Can a slut count?

[Shankara20]

On the way to work today I was listening to an audio-book on my Ipod (a Christmas gift for my kids). It is a spy story and the hero stated that he could not remember the number or the names of all the people he had killed. Being the sick slut that I am my mind started to list the people I have had sex with – it was going well up until the time I started to experiment with my sexual identity with same-sex partners. Then I joined that pan-sexual BDSM community and experienced more than one pile-o-bodies play times.

Hell, now I cannot even get an accurate count on the number of people I have had sex with let alone their names.

How ‘bout you? (use your own definition of “had sex with”)

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

hmmmm

accurate count?

66 men (I think)
15 women..

however of the 66 men only 8 of them ever received a blow job from me
(all the women received intimate care..*grin*)

and I have only ever kissed 4 men in my life...
(all the women got kisses)

How's that for a count?

 

[gingermango]

I know the names - the count isn't that high. But though the numbers are low, I've had a HELL of a lot of fun! I've always gone for quality over quantity.

 

[caela]

My numbers are low so it's easy to remember all the names. I've only recently begun experimenting with my sexuality outside the realm of my fantasies so how long those numbers will remain low and countable I don't know. For awhile yet I'm sure.

 

[Netzach]

what's "sex?" for the purpose of records-keeping accuracy?

 

[Shankara20]

what's "sex?" for the purpose of records-keeping accuracy?

"How ‘bout you? (use your own definition of “had sex with”) "

for this - what ever you call it....

The way I see it - if someone is setting in the car with me and plays with my nipples while I whack off, well that is "had sex with" - if I am thinking about someone while whacking off this does not count.

If I am at a sex club and I whack off in a room full of people but no one is directly involved with me - that does not count as "had sex with"

If I am whacking off while reading and posting to Lit, I'm alone. If i'm having cyber with someone with IM or web-video, wellll???

If you get-off while being flogged, wellll???

you make the call.....

run your numbers up or hide your little slut - you make the call...

 

[leeroy jenkins]

Well its hard to forget because of the sheer fact I have had a limited amount of opportunity to have it. Unlike most guys I want sex to be an expression of feelings not just fucking.

 

[chris9]

You should've made it a public poll, so we could see who are sluts

 

[NemoAlia]

You should've made it a public poll, so we could see who are sluts

To satisfy your prurience, chris9, I'll admit I'm a slut.

I think I have an accurate count in my head...

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

Here we go Shank ready ?

1......2......3.........4..........5..........9.........7.........11..........14.............6..........5

Ohhh I already said that didn't I

sighs.............

You be the Judge

 

[Recidiva]

Eight. Including three husbands. I know all the names.

 

[shy slave]

I didn't always know their names

I thought thats what the word 'darling' was invented for

As for numbers, I never did learn to count.

 

[Chicklet]

I remember their names... I think that's half of the intimacy.

I had sex with one boyfriend for a few years, then for two weeks I was a total slut and upped my numbers quite a bit, then another boyfriend for about a year, a third boyfriend for five years, and now I'm sleeping with another guy. I had sex with a few girls in there, too, but usually with the boyfriend

 

[graceanne]

That's easy. I can rememer his name. I even know where he is today. For that matter he's going to be home in 7 days.

 

[FurryFury]

Defining sex as intercourse, it's only been four people for me but I can't remember one of those guys names for some reason, or his face, just some of the fucking, some of the nice things and some of the bad.

Defining sex as everything but intercourse would run the number up and also increase the number of people whose names I can't remember. I can usually remember locations, the park, a car, parents house, his apartment, movie theater, hotel room, beach and all that jazz as well as what we did, which was an extremely limited list in those days. They were VERY nice, very generous with what they did for me. *sighs and grins* I did know their names, once . . . it was all soooo long ago though!

However I don't define myself as a slut at all, just saying . . .

Fury

 

[Shankara20]

You should've made it a public poll, so we could see who are sluts

I sat with that question for some time before hitting the "submit" button. Figured if I did there would be a lot less votes....


Say - do Tops ever have a problem with selecting the "submit" button? Just wondering....

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

hmmm I guess I had the most accurate count...

(or at least, for the numbers, I was the least embarrassed by them)

 

[m wisdom]

...
Say - do Tops ever have a problem with selecting the "submit" button? Just wondering....

http://www.savvieandlacey.com/comics/snl20010900.gif

Savvie and Lacey

 

[FurryFury]

I LOVE pushing that "submit" button!!!

How silly is that?

Fury

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

........quickly hides the remote.........

 

[RJMasters]

hmmmm

accurate count?

66 men (I think)
15 women..

however of the 66 men only 8 of them ever received a blow job from me
(all the women received intimate care..*grin*)

and I have only ever kissed 4 men in my life...
(all the women got kisses)

How's that for a count?

Does a kiss probability check with my calculator...

~Throws calculator and smashes it against the wall~

Dang thing must be broken.

 

[Vixandra]

I know the names of everyone I've had sex with.

But then, I tend to be of the "if there's no love, there's no nookie" persuasion.

 

[Thrall_67]

Ok ........Here goes..........

i know i am into the triple digits - several years ago i was at a pj party with some of my girlfriends and we all wrote out the number of people we had sex with (oral, anal or vaginal) and my list was the longest . It was 77.
i couldn't remember all the names but was able to remember all the incidents (ie - the guy i gave a blow job to in the back of a club in Cancun - it was the tequila i swear!!!!
Since then i've been involved with several BDSM groups, went to an all girl play party last year and there were 17 of us chickees - being part of groups has driven the number up significantly.
i also have this "Alphabet Summit" thing goin' on - still looking for an Xavier and a Quinton (or a Xena and a Quira......... ) to complete the round....

er, uh, does this make me a slut????

 

[babiesmiles]

You should've made it a public poll, so we could see who are sluts

Yeah I remember all the names and number ( but not saying )

BTW it's the second time I read a similar thought today

I could get used to that compliment tho

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

Does a kiss probability check with my calculator...

~Throws calculator and smashes it against the wall~

Dang thing must be broken.

YOU would most definately get a kiss..you are my cheerleader...with a capital *C*