Yes, he is large and he has good stamina, but that is not what matters, he claims that he can feel the prostate with the head of his penis. It sounds crazy, but after a minute or two, he finds the sweet spot and the man starts dribbling a steady drip, drip of cum and most cases, the man comes in what I would say is around 5 more minutes. What still surprised was that the guys were sometimes flaccid or semi-erect when they come, I understand this is common, but it is still counter-intuitive to me. Keep in mind that he has one speed for thrusting, fast, he starts that way and finishes that way, so he is really strumming that prostate.

The other aspect is that while he would never be on the receiving end from another man, he enjoys me making love to him wearing a strap on. We started with the largest Feeldoe that they made at the time, which I was very good with and I could make myself come with, as well as him. Now, since he prefers something larger, we use a conventional strap on. We do it two ways, most commonly, it is the missionary position with me on top. I have become very good at making him come, I know the angle and depth to use to ride right over his prostate. I can tell because after 3-4 minutes of hitting the right spot he starts pushing out lots of precum with each thrust. From there I need to really increase the tempo for another five minutes. He can be erect the entire time, other times he will start out semi-erect and be erect only right before his orgasm. He always makes a lot of precum and has voluminous orgasms, so when we do this it's quite messy.

So, to me, it is all in the technique, if you stimulate the prostate strongly enough, and you pace is right, I think your partner will be able to make you come without either one of you having to touch your penis. It will take time and communication, but you can do it.

 

[MissJW]

My husband has dry orgasms through his prostate, most often multiple orgasms if I keep on going long enough. He does ooze lots of fluid throughout the process, but for him it's not the same as ejaculating from penis stimulation.

The more he gets prostate orgasms the less he wants to experience ejaculation. He still enjoys it very much, but says it feels sort of shallow and bland compared to a proper prostate orgasm. So his ejaculation is more for my pleasure only, as are his erections too. His serious, personal kicks come from anal play, which is fair enough.

He was able to enjoy prostate o's after he learned to separate ejaculation from prostate orgasm and penis stim from prostate stim. That happened by never having the two together. It's totally normal not be erect during prostate stim, which is something I think many guys get freaked out by. My hubby says the best orgasms happen when you're just flopping about!

Nowadays when he knows both ways to orgasm, I enjoy giving him the two at once. That is the way to get him to scream and see stars, which he adores at the moment, yet it leaves him exhausted in a bad way. He loves his multiple o's, so combined stimulation is - once again - mainly for my pleasure.

 

[KinkyGAGuy]

As Kim mentioned it is about technique and pace. But yes it can happen, for me it depends on the pace of thrusting, correct angle, best for me is on my back, legs elevated. For me, it is best if I am totally relaxed, she has already got my ass muscles to relax with a vibrator or her fingers. She has great technique, and really gets off on strap on play.

Usually I will produce a lot of fluid at first, then will ooze for while, and can have multiple dry orgasms.If she is jerking me off while she is fucking me, and she has the timing just right, I will just explode, but then I am totally drained, which is no fun for her.

So she would rather we don't finish that way. She likes to get me to a point where my prostate has been milked, I have had a prostate orgasm, not a penile orgasm, then she will insert my prostate massager, and it is time for me to fuck her.

 

[cream1rst]

I do appreciate the good feedback! I'm going to do some exploring today later on and I honestly can't wait. I came good last night so I'm curious to see how much I produce, I hope it's a lot. I'll be sure to share though.

 

[Peach102]

Having just purchased a prostate massager, this thread is of particular interest to me. Have only used it a couple of time and no actual orgasm. I will say it feels quite nice as time goes on. I guess I have to just keep at it and get the technique down.

 

[KinkyGAGuy]

Having just purchased a prostate massager, this thread is of particular interest to me. Have only used it a couple of time and no actual orgasm. I will say it feels quite nice as time goes on. I guess I have to just keep at it and get the technique down.

Just have patience! Block out some time in a day to just relax, turn the lights down low, put on some nice relaxing music. Put the massager in and just relax, let your problems go, work the massager until you find the spot, when you find it repeat the technique. Flex your pelvic muscles while you do it. Find that place in your mind, that puts you at peace.

If you are tense, stressed, or thinking about all the other things, it most likely will not happen. If you are in a hurry , it won't happen.

If you have a partner that can help you, even better. I particulary like it when she massages my whole body while the prostate massager is in me humming away.

 

[awired50]

Sometimes when you have a prostate orgasm, you are not erect. It can also be more of an overflow than a shooting ejaculation. I have experienced both. It depends on the device in my case.

 

[cream1rst]

Sometimes when you have a prostate orgasm, you are not erect. It can also be more of an overflow than a shooting ejaculation. I have experienced both. It depends on the device in my case.

I'm looking forward to achieving this! cant wait and I'll definitely share my experience with you all.

 

[awired50]

I'm looking forward to achieving this! cant wait and I'll definitely share my experience with you all.

It is worth the effort

 

[cream1rst]

Also what's the best position for penetration??

 

[awired50]

Also what's the best position for penetration??

I am usually on my back. One leg bent. But others work also.

 

[cream1rst]

Sometimes when you have a prostate orgasm, you are not erect. It can also be more of an overflow than a shooting ejaculation. I have experienced both. It depends on the device in my case.

I am usually on my back. One leg bent. But others work also.

On your back 1 leg bent huh.. Any illustrations? I know I'm asking a lot but just very curious and especially VERY HORNY!

 

[awired50]

On your back 1 leg bent huh.. Any illustrations? I know I'm asking a lot but just very curious and especially VERY HORNY!

Sent you a link. Also check out the blog for more info.

 

[MissJW]

Also what's the best position for penetration??

We usually do it with hubby on his back, legs spread and bent. When he does it alone he bents his other leg for easier insertion but very often then lies legs straight throughout the massage, sometimes a pillow beneath his bum. That way he can relax and just let it flow.

 

[cream1rst]

We usually do it with hubby on his back, legs spread and bent. When he does it alone he bents his other leg for easier insertion but very often then lies legs straight throughout the massage, sometimes a pillow beneath his bum. That way he can relax and just let it flow.

Sounds good! I'll be practicing. I also was just thinking, since my dildo is curved upwards should I be focusing on one position versus another? Want to make sure I hit the p spot of course.

 

[newcouple1128]

Wow, never knew this was possible. I guess the wife and I have a new thing to try out.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

I would find this most appealing to cause to another guy....make him cum just by reaching his prostate.

A different take would be to feel my cock hit his prostate, especially if he is inside someone else at the same time. The idea of him sandwiched between us, though that's separate from pure prostate, which would probably be one-on-one.

 

[Mr. Briggs]

Wow, never knew this was possible. I guess the wife and I have a new thing to try out.

Absolutely mind blowing

 

[awired50]

Absolutely mind blowing

10X as powerful as a normal ejaculation !

 

[Y_Diner]

Want what is called a male Super Anal Orgasm? Reviews say the best product on the market is the Aneros Progasm. Look it up. See videos.... This is not pegging per se...meant to be inserted, and then left alone for about 20 minutes....

 

[awired50]

Want what is called a male Super Anal Orgasm? Reviews say the best product on the market is the Aneros Progasm. Look it up. See videos.... This is not pegging per se...meant to be inserted, and then left alone for about 20 minutes....

Lots of info in the Aneros Forums from everyday users.

 

[Mr. Briggs]

Lots of info in the Aneros Forums from everyday users.

I've seen that. the aneros way didn't work for me. I don't like their toys. Vibes work way better for me.

 

[awired50]

I've seen that. the aneros way didn't work for me. I don't like their toys. Vibes work way better for me.

The Aneros Vice has a vibe.

 

[Luv2SukMOff]

For me...

Also what's the best position for penetration??

As a submissive bottom, I eagerly receive my male lovers in any position THEY prefer!

But, when they allow ME the choice, the position I prefer most, and have most often enjoyed the "no hands" climax in, is on my knees on the bed, my face on the coverlet, legs wide apart and ass held high and vertically aligned with the edge of the mattress. I prefer this position for a number of reasons...

First, this "head low and ass high" position just naturally spreads the ass open to allow excellent penetration by the top man. But, even better, this position leaves the bottom's hands free to easily reach behind to grasp the ass cheeks and pull the anus open even wider, affording easy and pain-free penetration!

Second, this position allows the bottom to spread his legs either more or less, adjusting the anus height perfectly to match the crotch height of the top, a very important thing to me as I have male lovers who range in height from about 5'5" to 6'4". Again, this position affords the quickest and most direct penetration for the top man standing behind, at the perfect height!

Finally...and to me, THE most important reason for choosing this position for anal sex...it allows my lover to fuck me with him standing, giving him the most leverage to fuck me exceptionally hard and deep, the way I prefer to be taken! And, believe me, a man who is standing to fuck, can fuck harder and deeper than you can imagine! And I LOVE it this way!

I also find this position gives plenty of good cock/prostate contact, no matter which direction a lover's penis may be curved, and I often climax without touching my cock or even being fully erect! So, for me, this position works best!