Can a domme love the experience as much as the sub ?

[ChemistryNine]

My name is Mike and I am with a wonderful, beautiful and dominant woman named Sarah. Actually she is not traditionally dominant nor am I traditionally submissive but our sex life does revolve around worshiping her and humiliating(not exactly the right word but close enough) me. It is an incredible sex life. It is the best sex I have ever experienced by 10,000 times. The reason it is so good for me has nothing really to do with the actual physical sex. My turn on is all mental ( well mostly ).

I am really curious to know if dominate women or dominate people in general can possibly enjoy the sex as much as the submissive. I cant imagine that they can but I would love to know.

I think part of my disbelief is that the things that turn me on so much are rather non-traditional. For instance I love to kneel in front of her ( both naked ) and masturbate in front of her while talking to her. I tell her how much I love her, howbeautiful she is, how grateful I am for her to let me touch her, ect....To me this is an incredible turn on. I mean incredible. So I am very curious to know if she could love it as much as me. Could a dominante woman love that experience as much as the submissive ? She tells me she does but I just dont know if that is possible. Wht do you think ? Can a domme love the experience as much as the sub ?

 

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My name is Mike and I am with a wonderful, beautiful and dominant woman named Sarah. Actually she is not traditionally dominant nor am I traditionally submissive but our sex life does revolve around worshiping her and humiliating(not exactly the right word but close enough) me. It is an incredible sex life. It is the best sex I have ever experienced by 10,000 times. The reason it is so good for me has nothing really to do with the actual physical sex. My turn on is all mental ( well mostly ).

I am really curious to know if dominate women or dominate people in general can possibly enjoy the sex as much as the submissive. I cant imagine that they can but I would love to know.

I think part of my disbelief is that the things that turn me on so much are rather non-traditional. For instance I love to kneel in front of her ( both naked ) and masturbate in front of her while talking to her. I tell her how much I love her, howbeautiful she is, how grateful I am for her to let me touch her, ect....To me this is an incredible turn on. I mean incredible. So I am very curious to know if she could love it as much as me. Could a dominante woman love that experience as much as the submissive ? She tells me she does but I just dont know if that is possible. Wht do you think ? Can a domme love the experience as much as the sub ?

It sounds like you have a wonderful relationship going. And the answer to your question, from my perspective anyway, is Yes, Dominant women DO enjoy the sex as much as their subs. It's a tremedous turn on to have a sub, kneeling at your feet, craving to serve his mistress. Willing to do anything to please her. Knowing she can control his every touch, his every lick, kiss, and even his pleasure. It's the mind control that is very arousing as well as the physical. So yes Mike, Dominant women DO get very aroused by the experience. At least, "This" Dominant one does.

 

[ChemistryNine]

Thank you for the great answer. I do hope she and you and all female dommes get as turned on as I do.